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Should Christians boycott businesses that financially support groups that run counter to God's laws? Why do people compromise so easily ... (1:01) - John Townsend

Are there evil people or just really mixed up people? (1:46) - John Townsend

God predestined some of us to go to heaven and some to go to hell. As believers we have a ... (1:44) - John Townsend

In your presentation, you focused on what most clinicians identify as bio-chemical causes for depression. You mentioned counseling and anti-depressants ... (1:48) - John Townsend

My husband is a new Christian and has asked me a question that I am having a hard time answering. ... (1:11) - John Townsend

My teenage son claims to be saved, but blames God for sin. How can we convince him otherwise? (3:14) - John Townsend

Please address the scandal hitting the evangelical community with the hypocrisy of one of our leading pastors. (1:43) - John Townsend

With all the new information about sexual addiction and classes offered to men like Everyman's Battle, some men in our ... (1:52) - John Townsend

My husband is the Pastor at the small church we planted four years ago. I have been the 'volunteer' secretary ... (2:03) - John Townsend

I am a male pastor and my ministry assistant is female. Our work requires us to spend a great deal ... (4:59) - Henry Cloud

How do you release someone in Ministry? (1:09) - John Townsend

I planted a church 3 years ago and I am afraid it will go under due to my personal family ... (1:44) - Henry Cloud

Our church just recently went through a major time of turmoil where about 1/4th of our congregation pulled out. Very ... (2:14) - John Townsend

What are some really good resources for helping church leaders in dealing with interpersonal conflict among their team members? (1:31) - John Townsend

What guidelines would you have for our elders in a counseling role in our church? (2:44) - John Townsend

I am a senior pastor at a church and do some short-term counseling. My question is: "What are some responsibility ... (2:25) - John Townsend

I have a 50 yr old woman in my church that recently told me in private that she travels between ... (2:03) - John Townsend

My girlfriend that I dated for 3 years, 10 years ago, recently divorced her husband to get back with me. ... (2:13) - Henry Cloud

My mother passed away and my dad is an abusive alcoholic. I've never dealt with a single problem in my ... (2:10) - John Townsend

How do you deal with someone who feels personally attacked by almost every comment? I love this person and want ... (3:23) - Henry Cloud

Should I be concerned that the woman I have been with for 17 years runs from our problems and confides ... (2:43) - Henry Cloud

How can I help my stepchildren establish boundaries with their unstable father? (3:02) - John Townsend

Do the principles in your book Boundaries hold true when dealing with people with mental disorders? (1:27) - John Townsend

My pastor's wife is very controlling and feels like she needs to know all of my personal struggles. Is it ... (2:23) - John Townsend

Is it ever appropriate to use swear words? Some people don't seem to know how to put a sentence together ... (1:42) - Henry Cloud

What can you do when loved ones completely lack empathy for one another or have an unapologetic attitude? (2:40) - John Townsend

My partner of almost 4 years talks about his ex-wife all the time. They parted 13 years ago. I asked ... (3:35) - Henry Cloud

Why do relationships fail? (1:32) - John Townsend

I received a late night phone call from my single parent group leader. I think he was hitting on me ... (1:34) - John Townsend

What is the best response to people who start to gossip to you? (1:55) - John Townsend

My widowed mother-in-law is not a safe driver anymore but doesn't seem to realize it. What is the very kindest ... (3:04) - Henry Cloud

Why do I seem to attract selfish, unreliable, egotistical people? I don't want to change my personality but I do ... (3:05) - Henry Cloud

In all my relationships (parents, friends, husband and in-laws) there is a pattern of treating me poorly. I get a ... (2:10) - John Townsend

I've shared personal details of my life with my Pastor and then he communicates details of what I've shared on ... (1:37) - John Townsend

My son's girlfriend told me that her mother is gay and is in a long-term on-again off-again relationship with another ... (1:18) - John Townsend

I have a friend that sent out a letter to all family members who they felt had done hurtful things ... (2:52) - John Townsend

How should I respond to a friend who is constantly offended when I disagree with her or offer an opinion ... (3:20) - Henry Cloud

What is a good definition of a perpetrator? (1:44) - John Townsend

There is a man who is involved with kids at our church who is a suspected child abuser. I reported ... (2:12) - Henry Cloud

A man is pursuing me who is a recovering alcoholic. He has been sober for 13 years (never married and ... (2:46) - Henry Cloud

A meaningful dating relationship has ended and I'm feeling emotionally drained. On the one hand I know I need time ... (1:35) - John Townsend

I have been mutually attracted to this guy in my church for two years. We kissed and it changed things. ... (1:33) - John Townsend

How important do you believe physical attraction is in getting a date? (4:23) - Henry Cloud

My boyfriend's mother is bipolar. Her overall attitude on life is negative and she is always blaming others. ... (2:29) - John Townsend

My boyfriend is so busy with his job that he never has any time for me, or even himself. How ... (2:03) - John Townsend

This man told me he liked me and I turned him down. I have since realized I have feelings for ... (2:33) - Henry Cloud

I have had an on-again off-again relationship for the past couple of years. He wants to get back together again, ... (2:41) - Henry Cloud

My boyfriend recently confessed to me that he had an affair with his ex girlfriend. He claims the reason he ... (1:46) - John Townsend

My boyfriend lies occasionally about small things and is clingy. Are the lying and insecurities something that he can change? ... (1:57) - Henry Cloud

How does dating differ from courtship? (2:56) - John Townsend

My girlfriend seems to get upset over the smallest things. She said she doesn't even know why she cries most ... (2:34) - John Townsend

I was recently at a conference featuring Dr. Cloud and he told the story of one lady who went from ... (4:15) - Henry Cloud

I have been in a relationship with a guy with a borderline personality disorder. He has read your Boundaries books ... (1:19) - John Townsend

My husband died 3 years ago. I have two children who are 7 & 9 now. I would like to ... (1:52) - John Townsend

One of my friends is about to buy a ring for his girlfriend but he's got doubts about their relationship. ... (2:16) - John Townsend

How picky should I be about first dates? I turn them down sometimes for a wide range of reasons - ... (1:17) - John Townsend

How would I know if a man in my single parent group is interested in me? What does it mean ... (2:37) - John Townsend

Is it OK to not want to be friends with an ex-boyfriend? (1:51) - John Townsend

My friend's male friend came 3000 miles to visit her. Every time he walks by, he touches her in some ... (1:52) - John Townsend

I met a man (54 years old) 2 months ago that is just finalizing his divorce. He was married 25+ ... (2:50) - Henry Cloud

How do I go from "dating" someone to "just friends" emotionally until we are both ready for something more? ... (4:11) - Henry Cloud

Should a man tell the woman on the first date that he is just dating to have fun and meet ... (2:18) - Henry Cloud

I just learned my fiance is gay. Even though he was lying to himself, I feel like I should have ... (2:56) - John Townsend

Is it bad to never allow a man to buy you anything unless you are married to each other or ... (2:45) - John Townsend

How can you move on after a relationship has ended? (2:34) - John Townsend

What do you think about a dating service just for people who are or have been in therapy? I want ... (1:23) - John Townsend

I have recently gained 45 pounds as the result of an illness. I have gotten back into contact with an ... (3:13) - Henry Cloud

I don't know why whenever my boyfriend wants to spend time with other people, I feel uncomfortable. I know I ... (2:46) - John Townsend

I am in a long-distance relationship, but he does not call me. He will only send me a text message ... (1:46) - John Townsend

I am still in love with my childhood sweetheart. He says he loves me, but we are both studying ... (1:56) - John Townsend

I've been dating a women for 18 months. How do I know if I'm in love with her in a ... (1:57) - John Townsend

I love someone, and she said she loved me too. Now she says she never loved me. I want only ... (1:56) - John Townsend

I was just at one of your singles retreat. You said we should date 20 people. I am 59 years ... (1:29) - John Townsend

I seem to only focus on the negative aspects of my dating relationships. How can I notice the good in ... (2:22) - John Townsend

I am considering getting married. My boyfriend was married before and still has strong feelings for his ex-wife. Is this ... (2:21) - Henry Cloud

In this day and age, is it appropriate to do a background check on someone you are dating or considering ... (1:53) - John Townsend

It seems to me that single woman are looking for Jim Carrey and Tom Cruise all wrapped up in ... (1:18) - John Townsend

I have been dating a great man for 6 months. He has met my parents, but I have yet to ... (2:54) - Henry Cloud

I'm not sure I want to marry, but I desire intimacy and a healthy relationship. Does that always involve marriage? (2:30) - John Townsend

After years of isolation as a single parent, how do I rediscover who I am and what I want from ... (2:01) - John Townsend

I would like to be married but I seem to find a lot of reasons to not pursue potential partners. ... (3:11) - John Townsend

In a dating relationship, is there an appropriate point to reveal something from my life that could have a serious ... (2:01) - John Townsend

I think I am in love with my boyfriend. He asked me how I feel about him but I really ... (1:56) - John Townsend

I have been burned from too many secrets in my boyfriend relationships. From those experiences, I learned to be ... (1:28) - John Townsend

It seems that sex outside of marriage is more and more acceptable. Can you give me some thoughts about sex ... (2:43) - John Townsend

My boyfriend and I began our relationship with lust and heavy breathing. How do I pull back and begin anew? (3:27) - Henry Cloud

I am a 20-year-old male virgin. I can't seem to get over the fact that my current girlfriend didn't wait ... (1:54) - John Townsend

What are some good physical boundaries my boyfriend and I can set? We don't want to have sex until we ... (3:23) - Henry Cloud

Will God allow you to fall in love with someone who wasn't meant to be your spouse? (1:56) - John Townsend

How do you know if a man loves you or is just stringing you along? (2:51) - Henry Cloud

I have a history of being a poor judge of character, particularly when choosing men. Where do I start so ... (2:45) - Henry Cloud

I tend to think I am in love and get swept away so easily. One minute I say "I love ... (3:15) - Henry Cloud

What is a reasonable time frame in a dating relationship for the partners to decide jointly how weekends are spent? (1:04) - John Townsend

What do I do to overcome my fear of commitment or fear of failure in choosing or being chosen by ... (3:25) - Henry Cloud

I'm in my forties and dating again. I look for chemistry but the chemistry seems to appear only with the ... (4:07) - Henry Cloud

I really think I have dealt with my anger about my parent's divorce, but how do I learn to trust ... (4:10) - Henry Cloud

I struggle with my weight. I am about 30 pounds overweight. I am single and would love to be in ... (2:29) - John Townsend

I am single and have been trying to meet new people by going to more social gatherings. The problems is ... (2:55) - John Townsend

What's the best way to get over a broken heart? (3:56) - Henry Cloud

My husband criticizes me in public. What can I do to make him stop? (4:40) - John Townsend

Before I was married I had multiple sexual relationships, but my spouse did not. When we're intimate, I still have ... (3:17) - John Townsend

My fiance is Jewish, and I am a Christian. What is the best way for me to get through ... (1:35) - Henry Cloud

Should I tell my fiance that I had an abortion when I was younger? It was years before I ... (2:08) - Henry Cloud

My husband and I are separated and he is still very involved with our children and house maintenance. However, he ... (2:14) - John Townsend

My fiance and I are currently planning a wedding. We met with the pastor and he had opinions about ... (2:18) - Henry Cloud

What is the best thing to do when you feel you are the only one working at the relationship? (2:21) - John Townsend

I'm a divorced, single parent with a 16 year old daughter. I've tried to set standards for her dating, but ... (1:57) - John Townsend

What is a good age for a daughter/son to start dating? (2:12) - John Townsend

What are the basic rules parents should have and enforce when their children reach dating age? (1:53) - John Townsend

Should dating rules be the same for a son and a daughter? (1:54) - John Townsend

I'm a divorced mother of two daughters, ages 10 and 13. I've been divorced for 5 years and haven't even ... (3:21) - Henry Cloud

Our eighteen year old daughter is starting to date. How can we help her know what a healthy dating prospect ... (2:59) - Henry Cloud

How do we set dating standards according our family values, and not the values of what my son learns at ... (3:50) - John Townsend

What do I do when the family of the person I'm dating doesn't like me? (1:44) - Henry Cloud

How do you approach a man who drinks heavily and encourage him to slow down? (1:17) - Henry Cloud

What do you think about love at first sight? Is it real? An illusion? Chemicals? (1:49) - John Townsend

What do I do when someone I was once seeing won't let go of the relationship? What is the boundary ... (3:18) - John Townsend

I'm 40yrs old, divorced for 5yrs, no kids. I have great relationships and lots of friends. I have ... (4:16) - Henry Cloud

My fella in our 24 year committed relationship has found someone new. He promises he is not in a ... (4:35) - Henry Cloud

My friend is about to marry someone that, although I don't know them very well, I have heard that this ... (1:38) - John Townsend

How do you tell someone you have romantic feelings for them if you aren't sure they feel the same way? ... (1:01) - John Townsend

How can I know if I'm taking a need to the wrong relationship, and how do I determine which relationship ... (3:25) - Henry Cloud

I have a friend who wants to "just be friends" but it seems like more to me, how can I ... (2:04) - Henry Cloud

I'm shy and I have difficulty making friends. I watch others interact and they seem to know how to bond ... (2:41) - John Townsend

In a relationship, does absence make the heart grow fonder? Or is it out of sight, out of ... (1:36) - John Townsend

My best friend was married to a great woman, but their marriage failed and he has since remarried. I stayed ... (2:29) - Henry Cloud

Recently I overheard a conversation between my roommate and a boy who I thought she was just "friends" with, they ... (1:26) - Henry Cloud

What are some of the characteristics of a healthy relationship with a significant other? (4:34) - John Townsend

I just sold my old rickety car to a family in need, and my girlfriend is furious. I prayed on ... (3:17) - Henry Cloud

I've been dating a guy for three months. He says that he loves the Lord and wants to grow spiritually ... (2:53) - Henry Cloud

My wife and I have realized there are many areas in which we have failed to set boundaries with our ... (3:53) - Henry Cloud

My ex-husband is subtly turning my kids against me and my rules, teaching them rebellion and defiance. How do I ... (2:12) - Henry Cloud

My son finds it hard to abide by our curfew boundaries. We are not able to reach him as his ... (1:48) - John Townsend

My 13-year-old son has a tendency to lie. As a consequence I took away two months allowance and a 2-day ... (1:44) - John Townsend

How do you get a 2 year old to stay in time-out? I feel that if I sit with ... (1:22) - John Townsend

My ex-spouse's lifestyle choices were a contributing factor to our divorce. What should I say to my children as they ... (2:26) - Henry Cloud

I have been divorced for about 5 years and up to this point have not considered dating because I have ... (1:45) - John Townsend

I try to keep a friendly relationship with my ex-wife for our children's sake, but it really bothers my girlfriend. ... (3:30) - Henry Cloud

How do I get out of a bad relationship? (1:43) - John Townsend

After 19 years of marriage and at the age of 46, I've determined I'm a sex addict. I have been ... (2:44) - John Townsend

My husband had a 5 month affair, and is not repentant, but he wants to live at home. He says ... (2:12) - John Townsend

My husband moved in with another woman. We own a house together and have a business and work together every ... (2:42) - John Townsend

A friend's husband is a pastor. He has told her he wants a divorce. He moved into the basement and ... (2:21) - Henry Cloud

My wife divorced me after 43 years because I would not join her church. I do go to church but ... (1:48) - Henry Cloud

My husband refuses to talk to me and says that he doesn't want to commit to working on our relationship ... (2:50) - John Townsend

Will God be unhappy with me if I divorce my husband of 25 years? He is unfaithful and emotionally unavailable. (2:38) - John Townsend

I am in the midst of a divorce that I did not want. My spouse wants his freedom whatever that ... (3:31) - Henry Cloud

My husband and I were married for 12 years. He now says he never loved me and that he married ... (1:54) - John Townsend

I am separated from my non-believer wife and she wants a divorce. However she wants me to file for it. ... (1:22) - John Townsend

My husband moved out and filed for divorce after 4 1/2 months of marriage. He says he isn't breaking his ... (1:41) - Henry Cloud

My wife filed for divorce a few months ago. She is now hinting at getting back together, but I don't ... (3:14) - Henry Cloud

How can I reconcile with my wife if she has no desire to be married or reconcile? (2:35) - John Townsend

My wife and I are getting divorced. I cannot see my two lovely daughters right now due to allegations that ... (1:48) - John Townsend

My husband and I have been separated for five months. We have three children under the age of 5. He ... (2:09) - Henry Cloud

I was married for 34 years to a "Christian" school principal who abused me and was a sex addict. I ... (1:42) - John Townsend

My spouse and I are legally separated but are trying to work things out. Is it alright for us to ... (1:02) - John Townsend

I'm a single, divorced mother of 4 children. My ex-husbands are not paying their court-ordered child support. Some months I ... (2:11) - John Townsend

Our grown son experienced an unwanted divorce, then remarried quickly (against our advice) and had a baby daughter. He suddenly ... (2:16) - John Townsend

My daughter age 32, holds us, her mother and father accountable for everything we have done in our past. ... (2:44) - John Townsend

I struggled with an eating disorder for 10 years. I understand the "control issues" behind it. I'm in my 30s ... (2:18) - John Townsend

Our 6 yr old daughter started pulling out her eyebrows and eye lashes in August when she realized first grade ... (2:00) - John Townsend

I often argue with my husband in front of the children. I am trying to stop. How will this ... (2:04) - John Townsend

How do you help a teenager who continues to choose to date girls with low self esteem? (4:12) - Henry Cloud

My husband relentlessly teases our children (grabbing, tickling, remarks). They ask him to stop and he ignores them. It ... (1:58) - John Townsend

How do you help a 21 year old boy or girl increase their own self esteem? (4:26) - Henry Cloud

My girlfriend is very emotional. She doesn't just cry at sad movies - she falls completely apart. It's embarrassing and ... (:44) - Henry Cloud

I'm a single man in my late twenties. I think I move way to fast when it comes to dating. ... (2:48) - John Townsend

I'm shy and I would like to date. I hate the thought of singles groups because that's even more people ... (1:57) - John Townsend

How does a person know they are ready for a good relationship? (2:38) - John Townsend

How do I start the process of goal setting? (2:32) - John Townsend

I'm afraid to speak in public, but my new job involves presentations to potential clients. How can I overcome this ... (2:40) - John Townsend

I procrastinate on really important things and often don't even do them. Like filing my insurance and getting reimbursed, ... (5:18) - Henry Cloud

How can character maturity help build a successful large business? (2:04) - John Townsend

I was sexually abused by my older brother's friend when I was a little girl and now years later I ... (2:46) - John Townsend

My husband debates and debates and debates. Even if he agrees with what I say he'll take the opposite tack ... (1:27) - Henry Cloud

When riding in the car with my husband, I seem to HAVE to tell him how to drive. This ... (2:30) - Henry Cloud

When my husband and I are in a disagreement how do we get to the crux of the real issues? ... (3:22) - Henry Cloud

What can I do when my spouse doesn't want anything to change? She isn't abusive, but she's not allowing me ... (2:05) - Henry Cloud

Two years after we moved to another state my husband asked for a divorce. We have two young children. Because ... (2:44) - Henry Cloud

I had an affair that led to the end of an abusive marriage. We ended up getting married and have ... (2:56) - Henry Cloud

My husband is eighteen years older than me and it's really starting to be a problem, now that he's in ... (2:06) - Henry Cloud

My husband accepted a job in another state. I am not happy about this because he thinks I am too ... (2:20) - Henry Cloud

My husband was laid off and it's too late for him to start over. he's depressed. I'm depressed. How can ... (3:08) - Henry Cloud

My husband of 62 years passed away last year. There is nothing left to look forward to, but people are ... (4:45) - Henry Cloud

My father passed away a couple years ago. My mother is still going through stages of grief and having ... (1:49) - Henry Cloud

My husband and I are getting a divorce after 30 yrs of marriage. After extensive marriage counseling, he still is ... (5:13) - Henry Cloud

My husband is extremely overweight and in poor health. He WON'T do anything to improve his health. Any ... (2:51) - Henry Cloud

I have been married to a man for 24 years who has been described as a narcissist and a loner ... (4:05) - Henry Cloud

How do you support a husband going through 'mid life crisis . (2:11) - Henry Cloud

I'm an optimist I can't help it. This irritates my wife to no end. I can empathize only ... (1:57) - Henry Cloud

My husband left the family and caused tremendous pain to me, our grown children and friends. Now he wants to ... (3:01) - Henry Cloud

What can be done when one of the partners in a marriage is selfish and does not give in to ... (3:24) - John Townsend

I'm pregnant and I would not like to know the sex of the baby, however, my husband would like to ... (3:23) - Henry Cloud

My husband wants me to go back to work. We have grown children and we have enough money, so finances ... (3:20) - Henry Cloud

When I am with my son (age 30) I feel like I'm in the vicinity of a black hole. ... (3:22) - Henry Cloud

I believe my daughter has an eating disorder. Every time I try to bring this up, she denies it. ... (1:29) - Henry Cloud

Our son is autistic. he's reached puberty and is physically too much to handle. My wife won't consider putting him ... (1:34) - John Townsend

Recently my eight year old hit his head and was crying. When I tried to console him he stomped ... (3:06) - Henry Cloud

How do you handle a 6 year old only child who is VERY social and always wants a friend or ... (4:19) - Henry Cloud

How do I you teach my 6 1/2 year old to express his frustration/anger in a healthy way? He tends ... (4:38) - Henry Cloud

My 25 year-old daughter is bipolar. She is on medication and has a counselor, but I still worry about her ... (3:00) - John Townsend

My son was very athletic. A few years ago he was paralyzed in a car accident. He thinks his life ... (3:49) - Henry Cloud

I have a new baby and while I'm in love with our little son I don't much like this mothering ... (2:13) - Henry Cloud

My father can't accept love from anyone, not even his grown children. I just found out that he has broken ... (3:19) - Henry Cloud

I'm looking forward to the empty nest. My friends are all distressed at the thought of their children flying the ... (2:17) - Henry Cloud

My 21 year old daughter is depressed, overweight and talking about quitting college to live at home and take correspondence ... (2:04) - John Townsend

We had two sons. One of them died in a skiing accident two years ago. Our younger son really struggled ... (4:15) - Henry Cloud

My nine year old son has cancer. I don't know how to handle this, or how to prepare him and ... (4:43) - Henry Cloud

My grown son suffers from acute anxiety and depression and probably always will. He seems drawn to girls that have ... (4:04) - Henry Cloud

I'm worried about my adult son. He talks a lot about longing to be with Jesus someday. Is this ever ... (1:53) - Henry Cloud

I just found out I have a serious and progressive disease. My two kids are adolescents. Should I tell them ... (1:57) - Henry Cloud

How do I explain homosexuality to my children? I don't know if it's behavioral or biological. I have gay friends ... (3:03) - Henry Cloud

When my thirteen year old daughter died our family was decimated. We don't seem whole anymore and we don't know ... (2:47) - Henry Cloud

My ten year old daughter has become obsessively worried about germs. She washes her hands constantly and does not like ... (2:22) - John Townsend

My therapist talks about the need for a good internalized structure. What does that mean? (4:36) - John Townsend

My ex-wife has been treated in the past for emotional and psychiatric issues. I don't know what her status is ... (2:44) - Henry Cloud

My seventeen year old son has started driving and I'm worried all the time. I can't relax, I listen for ... (2:51) - Henry Cloud

My step-father is irritable and controlling, but my mother tolerates his abusive ways. My children are freaked out by him. ... (1:38) - Henry Cloud

I have a serious (but treatable) form of cancer. Everybody treats me differently now. I don't feel like myself anymore ... (2:40) - Henry Cloud

How useful are personality tests like DISC or temperament analysis tests? Should employers use them? Couples? Parents? (1:01) - John Townsend

My parents just retired to another state. I'm 32 and feel completely abandoned. Should I uproot and follow them? I ... (1:38) - Henry Cloud

There is a family where I go to church they have 10 children. The mother is a house wife and ... (1:44) - Henry Cloud

My nephew confided in me that he was molested as a child and says that because of this he is ... (1:42) - John Townsend

When I'm in social situations I find that I have to approach other people, they don't approach me. But when ... (3:28) - Henry Cloud

I have lived out of the house for a while now, away from my parents. I am 30 years old, ... (5:09) - Henry Cloud

There is a woman in my town that I avoid because she comes over all the time, won't leave once ... (2:01) - Henry Cloud

A young person I know claims to be bisexual. I love everything about this person except this one thing. ... (1:19) - John Townsend

When I want to get serious and commit myself to an exclusive relationship, I have panic attacks and need to ... (4:03) - Henry Cloud

I came out of a dysfunctional and toxic family and I have problems with developing deep relationships with anyone. What ... (3:02) - John Townsend

When things are going really wrong I have a hard time accepting kindness. It seems like I can stay strong ... (2:14) - John Townsend

I think my roommate has an eating disorder, I never see her eat, she works out for about 2 hours ... (2:28) - Henry Cloud

My family thinks I have a problem with depression but I don't agree. How do I tell them to mind ... (3:12) - Henry Cloud

If I think someone is not getting sound professional counseling, how do I go about helping them to see that? (1:29) - John Townsend

How can I forgive an unrepentant person without giving them access to my life? They aren't safe but it doesn't ... (3:00) - Henry Cloud

I recently broke up with someone because I think he has a gambling addiction. He tells me it's not ... (2:48) - Henry Cloud

My step father recently lost his job because he is a drug user. My mother is in denial and continues ... (1:19) - Henry Cloud

How do I deal compassionately with a hypochondriac? My friend loves the drama of illness, but there's nothing really wrong ... (4:46) - Henry Cloud

As I get older I realize a driving force in my life is that I can't bear to "disappoint" people. ... (3:01) - John Townsend

Nobody, and I mean nobody likes my boyfriend. How can I show people he's not as bad as they think? (2:15) - John Townsend

One of my brother-in-laws just got married and he always bad mouths his wife and talks so low about her. ... (2:47) - Henry Cloud

My boyfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago, I am still in a lot of pain and cry ... (3:36) - Henry Cloud

When someone has been grieving for a long time (over a year), and can't seem to move on, and they ... (2:29) - Henry Cloud

My mother is getting older and has let herself go. It's not just her weight, but she isn't ... (1:22) - Henry Cloud

Why are boundaries important? (4:01) - Henry Cloud

Aren't boundaries selfish? (3:20) - Henry Cloud

How do I deal with elderly parents who are controlling? (4:16) - Henry Cloud

My friend is being treated for cancer and I can't deal with any of it. I hate myself for feeling ... (3:20) - Henry Cloud

My elderly father is struggling with a painful cancer condition and wants me to help him commit suicide. I ... (1:35) - John Townsend

A friend of mine is behaving erratically - embezzling, lying, stealing etc. I believe she is mentally ill - when ... (2:21) - John Townsend

My father was a workaholic all my life till HE retired. Now he wants a friend and companion (because he ... (4:01) - Henry Cloud

Would God ever approve of divorcing a parent? I can not deal with my father anymore. (3:51) - Henry Cloud

My parents are very elderly and I know that our time together is getting shorter. I can't even think ... (5:16) - Henry Cloud

I have a friend who talks incessantly. This makes me so stressed. She is a good friend otherwise. ... (3:24) - Henry Cloud

How fast can you heal from a broken relationship? What factors contribute to healing? What are the signs that healing ... (4:34) - John Townsend

My brother apparently felt, and at forty seven still feels, that I got more love, attention, etc than he did. ... (2:48) - Henry Cloud

I am starting to feel let down by God because He is not taking my depression away. It seems He ... (6:47) - Henry Cloud

My Pastor believes for most problems and behavioral problems, psychologists are not the answer and are the equivalent of barking ... (4:31) - Henry Cloud

Please explain why "Psychological" counseling is Biblical, and not in conflict with Scriptures. (2:04) - John Townsend

Is masturbation a sin? (4:04) - Henry Cloud

My father left me and my mother when I was 15 years old. It really hurt me and I have ... (3:16) - John Townsend

Can I be gay and a Christian? I love the Lord and gave my life to Him but I feel ... (4:46) - Henry Cloud

I recently was confronted by an individual who feels that Christians who have difficulties need to be treated only through ... (3:29) - John Townsend

We have never been close to my husband's parents because they smoke constantly and we don't enjoy being around it. ... (1:41) - John Townsend

My son is constantly listening to gangsta' rap. He seems infatuated with the so called "gangsta' lifestyle. It creeps me ... (2:55) - Henry Cloud

My daughter married a man against our wishes. We don't like him because in the past he admitted to having ... (1:03) - John Townsend

How can I show my parents I'm trustworthy and that I've grown up? I'm nineteen and made some mistakes in ... (1:51) - John Townsend

I don't know how to deal with my adult daughter. She is a very controlling and "needy' person. Things ... (2:15) - Henry Cloud

After being fired from my job when I was in debt, I entered a debt management program and my father ... (1:31) - John Townsend

How do you deal with a mother who is physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive? How do you deal with the ... (3:24) - John Townsend

Can you suggest some steps for true reconciliation between senior parents and adult children? (2:23) - John Townsend

Do you have any advice for helping senior citizens transition into accepting assistance as they age? (2:08) - John Townsend

My mother is getting up in years and is not in good health. A couple years ago my mother asked ... (2:03) - John Townsend

My parents are facing foreclosure of their house due to very poor financial decisions. My brother who is in jail, ... (2:02) - John Townsend

I recently read your book "Boundaries" and went through the series with my church. My mother has been diagnosed ... (2:14) - John Townsend

Our new daughter-in-law comes from a dysfunctional home and is beginning to contaminate our family. What would be the best ... (1:56) - Henry Cloud

What should you do if you try to set boundaries with a family member or friend and they refuse to ... (4:23) - Henry Cloud

I was the unpaid caregiver for my grandkids. When I stopped over a year ago because I was hurting financially, ... (2:08) - John Townsend

How do I treat a family member I no longer respect or love? I don't want to acknowledge this person ... (2:16) - John Townsend

How can I improve the relationship with my youngest brother? He and his wife are not interested in participating in ... (2:15) - John Townsend

My mom and I are both believers, and the other night at dinner she started making some very rude comments ... (1:17) - John Townsend

My mother-in-law will only listen to my husband. She is in very poor health and when she needs to go ... (2:10) - Henry Cloud

How do you deal with sibling disagreements over the care of an aging parent? (3:53) - Henry Cloud

My parents have bailed my brother out jail for years and enabled his drug use. Then my father got involved ... (2:49) - Henry Cloud

I am an only child of two alcoholic parents, and I am now fifty-seven. My mother is still alive and ... (4:04) - Henry Cloud

What are some ideas to help my parents to bond with my kids when there is a very large generation ... (1:31) - John Townsend

How can I help my mom to not feel so guilty about her divorce that took place over twenty years ... (2:53) - John Townsend

My brother and I really don't get along. It feels more like pure hatred than just sibling rivalry. I feel ... (1:55) - John Townsend

My heart has healed and now I want to reconcile with my family after several months of my rude avoidance ... (2:44) - John Townsend

I drive a school bus in an especially tough district. If I could instill just a little self-worth in one ... (2:41) - Henry Cloud

My Dad just turned 80 -- he has never said "I love you" to me. I tell him "I love ... (2:11) - John Townsend

I was wrongfully accused of sexual molestation about 6 years ago. The entire family was present and saw me accidentally ... (1:27) - John Townsend

My father who is an unsafe person for me wants to pay for our 3 children and 9 more grandchildren's ... (1:47) - John Townsend

I'm a second year college student who lives on campus about an hour away from home. My parents pressure me ... (2:48) - John Townsend

What can a parent in her early 80's do when one of her children very rarely communicates with her and ... (3:05) - Henry Cloud

How do I walk the emotional tightrope with my parents? They are elderly and I am their caregiver, yet they ... (3:10) - John Townsend

My boyfriend often tickles and wrestles with his 14 yr old niece. Is this type of behavior ok? My gut ... (2:17) - Henry Cloud

With multiple divorces in my family how do I include everyone without making myself crazy in the process? (1:20) - John Townsend

My father is pressuring me to go to college. I do not know what I want to do with my ... (1:28) - John Townsend

My sister is older than I and she 'mothers' me -- I tell her to 'get off my back' all ... (2:55) - John Townsend

I am raising my grandchildren. How can I find extra support and resources during this difficult time? (1:41) - Henry Cloud

My father is cheating on my mother. She has no idea. I have solid evidence. Do I confront him myself ... (1:24) - Henry Cloud

My mother is about 70 and still caring for her own mother. She is really tired and sometimes not very ... (1:51) - John Townsend

What should you do if your family is toxic and you have tried everything except not have anything to do ... (3:20) - John Townsend

I recently found out that my father is not one of my siblings father. Nobody else knows it but me ... (1:21) - John Townsend

We have been friends for 2 1/2 years and dating approximately two months. Should we date for the recommended year+ ... (1:19) - John Townsend

Is there a way to change from seeing life in a negative vein to seeing it positively? How do you ... (3:18) - John Townsend

I am afraid of having friends! What does this mean? Is there help for someone like me? (4:36) - Henry Cloud

I have friend who is very worried about the situation in the middle east. I too, am concerned but I ... (2:40) - John Townsend

We have 2 friends that had grown children that both committed suicide recently. I want to be as absolutely empathetic ... (2:38) - John Townsend

How can a meek person effectively stand-up for themselves? What exercises can you recommend to learn how to be defensive ... (1:43) - John Townsend

What is the best way to meet safe people? (2:13) - John Townsend

My best friend stopped talking to me a couple months ago. I do not want to lose my friend but ... (1:40) - John Townsend

I have a bipolar friend who is going to be evicted any day from her apartment. She is so overwhelmed ... (1:55) - John Townsend

I have a new Christian friend whose father just died. My friend had asked for prayer on several occasions for ... (3:47) - Henry Cloud

One of my good friends is very sick but will not go to the doctor because she thinks the vitamins ... (1:40) - Henry Cloud

Should I tell my co-worker what my other co-worker said about her? It has the potential to hurt my friend's ... (1:44) - John Townsend

I am a single mom that is friends with a couple in my church. We spend a lot of time ... (1:26) - John Townsend

I have a friend who apologizes excessively for things that didn't offend anyone or weren't her fault. It's really annoying. ... (1:49) - Henry Cloud

We have been friends with another couple for about 6 years. We consider them close friends but we can't help ... (2:51) - Henry Cloud

My friend has been seeing a counselor who helped him get over a destructive drinking habit. I'm concerned because the ... (3:02) - John Townsend

I have a friend who is negative about everything under the sun. Any conversation we have turns negative. Any suggestions ... (4:16) - Henry Cloud

I was recently on a trip with a group of women, 50 yrs. old and over. One person in the ... (2:01) - Henry Cloud

I have been in love with a man for a couple of years whose situation is very bad. He ... (1:49) - John Townsend

Can a woman and man be best friends when both are married to others? (1:26) - John Townsend

My friend's husband recently had an affair, had a child with the other woman and left my friend for 2 ... (1:45) - John Townsend

To the shock of all who loved and thought we knew him, a co-worker has just been arrested for having ... (2:16) - John Townsend

I enjoy simply sitting with my feelings and thoughts, or having creative or quiet time to myself. Yet I ... (2:15) - John Townsend

Can you talk about how I can express love while I'm setting a boundary? What would this look like? (2:12) - John Townsend

My child showed me some very damaging information on MySpace about my friend's child. What is my responsibility as a ... (1:47) - Henry Cloud

Is it wrong to spend every day or close to it with your safe friend? (2:21) - Henry Cloud

I blew up at a person in public while 2 others were present. While what I said was honest and ... (4:11) - Henry Cloud

We are having a problem communicating with our Pastor. When we go to him to discuss issues we differ about, ... (5:16) - Henry Cloud

I facilitate a couples group, and we focus on boundaries in marriage. There is one couple who have serious communication ... (2:01) - John Townsend

I'm 52 and don't know how to look ahead. There doesn't seem to be anything to look forward ... (5:03) - Henry Cloud

I can't seem to find a good mentor. Either they feel you are beneath them or they just don't want ... (3:48) - Henry Cloud

My boss can be very critical and leads based on his feelings about others. I'm finding myself doing the same ... (3:16) - John Townsend

How do you set boundaries with your boss? (4:02) - Henry Cloud

I'm 28 and since my teens I've been dependent on others for assurance and help. Now I am learning to ... (4:14) - Henry Cloud

My co-worker and I have very different personalities. Do you have any suggestions on how we can work together peacefully? (2:40) - John Townsend

I have just started reading your book "How People Grow." I have had chronic issues with career and employment. What ... (2:12) - Henry Cloud

Sometimes when I am in front of a group of people I will start to blush, and I get very ... (1:35) - Henry Cloud

I am a female college student working towards my degree in psychology. What positive traits or behaviors do you find ... (2:03) - John Townsend

How can I learn not to demand too much from myself and be realistic about my abilities? (3:09) - Henry Cloud

I work with someone who often will take credit for work I did during our staff meetings. What is the ... (2:05) - John Townsend

I'm 23 years old. I have doubts that my current career is right for me. I feel an urgency to ... (2:26) - John Townsend

I was involved in a business venture and gave it all that I had. I struggled with it for 15 ... (2:06) - John Townsend

You said in one of your videos that passion doesn't have to be connected with your job but what if ... (4:54) - Henry Cloud

Could you talk about people's need for significance in our lives? (4:15) - Henry Cloud

How do I build up my personality? (2:41) - John Townsend

Would you relate how you decided to go into the psychology field and what struggles you encountered to get through ... (2:11) - John Townsend

I am a Christian, starting a new business. I would like to use the word "Christian" in the name of ... (2:52) - Henry Cloud

I am a science student but think I'd like to try banking. Those two things don't seem at all similar ... (1:02) - John Townsend

I'm in a job I love but working for people I don't love, actually I have learned to resent because ... (4:06) - Henry Cloud

I am frustrated at work. I was not given any training, yet my superiors are unhappy with my performance. What ... (3:25) - John Townsend

I am currently working nights and have been trying to advance to a day shift job. When I go into ... (1:56) - John Townsend

My boss gave me a bad review and I'm very upset. I am sure it's personal because my work is ... (2:22) - John Townsend

I have great passion to lead people. However, whenever I try it, I feel unconfident, weak, or incompetent. How can ... (2:29) - Henry Cloud

When I get together with a group of people, I have a desire to lead and end up trying to ... (2:09) - John Townsend

What are the hallmarks of a natural leader in a workplace? I'm on the lookout for them as our company ... (1:37) - John Townsend

My friends say I am burnt out and not well. What should I do? How do you know if you're ... (2:53) - Henry Cloud

In the workplace or at church as a boss and leader, how do I stop the ... (2:00) - John Townsend

How can I become a better leader? (2:01) - John Townsend

How do I delegate? It takes longer to show someone how to do something (and do it right) than to ... (2:00) - John Townsend

I am a church staff member having an issue supervising a young, new part-time employee. I came up with a ... (1:54) - John Townsend

I work with someone who is comfortable with little white lies if it gets them ahead. These lies ... (2:31) - John Townsend

What are the qualities of successful leaders? (1:25) - John Townsend

I manage human resources for a small company. What are some things I can do to develop and maintain employee ... (2:00) - John Townsend

What's the best way to deal with underachieving or problem employees? We don't have the time or resources for weak ... (3:14) - John Townsend

I lead a team of workaholics! They are so committed to the company, to our leaders, to each other and ... (2:21) - John Townsend

How can I evaluate my leadership strengths and weaknesses? (2:02) - John Townsend

Learn to question authority. It makes for great leaders. (7:54) - John Townsend

Good leaders attract the right people and frustrate the right people! (7:02) - John Townsend

Good leaders involve others and share the vision. (4:30) - John Townsend

Responsibility and accountability. Good leaders are responsible for successes and failures. (5:53) - John Townsend

How good leaders understand that authority cuts both ways - and they aren't afraid of that. (4:16) - John Townsend

I'm in aviation and my whole job is about being away. My wife knew about the demands of my schedule ... (5:27) - Henry Cloud

I serve in the military and have my MBA as well. My wife thinks we would have a lot more ... (5:27) - Henry Cloud

How do I go about establishing a manageable family schedule? (4:21) - Henry Cloud

My daughter is about to go into her senior year of high school. She's had a rough time because we've ... (1:52) - Henry Cloud

I work in a company where people are very supportive to each other. The problem is that they support and ... (3:32) - Henry Cloud

What do you think about the concept of your failure to plan does not constitute an emergency for me. ... (1:30) - John Townsend

Everyone in my family has tons of money except me. On the other hand, I have had an amazing career ... (5:02) - Henry Cloud

When I am the topic of malicious gossip, how do I deal with it? (2:53) - John Townsend

I'd like to find an older woman who can help me grow and succeed in work, relationships and spiritually. What ... (1:21) - John Townsend

I am a former Muslim and have been a Christian over 14 years. I feel deep passion for Christ and ... (4:17) - Henry Cloud

What is the difference between grief and depression? (1:41) - John Townsend

What do you say to a child after they have suddenly lost a pet that was hit by a car? (3:47) - Henry Cloud

My 18-year-old son got involved in skydiving. He fractured his neck in football and broke his pelvis snowboarding. I have ... (1:37) - John Townsend

According to the DSM, anyone who hears "voices" with no one present is living outside of reality so what's the ... (2:52) - John Townsend

How can you know if God is really calling you to do something or it's your own voice inside your ... (1:39) - John Townsend

Why doesn't God perform a miracle and prove Himself? (2:27) - John Townsend

How can I know if my emotional problems can be helped by prayer and loving God and seriously and prayerfully ... (1:31) - John Townsend

One of the members of my small group asked the question, If Jesus left us the Holy Spirit to guide ... (1:54) - John Townsend

I am a doctorial student at Oral Roberts University and work a full-time job. I feel God is calling me ... (2:04) - John Townsend

Personal growth - get comfortable with "process" and forget about time (7:16) - John Townsend

Define yourself: who you are and where you stand. (7:52) - John Townsend

It's not all your responsibility. Where it starts and ends. (2:31) - John Townsend

Connection is not a luxury - it's the fuel of your life. (6:37) - John Townsend

Reality will help overcome perfectionism - especially for leaders. (2:19) - John Townsend

Can you "fess up" to your weaknesses and assess your strengths? It's more important than you think - here's where ... (6:41) - John Townsend

Leave your expectations at the door and you'll be amazed by what you find inside. (3:18) - Henry Cloud

A good look in the mirror: Get small and get humble and see what happens next. (7:07) - Henry Cloud

God's ideas and my ideas. When it feels like there's disconnect between what you want and what He wants. (6:33) - Henry Cloud

We are a bi-coastal couple. By that I mean I am from California and my husband is a New Englander. ... (4:27) - Henry Cloud

My fiance and I are supposed to get married in a few months. We have always been close and he ... (1:39) - John Townsend

I am a divorcee about to remarry. How can I stop the process of transferring negative feelings to my innocent ... (2:50) - John Townsend

How can I know for sure if someone is the right person for me? (3:57) - Henry Cloud

Do you think for each person there is one person out there that they are supposed to marry? (4:24) - Henry Cloud

How young is too young to get married? (2:04) - John Townsend

Identifying "Relationship Busters" (7:51) - Henry Cloud

When two halves DON'T make a whole. (5:20) - Henry Cloud

The "You-Complete-Me Thing." (2:56) - Henry Cloud

Life just doesn't seem to work for me anymore. I don't know what changed, I just know nothing feels right ... (4:09) - Henry Cloud

My husband seems to be struggling with a lot of internal issues right now. He is a middle age man ... (3:14) - John Townsend

My husband has OCD and it puts a lot of pressure on me and our relationship. What should I do? (2:13) - John Townsend

I was in a committed relationship for 2 years. One year ago we got engaged. We are now ... (3:56) - Henry Cloud

I just learned what I've suspected for a long time that my husband is mentally ill. What do ... (2:21) - John Townsend

How can I achieve work/life balance? When I'm at work I feel like I'm cheating my family. When I'm home ... (2:49) - John Townsend

I was offered two jobs. One was secure but boring and the other one was risky. I loved the little ... (4:25) - Henry Cloud

As a leader in a mid-sized company my job is to do what I can to alleviate, avoid or sometimes ... (3:01) - John Townsend

I make decisions all day long as a major part of my job. When I'm done with work I feel ... (1:51) - John Townsend

I've been married for 9 months. I'm starting to feel smothered and I'm wondering if I made a big mistake. ... (5:05) - Henry Cloud

My husband and I disagree on a very important subject, adoption. We are having a hard time having children ... (3:56) - Henry Cloud

My therapist says I need to stop trying so hard to please my husband, and to take care of myself ... (3:33) - Henry Cloud

My husband is 34 yrs old and is involved in a relationship with a 50 yr old woman. I feel ... (2:22) - John Townsend

I discovered my husband has been "talking" to another woman for the past 3 months. Initially he denied everything. ... (2:39) - John Townsend

My husband had an affair a year ago. I never told our children or family members. We are trying to ... (1:48) - John Townsend

My husband of fifteen months has a habit of speaking to me harshly, with ridicule or sarcasm. If I tell ... (5:00) - Henry Cloud

Alcoholism runs in my husband's family. I am starting to see the traits develop in my husband. He is in ... (1:55) - Henry Cloud

What would you suggest when a partner has noisy eating habits that are annoying to the other? How can I ... (2:33) - John Townsend

My marriage problems are causing me anxiety and panic attacks. I don't want to tell my family because I ... (2:24) - John Townsend

Three days after I got a new truck, my husband wrecked it. I told him it was ok, accidents happen ... (3:40) - Henry Cloud

I have been married for 31 years. One problem my husband and I have had from the beginning is that ... (2:26) - John Townsend

I cheated 20 yrs ago and had 2 one-night stands before I married my husband. We were not Christians and ... (2:08) - John Townsend

My husband will not attend our young children's sporting events. He says he is bored there. I am so embarrassed ... (2:49) - Henry Cloud

How do I protect my boundaries when my husband does not follow doctor's orders and continues a lifestyle of nightly ... (3:56) - John Townsend

I am recovering from porn addiction. My wife moved out and wants a divorce. She refuses to seek marriage counseling. ... (3:28) - Henry Cloud

I am a 37 yr. old never married male who grew up in the Church of Christ. Should I ... (2:22) - John Townsend

My husband has been thinking about a woman he had a sexual relationship with, when we were apart for 3 ... (2:30) - Henry Cloud

I'm 23 and everyone thinks I should be married. I'm not even thinking about marriage yet. Is there something wrong ... (1:47) - Henry Cloud

I have a friend whose wife just left him. He found a room full of romantic novels with strong sexual ... (1:42) - Henry Cloud

My husband started a new job where he needs to travel to another city for training with his female co-worker. ... (2:48) - Henry Cloud

My husband admits that he gets admiration from talking to other women. Is this an "affair" on his part? What ... (3:08) - John Townsend

My husband and I have struggled for 18 years with issues relating to his drinking and sexual demands. My counselor ... (2:34) - Henry Cloud

I keep telling my wife that I just want her to listen to me but she always either interrupts me ... (1:49) - John Townsend

There has been a pattern of betrayal, internet pornography, repeated lying and deception in my marriage. I have worked on ... (2:08) - John Townsend

I have been married for 12 years and discovered my husband is a compulsive liar. This has killed the love ... (3:22) - Henry Cloud

I am a married man in love with another woman. My wife hurts my self-esteem and is not supportive. Do ... (3:07) - Henry Cloud

My husband cannot control money but is unwilling to let me take care of our finances. We've had overdrafts, utilities ... (1:55) - Henry Cloud

How do you call it quits? We have been married 4 years and my husband has a LOW/no sex drive. ... (3:24) - Henry Cloud

My husband left our home about 2 months ago. He called and said he wants a divorce and he does ... (2:13) - Henry Cloud

I have been divorced and remarried for 15 years with 2 children from the previous marriage and 2 with my ... (2:03) - Henry Cloud

I am about to get married but I'm beginning to have doubts. I broke up with my high school sweetheart ... (4:02) - Henry Cloud

I have been married for 12 years to a great guy and we have beautiful children. I recently saw an ... (1:17) - John Townsend

I am struggling with letting go of an unhealthy marriage, we have been separated for a year, and the divorce ... (1:35) - John Townsend

My ex-husband and I divorced by a mutual decision. We both felt that we married without really knowing who the ... (3:20) - Henry Cloud

I have had an emotional affair. My husband was never there for me even though I pleaded for many years. ... (3:10) - Henry Cloud

My husband and I have issues with fighting and going over the same things continually. He constantly tracks my whereabouts, ... (4:54) - Henry Cloud

How should the subject of finances in a second marriage be approached? My husband does not tell me about the ... (1:23) - John Townsend

My friend has a full time job outside the home and so does her husband. They have chosen to ... (1:37) - Henry Cloud

My wife & I are obtaining a second mortgage on our house to pay off bills. She has been taking ... (2:10) - John Townsend

How do I handle the fact that my husband likes to leave my side at functions to chat with other ... (1:47) - John Townsend

How do a wife and husband make a life plan that will consider both of their individual goals? (2:09) - John Townsend

It's only been 2 months since I gave birth. My husband left me 2 months before I gave birth due ... (2:04) - John Townsend

I feel like there is a roadblock to the spiritual intimacy between my husband and I. He does not want ... (2:37) - Henry Cloud

My husband has always looked at other women. Is this a normal thing for a man to do? (3:02) - John Townsend

My husband constantly tells me it is none of my business when I ask him about specific issues that affect ... (3:03) - John Townsend

My wife and her mother are inseparable. I feel like I don't get the full person or a real marriage, ... (3:15) - John Townsend

I'm at a loss as to how to comfort my husband who is worried sick about his employment/employer as he ... (4:37) - Henry Cloud

Is it wrong to set the final limit and leave my Christian alcoholic husband, who, having relapsed 2+ years ago ... (2:22) - John Townsend

Is it wrong for 1st cousins to marry even if they don't have children together? (1:06) - Henry Cloud

My husband is not a believer and is one of the most negative people I know. He's disabled, watches TV ... (2:46) - Henry Cloud

I feel so lonely. My husband never kisses me, hugs me, or holds my hand. What should I do? (1:56) - John Townsend

I think my wife cut her hair very short to spite me and I hate it. Am I wrong to ... (3:04) - Henry Cloud

I feel very offended when my husband watches a movie with a nude woman. To me, it is like he ... (1:27) - Henry Cloud

My husband of 20 years is verbally abusive. He flirts and humiliates me in public. What can I do? (2:24) - John Townsend

I struggle with my spouse. He is very severe with me and is constantly trying to prove his superiority. Please ... (1:30) - John Townsend

I caught my husband watching pornography when I was asleep next to him. He said that he would not do ... (2:28) - John Townsend

My wife and I have a low sex marriage. I have no desire for my wife but want to do ... (5:25) - Henry Cloud

My husband and I have been dealing with his addiction to pornography for about 12 years. He feels like it ... (2:26) - John Townsend

I was married for eight years to a man who physically, emotionally and sexually abused me. He finally asked me ... (1:40) - John Townsend

How do you deal with a husband that I believe has paranoid personality disorder or severe depression? He refuses to ... (2:21) - Henry Cloud

I am afraid of my husband. He has been raging and verbally abusive throughout our 15 years of marriage. What ... (3:33) - John Townsend

I am newly married and my husband is SO easygoing it drives me nuts. The answer to just about every ... (3:44) - Henry Cloud

I am a married woman (31 years) who gave my heart to another man 12 years ago. My out-of-marriage partner ... (1:08) - John Townsend

My husband of 12 years shoved me after a confrontation about getting help for anger management. He is also verbally ... (2:04) - Henry Cloud

My husband is a sex addict and is undergoing therapy and accountability. He lied to me about being sober ... (1:36) - John Townsend

My husband and I are separated because he is a sex addict. I gave him a deadline to complete some ... (1:48) - John Townsend

My husband withholds affection from simple things to sex. Last year we went 11 months without sex. Normally its 3x ... (3:01) - Henry Cloud

I counsel a Christian couple that has been married more than 15 years. They have had an active sex life ... (1:43) - John Townsend

My husband and I struggle with our sex life. I adore him but don't have a fraction of the sexual ... (3:23) - Henry Cloud

When my spouse and I have sex, it's over before I know it. What can we do to prolong the ... (1:36) - John Townsend

My husband was sexually abused as a child and has told no one but me and refuses to go to ... (2:14) - Henry Cloud

My husband and I both have low sex drives and do not have sex often. He is overweight and feels ... (2:07) - Henry Cloud

I am married to a man that thinks it's the husband's role to take care of the finances. I would ... (3:27) - Henry Cloud

How does a relationship work if the couple doesn't have the same interests? For example, one person is a homebody ... (2:53) - Henry Cloud

My husband lost his job over ten years ago and it is affecting our marriage. He is depressed, not ... (4:00) - Henry Cloud

My husband is a professed Christian who is an alcoholic. Is it wrong for me, a committed Christian, to withhold ... (1:21) - Henry Cloud

How can I develop trust in my new marriage after there was adultery in my past marriage? (1:42) - Henry Cloud

I asked my husband to move out because he went to a bachelor party and I don't trust him when ... (2:56) - Henry Cloud

How can one forgive and forget about an unfaithful partner? Is it possible for true love to continue afterwards? (1:53) - John Townsend

My wife is very controlling and critical. She puts me down in public every time she has a chance. I'm ... (4:33) - John Townsend

I recently just ended a four year affair. I got divorced 7 months ago but have recently moved back in ... (2:12) - Henry Cloud

We want to adopt a child but are afraid that the biological parents could have serious issues that the child ... (1:26) - John Townsend

I know a couple who fights in front of their children. How can I help them see the damage they ... (2:57) - John Townsend

My husband is not a strong disciplinarian and always comes out looking like the good guy with the children. How ... (4:57) - John Townsend

Our son recently got married to a lovely girl. They got advice on "leaving and cleaving," but we feel like ... (2:27) - John Townsend

My son is in college and lives at home. His room is disgusting I mean really disgusting. My ... (3:50) - Henry Cloud

My daughter's boyfriend asked our permission to ask our daughter to marry him. We said no because our daughter is ... (3:39) - Henry Cloud

My wife and I are separated and close to getting a divorce. We have a 4 year old son and ... (4:29) - John Townsend

My husband and I have friends who are at about the same levels of life as us. However, I feel ... (1:36) - John Townsend

My friends have been married for decades but have no problem having drag-down-knock-out arguments in front of me. I find ... (2:31) - Henry Cloud

Can married men and married women be close friends without it becoming trouble? (2:23) - John Townsend

What are appropriate ways to express anger in a relationship? (3:21) - John Townsend

How long does it take to heal from divorce? (2:33) - John Townsend

A good friend confided in me that she is having an affair. Her husband is also a friend. I encouraged ... (1:19) - John Townsend

I struggle with the dynamic of God's order of a family: Man-Woman-Children. Me being a new wife and feeling ... (2:04) - John Townsend

Are there some steps that I can do, to improve my level of confidence so that when I see a ... (2:16) - John Townsend

When my sister gets upset I think she cuts herself. She won't admit it but I've seen the scratches. I ... (1:26) - Henry Cloud

How do people with disabilities strive for success when they can barely function from day to day? I am bi-polar ... (2:00) - Henry Cloud

What to do when your doctor thinks your spouse may be suffering from Bi-Polar Disorder? (2:15) - John Townsend

My question is linked to childhood abandonment that happened 50 years ago. I know that I have unresolved grief--but how ... (1:19) - John Townsend

I experience extreme emotional highs and lows. How can I gain control of this? (4:26) - Henry Cloud

Can you direct me to a truly Christian perspective on Borderline Personality Disorder? (4:34) - John Townsend

What causes a person to want to commit suicide? (3:21) - Henry Cloud

My childhood was so abusive that as an adult I am terrified of conflict. What is the best way to ... (2:19) - John Townsend

I am on a church staff and don't know where to go for help. The Sr. Pastor is my boss ... (1:29) - John Townsend

I heard a statement that "physical and mental exhaustion brought on by hectic pace, family demands and job stress can ... (3:23) - Henry Cloud

How do I cope with anxiety and depression? (1:27) - John Townsend

While I have a positive outlook on life, I seem to come to tears easily if I talk about painful ... (2:18) - John Townsend

I am in counseling dealing with the effects of sexual abuse at the hands of my grandfather and I feel ... (2:24) - John Townsend

What is a safe way to "vent?" Sometimes I just want to gripe, but feel that it is not always ... (2:18) - Henry Cloud

I have heard of a phrase called "paralysis of the will" which seems to be the best way to describe ... (1:39) - John Townsend

Try as I may, I cannot believe God loves me. I am a woman with no goals in life ... (1:26) - John Townsend

How should a person deal with a fear of dying? (5:06) - Henry Cloud

Twelve years of unemployment after my graduate education have left me feeling totally rejected by people, even those I helped ... (2:08) - John Townsend

I am feeling lonely more and more often. My children are grown and my husband travels a lot for work. ... (1:55) - Henry Cloud

I am sad, have no energy, and no desire to do anything. I sometimes wish I would die. Am I ... (4:43) - Henry Cloud

I am sad, have no energy, and no desire to do anything. Sometimes I just wish I would die. Am ... (2:01) - Henry Cloud

Is there such a thing as religious addiction where the person goes even to the point of psychotic delusions and ... (3:08) - Henry Cloud

I have dreams are about being in a war situation and after running, I always get caught by the enemy. ... (2:31) - John Townsend

My mother attempted suicide several times when I was a child and my father told me it was my fault. ... (3:12) - Henry Cloud

What kind of help is available for young adults with mild learning disabilities who have a hard time connecting? (1:54) - Henry Cloud

I'd like to know where the sense of entitlement comes from and why some people have it and others don't? (2:46) - John Townsend

What is Bipolar Disorder? I hear the term frequently and also that it's very serious but don't know what it ... (4:13) - Henry Cloud

How can I learn to give up control in my various relationships (home, work, friends)? I'm not a control-freak but ... (3:58) - Henry Cloud

A friend of mine is a moody person. He can be really outgoing and really quiet. He seems confident but ... (1:40) - John Townsend

What is the difference between an anxiety attack and a panic attack? Is there any way to stop them before ... (2:37) - Henry Cloud

I'm having trouble letting go of guilt about things in my past. I've asked for forgiveness and believe I'm forgiven ... (4:10) - Henry Cloud

How do I know if I am beyond a normal amount of crazy and need help? (4:18) - Henry Cloud

My son (20) recently made two serious suicide attempts. He is now in intensive therapy at a specialized recovery hospital. ... (2:55) - Henry Cloud

I'm 52 and don't know how to "look ahead." There doesn't seem to be anything to look forward to. How ... (2:08) - John Townsend

I am having the worst physical and emotional pain I've ever had. I recently found out that my partner cheated ... (2:12) - John Townsend

Is hypnosis wrong for Christians? (1:30) - John Townsend

How can you have good relationships if you have disassociation identity disorder? I can understand why I have no friends. ... (3:22) - Henry Cloud

I normally would say nothing back to someone who insults or slights me but I do stew over the ill ... (3:35) - Henry Cloud

What is the difference between quiet and shy. People talk about shyness like it's a sin or something. (2:02) - John Townsend

A friend of my daughter is cutting herself. What is my responsibility as an adult to try to help ... (1:25) - Henry Cloud

Why can't I just shut up and be a good listener? (4:14) - Henry Cloud

Why do I love the person that makes me suffer? (1:59) - John Townsend

I have such a hurtful need to be loved, that when I get into a relationship, I get so focused ... (2:24) - John Townsend

How do you get power over lust? (2:02) - John Townsend

My life doesn't feel complete without a significant other. I connect well with friends but I still feel this huge ... (1:45) - John Townsend

Are there any ways of dealing with panic attacks that do not involve using drugs? (7:59) - Henry Cloud

My friend has OCD and lately it has been unbearable for her. Her insurance won't cover meds and she doesn't ... (2:00) - Henry Cloud

At what point does distorted thinking become mental illness? (1:46) - John Townsend

I am still struggling from the pain of my miscarriage 14 years ago. How can I heal? (2:28) - John Townsend

My husband is suffering greatly from depression and anxiety. How can I help? (2:16) - Henry Cloud

In light of recent world events, how do we avoid living under fear? (7:30) - Henry Cloud

With OCD, how does a person distinguish between valid concerns regarding one's relationship with God and obsessions? I particularly struggle ... (2:42) - John Townsend

I realize that I am too passive. How can I become more assertive? (2:14) - John Townsend

How do you forgive hurts that are continuously being committed? (2:55) - Henry Cloud

My counselor told me that he thinks I might be a HSP (highly sensitive person). I read up on it ... (1:16) - John Townsend

I'm in high school and not popular. People make fun of me because I don't fit in any group. Please ... (4:09) - Henry Cloud

I am trying to gain freedom from past familial sexual and addiction issues. I cannot afford counseling. How can I ... (1:16) - Henry Cloud

How would you advise someone in recovery with issues from dysfunctional family of origin and having just exited from a ... (2:43) - Henry Cloud

How can change be good and not frightening? (2:26) - John Townsend

What hope is there for a person who hates their self? I was divorced a few years ago and since ... (5:13) - Henry Cloud

When I was a child, my grandfather molested me. Although I have never discussed it with him, I suspect that ... (1:46) - John Townsend

I was sexually abused as a child by my father and my mother remained silent. I know that many ... (2:15) - John Townsend

I was sexually abused in my past. I now have serious issues with sex. I seem to do things that ... (3:31) - Henry Cloud

My wife suffers from some form of social anxiety disorder. Every time she walks into church or any other social ... (2:24) - John Townsend

I suffer from an anxiety disorder and I have an overwhelming fear of death and dying. Is it normal even ... (2:04) - Henry Cloud

What is therapy supposed to be like? How do you know you're getting the right kind of help? (2:40) - John Townsend

I have a friend who says he was sexually molested by a schoolmate in high school for 2 years until ... (1:33) - John Townsend

I am bipolar. How can I get my husband to understand my extreme highs and lows? (1:49) - Henry Cloud

What is really going on when you feel the need to prove yourself and compete with others? It's worse around ... (1:08) - John Townsend

Partner With God In Overcoming Failures (1:59) - John Townsend

Be Concerned With God's Affirmation Not Others' (3:13) - John Townsend

You Are Not Alone In Your Failure (6:39) - John Townsend

Trails Of People Who Fail Well (4:12) - John Townsend

Define Your Goals (2:01) - John Townsend

Confront Your Personal Weakness (2:18) - John Townsend

Have Structure In Your Life (2:47) - John Townsend

A Successful Plan for Handling Failures and Obstacles (7:20) - John Townsend

Obstacles Are Normal (6:14) - John Townsend

Traits of People Who Fail Poorly (4:33) - John Townsend

God Is Crucial To the Outcome Of Our Dreams (3:21) - Henry Cloud

Don't Let Failure Deter Your Dreams (2:27) - Henry Cloud

The Fear of Failure Prevents our Dreams (2:29) - Henry Cloud

Our Past Fears Can Prevent Our Future Dreams (5:04) - Henry Cloud

Our Community Fosters Our Dreams (5:36) - Henry Cloud

Dreams Respond to Positive and Negative Voices (2:00) - Henry Cloud

Is Your Dream Based In Reality? (3:27) - Henry Cloud

My husband coached our son's football team for all of his Pop Warner years. Now our son is in high ... (2:56) - Henry Cloud

I've been trying to get pregnant for 8 months but am not yet. I am pretty down about it. Can ... (1:50) - John Townsend

I'm 19 yrs old. I don't have a girlfriend and I don't feel I can tell my problems to my ... (1:56) - John Townsend

Is mental illness referred to in the Bible? What does God think about mental illness? (5:44) - Henry Cloud

Can you talk about over-working, what are reasonable limits and how do we avoid it? (1:53) - John Townsend

I have a lot of financial fears. I work in ministry and while I love what I do, I hate ... (3:40) - Henry Cloud

Face the Reality Of Other People (8:56) - Henry Cloud

Tasks Are Not the Point Of Life (3:50) - John Townsend

Avoid Burnout In Leadership (5:28) - John Townsend

Face the Reality Of My Weaknesses (8:12) - Henry Cloud

Lessons for Leadership Lifers (7:48) - John Townsend

The 80-20 Principle (4:12) - John Townsend

Go the Distance In Leadership (6:43) - John Townsend

Finish Strong As a Leader (3:25) - John Townsend

Be a Leader Who Adapts (5:02) - John Townsend

The Principle Of Reality (6:43) - Henry Cloud

Face the Reality Of the Situation (4:38) - Henry Cloud

Face the Hard Realities Of Life (3:51) - Henry Cloud

Leaders Can't Make People Happy (5:07) - John Townsend

Become a Leader for Life (6:20) - John Townsend

Face the Reality Of My Strengths (7:00) - Henry Cloud

The Aspects Of Reality (4:36) - Henry Cloud

How do you know when it's the right time in a marriage to start having kids? (2:06) - John Townsend

When it comes to dating after a divorce, I've heard that many counselors recommend one year of healing for every ... (3:26) - John Townsend

How much physical contact should I have with someone I'm dating but not committed to? I wonder if even a ... (1:37) - John Townsend

I am no longer married and would like to reenter the dating world. As a Christian I don't believe ... (2:44) - John Townsend

Is it ok to marry for security and companionship if you are not in love? (4:46) - Henry Cloud

I'm dating someone who doesn't like to deal with any conflict. When a disagreement arises or something happens that results ... (2:23) - John Townsend

I am in a relationship with a girl with whom I have grown to love very much. Must I ... (2:01) - John Townsend

If you have gone on a couple of dates with someone and the person is not a good match for ... (1:48) - John Townsend

How do you know when it is time to let go of a dating relationship? (3:08) - John Townsend

Can you give me a few phrases to use to dump someone after a date or two? (2:51) - John Townsend

Is it wrong for a woman to ask a man for a date? (2:04) - Henry Cloud

The Definition of Dating (2:06) - Henry Cloud

I am 50 years old and have been a widow for 6 years. I would like to marry again. Are ... (2:14) - John Townsend

How long should I wait for my fiance to set a date for our wedding? We dated for 2 1/2 ... (1:26) - John Townsend

In a dating relationship, is there a timeline for a commitment? For example, if we haven't made a commitment to ... (2:23) - John Townsend

I'm 35 years old and I've never been on a date. I don't even know where to start. ... (2:08) - John Townsend

In a dating relationship, where do I draw the line physically? (2:57) - John Townsend

I have been dating a man for two years. We haven't moved past the "dinner and a movie" dating stage. ... (2:24) - John Townsend

How do I break out of a pattern of being attracted to men who don't return my feelings? (3:11) - John Townsend

How is dating different at 18 vs. 28? Or is it different? Are the rules the same? Similar? (1:22) - John Townsend

Why do so many men today wait for women to make the first move? (2:19) - John Townsend

What do you think about inter-faith relationships? (2:13) - John Townsend

I've met someone I would like to date. I don't think he's a Christian yet so when is too soon ... (:38) - Henry Cloud

Is it unfair to enter into marriage with $10,000 of debt, even if the irresponsible habits that caused that debt ... (1:15) - John Townsend

Can I date multiple people at one time? (1:32) - Henry Cloud

What do you think about online dating services that promise to match you up with your "perfect soul mate?" Do ... (5:59) - Henry Cloud

Can you talk about vulnerability and connectedness as opposed to autonomy in a dating relationship? When do I self-protect and ... (2:59) - John Townsend

If I want to try a reputable internet dating service, what should I look for? (1:36) - John Townsend

I was in a long relationship with a man, and we were close to getting married. When he broke it ... (2:19) - John Townsend

I've been dating a man for four months and the relationship has begun to get serious. We are both divorced. ... (3:33) - John Townsend

If a woman breaks the engagement, should she give the ring back? What if the man breaks the engagement? (1:28) - John Townsend

I tend to over-romanticize when I'm in a dating relationship. How do I know when I'm doing it and how ... (3:36) - John Townsend

The person I'm in love with had a troubled past. I've noticed that most of my past relationships have been ... (1:48) - John Townsend

How important do you believe physical attraction is in a dating relationship? (3:29) - Henry Cloud

How do I communicate my boundaries to someone I'm dating? (1:55) - Henry Cloud

My boyfriend acts like he loves me but has never said so. I tell him that I love him all ... (2:07) - John Townsend

Where can a woman in her early twenties find a nice man? (2:33) - John Townsend

What do you think about dating someone of a different faith or belief system? (1:46) - Henry Cloud

I am dating a man who has two children who are rude to me. Their father thinks I'm imagining it, ... (4:31) - John Townsend

I'm single, outgoing, and very busy. Because of this, I am careful how I invest my time. I see dating ... (2:01) - John Townsend

Do you think men are more interested in women who are inaccessible? If so, should I try to play hard ... (2:27) - John Townsend

We are Christians who have been dating for a year and a half. We've decided to become engaged, but our ... (3:04) - John Townsend

What are some of the red flags when deciding whether or not to move forward in a dating relationship? (3:20) - John Townsend

What about those "rules" of dating? (2:46) - Henry Cloud

Dating for Men: What are women looking for in a man? (3:21) - Henry Cloud

Honestly Evaluate Yourself (3:03) - Henry Cloud

Dating is Not Exclusively About Marriage (6:51) - Henry Cloud

Have an Accountability Team (5:31) - Henry Cloud

Why Am I Attracted to Bad Guys (2:38) - Henry Cloud

Games Are For People Without Lives (2:44) - Henry Cloud

Get Over the Stigma of Dating Services (3:54) - Henry Cloud

Marriage Is Not For Desperate People (2:09) - Henry Cloud

Excuses About Dating Are Not Always Accurate (5:14) - Henry Cloud

When a First Date Deserves a Second (5:20) - Henry Cloud

Wear a Face That Says You're Open (4:57) - Henry Cloud

Be Flexible With Expectations (3:31) - Henry Cloud

How Friendships Can Turn Into More (2:15) - Henry Cloud

Do Something So Good Things Happen (5:50) - Henry Cloud

Habits Affect Dating (6:44) - Henry Cloud

Tell a Date How You Really Feel (3:24) - Henry Cloud

Being Yourself Is More Attractive (5:16) - Henry Cloud

Guys Need To Initiate (4:17) - Henry Cloud

Enlarge Your Dating Vision By Trying New Ideas (6:06) - Henry Cloud

Meet New People (3:17) - Henry Cloud

When It's Ok To Date a Non-Christian (4:07) - Henry Cloud

Obstacles In Dating (4:40) - Henry Cloud

Don't Wait for Your Type (3:52) - Henry Cloud

Don't Be Afraid To Get Rejected In Dating (4:07) - Henry Cloud

Responsibility and Expectations in Finding Dates (6:46) - Henry Cloud

Why is Dating a Serious Choice (3:26) - Henry Cloud

Sex Appeal Isn't About Sex (2:52) - Henry Cloud

What happens when you say "no" to sex? (1:47) - John Townsend

Fear Your Dating Past (2:43) - Henry Cloud

Take God Out on a Date (7:12) - Henry Cloud

Dating is Not a Cure to Loneliness (4:32) - Henry Cloud

Do Not Repeat the Same Old Mistakes (7:53) - Henry Cloud

Dating for Men: Moving out of fantasyland. (2:06) - Henry Cloud

Patterns of Ineffective Dating (7:19) - Henry Cloud

Establish Healthy Boundaries in Dating (5:53) - Henry Cloud

Symptoms that Your Dating Life Needs Boundaries (8:00) - Henry Cloud

Risk and romance. Who needs it? (3:50) - John Townsend

Take Ownership Over Your Dating Life (4:17) - Henry Cloud

The Great Fallacy in Your Dating Philosophy (8:56) - Henry Cloud

Good Reasons to Date People (6:35) - Henry Cloud

Is It Ok for a Woman to Pursue a Man? (2:41) - Henry Cloud

Beware When Opposites Attract (3:56) - Henry Cloud

Dating is Not About Finding a Mate (4:25) - Henry Cloud

When Should A Divorcee Date Again? (2:52) - Henry Cloud

Fall in Love With a Friend (3:49) - Henry Cloud

You can resurrect your dead dating life. Here's how! (4:30) - Henry Cloud

For the single person - how far is "too far?" Maybe that's not the question! (3:16) - John Townsend

Is it sex or is it Prozac? (6:20) - John Townsend

The sexual person - it should be you. (4:11) - John Townsend

Your fantasy person isn't just a fantasy... they're a train wreck! (5:13) - Henry Cloud

Take the dating challenge - keep a log and see what happens next! (7:10) - Henry Cloud

Choose the Right Date (8:28) - Henry Cloud

Look for the Right Things in a Date (6:47) - Henry Cloud

A Character Test for a Truly Loving Person (7:19) - Henry Cloud

Dating for Men: Learning to be yourself. (3:21) - Henry Cloud

Dating for Men: Tips to jump start your dating life (2:37) - Henry Cloud

I think I have a sexual addiction to pornography on the net. Can you help me? (3:20) - John Townsend

How can I deal with my depression? (3:46) - John Townsend

How can I cope with and manage the basic feelings that lead to my anger? (2:59) - John Townsend

My friend told me that I have a problem with anger, but I have been told it is healthy to ... (2:55) - Henry Cloud

I'm anxious all the time - even when things are going well. Do I have to take medication? (5:35) - Henry Cloud

Why, when I awake during the night, am I unable to return to sleep -- I lay in bed and ... (4:12) - Henry Cloud

Are panic attacks real? Where do they come from? I sometimes seem to get them and I want to know ... (3:05) - John Townsend

From all outward appearances I seem to have a good life. I have a good marriage, great kids and a ... (3:05) - John Townsend

Are recurring nightmares a good indicator that someone should seek help? My best friend has had recurring nightmares for years ... (1:45) - John Townsend

How can I deal with my anger? (4:53) - John Townsend

I spend most of my time waiting for something bad to happen. How can I stop worrying so much? (1:55) - John Townsend

How can I tell the difference between being depressed and just having a bad couple weeks? When should I ... (1:29) - John Townsend

Is there a way to know if I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome or if I'm depressed or just burned out. ... (1:05) - Henry Cloud

I have struggled with depression throughout my adult life. I keep asking God to take away my depression, but ... (2:18) - John Townsend

I get the blues periodically. How do I know when it's part of normal life or if I have ... (1:51) - John Townsend

Am I compulsive.. I HAVE TO and ALWAYS line my shoes up, I honk 4 times in a row ... (2:05) - Henry Cloud

I've heard that schizophrenia often shows up for the first time during the college-age years. Are there any warning ... (2:27) - Henry Cloud

Do you think that obesity is similar to other substance abuse problems? Should they be approached the same way? (2:18) - John Townsend

Is anorexia always about control? (1:36) - John Townsend

Taking control of my life seems big. Where do I start? (3:38) - Henry Cloud

I am feeling a lot of stress and anxiety. What are the symptoms of anxiety attacks? Do I see a ... (3:19) - Henry Cloud

I really want to follow my heart and make a dramatic life-change, but my head says no. I'm single so ... (2:30) - John Townsend

What are some of the characteristics of an unhealthy relationship with a significant other? (2:36) - John Townsend

What's difference between a therapist, a psychiatrist, a psychologist, a counselor etc? How do I know who to speak with? (3:49) - John Townsend

What are signals that it's time to move to professional counseling? (2:21) - John Townsend

How long should you see a counselor? (2:37) - John Townsend

What is bipolar disorder? Can it be treated? (2:07) - Henry Cloud

I have been on anti-depressants for the last 15 years. I am in counseling and getting involved in a social ... (2:44) - John Townsend

I have been getting in touch with a lot of anger toward my mother. Do I have a responsibility ... (3:41) - Henry Cloud

The more I think about my childhood, the more I realize how dysfunctional my mother was in her parenting of ... (3:01) - John Townsend

What makes a person a critical person? Can they change? (2:55) - Henry Cloud

People throw the term co-dependent around all the time, can you define co-dependency and give an example of it? (2:32) - John Townsend

I have heard that grief is a process. If that is true, then what are the phases of the process ... (6:05) - Henry Cloud

What is OCD? (2:02) - John Townsend

I've identified my "baggage" and have gotten rid of some of it but I am having a tough time letting ... (3:13) - John Townsend

Could you discuss "good anger" versus "bad anger?" (5:25) - Henry Cloud

I was married for 17 years. Of course I was devastated when he told me he was homosexual and left ... (2:00) - John Townsend

I was sexually molested as a 4 year old and I can't seem to move past the pain from my ... (2:29) - John Townsend

Can you define narcissism and talk about what a relationship with a narcissistic person looks like? (2:58) - John Townsend

I have a problem with drugs and it's wrecking my life. What can I do? (3:03) - John Townsend

I can't stop drinking. What should I do? (3:19) - John Townsend

How can I deal with my anxiety? (3:05) - John Townsend

Is there benefit to going into therapy as part of a serious weight-loss plan? What would that be? (2:22) - Henry Cloud

What are the warning signs that depression is becoming worse and needs to be addressed professionally? (6:47) - Henry Cloud

The Reality of Cheering Up Depression (3:29) - John Townsend

Fictitious Cures for Depression (7:21) - John Townsend

Causes of Depression (6:59) - John Townsend

Depression Defined (3:25) - John Townsend

Resolving Depression (6:34) - John Townsend

Your "relational termites!" (4:01) - Henry Cloud

The four people in every good relationship. (1:14) - Henry Cloud

Lindsay Lohan Enters Rehab. Young actress sets example for addicts (1:42) - John Townsend

Christmas Stress-Busters!-Make a list of the non-negotiables for this Holiday Season. (3:00) - John Townsend

Is Michael Richards a racist? - John Townsend Digs into this type of behavior. (4:04) - John Townsend

Road Rage on the Internet Highway. Why some are threatened by education. (3:59) - John Townsend

Half of 150 Educators Kidnapped in Iraq Are Released - Why some are threatened by education. (3:10) - John Townsend

Welcome 300th Million U.S. Citizen! -Be more than 1 in 300,000,000 (1:22) - John Townsend

Shop 'till You Drop. Dr. Townsend discusses the characteristics of men and women compulsive shoppers. (2:25) - John Townsend

Tragedy in Pennsylvania - Dr. Townsend teaches how to cope from the tragic shooting in Amish schoolhouse. (3:59) - John Townsend

Mirror, Mirror On the Wall, Who's the Fairest Elephant of Them All?. Use self-awareness as a mirror in your ... (2:05) - John Townsend

Taking care of yourself and others after a tragedy. (3:00) - John Townsend

Robert Hawkins killed 8 people and self at Mall - How do you make sense of such events? (4:32) - John Townsend

Shawn Taylor murder - The attitude of the team is a great example! (3:43) - John Townsend

I'm struggling with my career, or lack there of. I know there is a book called, "What Color is Your ... (2:38) - John Townsend

I am always surprised at the number of my middle-aged peers who still don't know what they want to be ... (3:45) - John Townsend

How do I set boundaries at work when everyone else works twelve-hour days? (2:25) - John Townsend

How do you work with a co-worker, when you know she tried to get you fired? (2:50) - Henry Cloud

I am terrible at job interviews. In fact, I'll stay in a miserable job just so I don't ever have ... (2:55) - John Townsend

Do you have any advice on how to find my true career or purpose? Are there steps or helps? (3:14) - Henry Cloud

I'm in my late twenties and I've been through four jobs already. Why is it so hard to commit to ... (2:50) - John Townsend

I am a middle-aged man with a comfortable and secure job, but I don't like what I am doing and ... (2:30) - John Townsend

How far can I stretch the truth in a resume? They're obviously marketing devices and it seems understood they should ... (1:55) - John Townsend

I have a co-worker who flirts with me even though she knows I am married. How can I set ... (1:20) - Henry Cloud

I get discouraged when I set personal goals and fail. How can I deal with failure? (2:25) - John Townsend

I'm up for a promotion. It would mean working longer hours and sacrificing time with my family. But it would ... (1:53) - John Townsend

How important is setting goals? I try to set goals, but I fail at so many of them that I ... (2:43) - John Townsend

My boss is more concerned with results than his employees. It really bothers me. What should I do? (3:49) - John Townsend

What are the most important elements of successful goal setting? (3:19) - John Townsend

Your ability to confront will predict your success in life. (6:33) - Henry Cloud

Orient Yourself Toward the Truth (5:34) - Henry Cloud

Reality Is Always Your Friend (4:28) - Henry Cloud

Integrity Is About Producing Results (5:57) - Henry Cloud

Embrace the Negative (6:59) - Henry Cloud

Be Able to Make the Hard Calls (2:04) - Henry Cloud

Delayed Gratification Builds Character (3:52) - Henry Cloud

Learn to Meet the Demands of Reality (4:05) - Henry Cloud

Develop the Ability To Create and Maintain Trust (5:26) - Henry Cloud

Examples of Trust Building through Connecting (5:26) - Henry Cloud

The Three Things Needed to Succeed (5:29) - Henry Cloud

Play the movie and watch the ending. You'll be ahead of the game. (5:40) - Henry Cloud

Create Growth in Your Life (7:37) - Henry Cloud

Serve Values that Are Larger Than You (3:52) - Henry Cloud

Learn How To Create Growth (1:06) - Henry Cloud

Adjust to Transcendent Realities (4:50) - Henry Cloud

The Last Word on Integrity (1:34) - Henry Cloud

Hand-wringing helps! How constructive worrying can be beneficial to your health. (4:20) - Henry Cloud

Pull the Tooth! Successful people deal quickly with negative energy drains. (4:44) - Henry Cloud

Breaking Bonaduce, breaking the destructive cycles - Steps you can take to help those in addiction. (4:35) - John Townsend

Getting Fired Is the Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me!. Use failure as a reboot for life. (2:00) - John Townsend

Immigrants Send Aid Too!. Everyone can afford to make these 3 investments. (2:11) - John Townsend

Gilion Gibons Saga - How to not play the victim even when things look hopeless (3:49) - John Townsend

I get called Patton at work a lot. I guess I have a tough, direct leadership style. I ... (1:39) - John Townsend

I lead a pretty large team and I'm always looking for the next leader as our company grows. How do ... (1:11) - John Townsend

I want to be the best leader I can be. What are some tools or tips to develop my leadership ... (1:56) - John Townsend

What are signs that an employee is burning out? We are pushing people very hard right now and I want ... (1:19) - John Townsend

How do you fire someone in a way that's sensitive and yet final? This is the worst part of my ... (2:36) - John Townsend

How can we retain people and keep them energized when we don't have the money to give raises? What are ... (2:01) - John Townsend

What are the elements necessary to have a great team environment within a company? (2:31) - John Townsend

I would like to promote a very talented young woman in my company. She's never been in a management position, ... (1:25) - John Townsend

Consequences for those difficult people. (5:46) - Henry Cloud

The traits to avoid as a leader. Watch out for these in yourself! (7:17) - Henry Cloud

Leaders need the right "traveling companions" on their journey to success. (3:11) - Henry Cloud

Leaders Need Traveling Companions who Provide Loving Support (3:41) - Henry Cloud

The three characteristics of every successful leader. (6:36) - Henry Cloud

The Key Question in Servant Leadership (5:52) - Henry Cloud

Just say, "no." How to set limits in leadership (6:10) - John Townsend

Some characteristics of the very best leaders. Who they are and how they got there. (6:00) - Henry Cloud

That thing called "Trust." What it is and why it's important for you as a leader. (7:35) - Henry Cloud

How you can use "the outcomes" to evaluate yourself as a leader. (5:04) - Henry Cloud

Your character leaves a wake behind you. What's yours like? (4:55) - Henry Cloud

Don't explain it away - take responsibility! (5:23) - Henry Cloud

The characteristics of a "relational leader." (6:44) - John Townsend

"Relational-based leadership" isn't a luxury. The importance of valuing people. (6:23) - John Townsend

Getting to the hearts of those you are leading. (5:26) - Henry Cloud

It's okay and it's important to trust your gut instinct. It can be a good source of information. (3:03) - John Townsend

What kind of leader will people trust? The answer will surprise you. (5:52) - Henry Cloud

Boundaries: Draw your property lines and see what happens next. (7:22) - John Townsend

Developing your boundaries skills in leadership. (5:11) - John Townsend

The best leaders have the best boundaries. (6:30) - John Townsend

Deal with it! Toxic people, idiots and enemies and what to do with them. (6:40) - Henry Cloud

Fire! Ready! Aim! The path to making good decisions. (5:17) - Henry Cloud

Show them you value them! What to say and how to say it. (5:06) - John Townsend

The importance of the "humility process" and its outcome for leaders. (4:20) - Henry Cloud

Leaders Need Traveling Companions who Provide Courage and Can Give Feedback (7:42) - Henry Cloud

"Relational leadership" makes great teams and leaders - but it doesn't just "happen." Practical steps to build from. (8:03) - John Townsend

Four regrets leaders have about working with difficult people. (2:20) - Henry Cloud

Beyond integrity. What else is there? (9:33) - Henry Cloud

Leaders Need "Traveling Companions" Who Will Provide Wisdom. (3:46) - Henry Cloud

Worry about the right things. (6:14) - Henry Cloud

Donald Rumsfeld Steps Down - The dark side of leadership is a reality. (3:07) - John Townsend

Draft To Be Reinstated? (2:43) - John Townsend

Election Results In! - U.S. voting system works well. Don't get caught in post-election blues. (1:19) - John Townsend

Pastor Ted Haggard Fall-Out - What went wrong and where do we go from here? (2:54) - John Townsend

Sen. Kerry Apologizes for Remarks - Make your apologies worth hearing. (2:44) - John Townsend

President Declares There Will Be A Deadline For Withdrawal From Iraq - Deadlines are necessary for our future (2:35) - John Townsend

Bob Ney Pleads Guilty to Moral Corruption Charges - Justifying moral bankruptcy (2:04) - John Townsend

The Crocodile Hunter: Crikey, What a Marriage! - Dr. Townsend talks about the close relationship between Steve and Terri Irwin ... (3:28) - John Townsend

U.S. Diplomat Regrets Remarks About Iraq War - Avoid alienating your relationships (2:36) - John Townsend

Dr. Cloud examines how the greatest competitors utilize accountability and guidance, and how those structures can be applied to all ... (3:10) - Henry Cloud

Corporate Scandal and Corruption (3:12) - Henry Cloud

Mitt Romney's Faith Speech. People Care and Think About Their Faith And Others' Beliefs (3:43) - John Townsend

My spouse has made up their mind that they want to leave me. What can I do? (2:37) - Henry Cloud

Should I separate from my husband because he hit me one time? My friends say so but my mom says ... (2:15) - John Townsend

How can you help a spouse recognize their addictive behavior? (1:55) - John Townsend

How do I assess my spouse's needs without her thinking she is a clinical case study? (3:13) - John Townsend

We've been married for less than a year and we fight a lot. We never fought when we were dating ... (3:54) - John Townsend

What if your spouse is not as invested in the relationship as you are? What do you do? (3:35) - John Townsend

For a woman to feel sexually attractive, does the atmosphere have to be just right? My wife insists on the ... (1:35) - John Townsend

Is it important to be physically attracted to your wife? We have been married for 15 years and have 3 ... (2:37) - John Townsend

My wife and I seem to get into disagreement about finances a lot: how to budget money, what we should ... (2:23) - John Townsend

My husband has a gambling addiction and has essentially bankrupted the family. Otherwise he is a kind and good man. ... (2:20) - John Townsend

My wife is bipolar and her medication is only partially helpful. Because of this we don't get invited many places ... (1:16) - John Townsend

We've been married for over 20 years and our marriage seems to be in one long rut that we cannot ... (3:24) - John Townsend

There is a young man I know who is a compulsive gambler. He plays poker online any chance he gets. ... (1:35) - Henry Cloud

What do I do when my husband repeatedly says he wants to leave me but never does? I'm tempted to ... (1:42) - John Townsend

I think my husband might be having an affair. How should I approach him? How can I find out if ... (2:29) - John Townsend

I think my wife is having an affair with one of my friends. Should I confront her? Should ... (1:45) - John Townsend

I'm in my mid- 20's, finished with college, and engaged. My fiance and I are paying for the wedding, but ... (1:25) - John Townsend

What is the best way to handle our wedding plans when we (the bride and groom) attend one church and ... (2:01) - John Townsend

My wife is a nurse and her housekeeping standards are very high. I'm not a slob but I don't feel ... (2:27) - John Townsend

My spouse and I are committed to each other, but we just don't feel in love anymore. How do we ... (2:29) - John Townsend

My husband has been physically abusing me for years. Counseling helps for a while, but his rage always comes back. ... (4:58) - Henry Cloud

My husband offers to help with the kids or help with the housework. This drives me ... (1:59) - John Townsend

I've heard that most marital fights are about money, sex or kids. Isn't all of this ultimately about control? What's ... (1:28) - John Townsend

Is there a way to get my wife to stop talking about all her exes? She's a faithful wife but ... (1:32) - John Townsend

My wife is mentally ill and not able to take care of herself by any standard. She is more like ... (1:34) - Henry Cloud

My wife uses a condescending tone of voice to me, even though her words are neutral. How can I make ... (2:47) - John Townsend

When my husband corrects me, I feel criticized. I feel he is parenting me, rather than telling me his thoughts ... (2:23) - John Townsend

If one marriage partner feels that the couple needs counseling to maintain the health of the marriage, what valid reasons ... (2:11) - John Townsend

What can a wife do when the husband is fearful of emotions and refuses to see someone to discuss the ... (3:10) - John Townsend

My husband makes major purchases without even consulting me! I also work full-time and we barely have enough left at ... (2:48) - John Townsend

How can I help my wife deal with post-partum depression? (2:17) - Henry Cloud

How do you know when to keep working on a marriage and when to seek a divorce? (1:24) - John Townsend

I've been married for almost 10 years, and I sometimes find myself thinking about my college girlfriend and wondering if ... (1:42) - John Townsend

My wife flirts with other men. It makes me jealous and it hurts. What should I do? (3:33) - John Townsend

I had an affair in my past and it is now over. I have come to terms with it myself, ... (2:08) - John Townsend

How do you forgive an unfaithful spouse? (2:23) - John Townsend

When we go out for dinner my wife asks me to make the decisions on where to go and what ... (3:25) - Henry Cloud

My husband gambled away all of our money. He is getting psychological help through his employee assistance group, but I ... (6:38) - Henry Cloud

Is emotional intimacy outside of marriage equivalent to adultery? (1:57) - John Townsend

I've been married for 35 years and there is absolutely no communication, and a passive resistance to the whole idea ... (4:45) - John Townsend

My husband is addicted to internet porn and masturbation. He is seeking help from therapy, but I feel so much ... (2:09) - John Townsend

Should I tell my wife that another woman made a pass at me? (1:11) - John Townsend

In a marriage when one partner has already left emotionally, what path should the other take? (1:40) - Henry Cloud

How do I talk to my wife about something wrong that I've done when what I have to say is ... (2:20) - John Townsend

Is it ever right to lie to your spouse? (1:49) - John Townsend

My husband and I fight about money all the time. I've heard that fights about money are actually about other ... (4:38) - Henry Cloud

I know I need to respect my husband, but he certainly blows it in business decisions and our personal finances. ... (2:28) - John Townsend

I think my husband is watching pornography on the internet. What should I do? How should I confront him? (2:56) - John Townsend

Should you tell your husband everything? (2:19) - John Townsend

What do you do when a couple is trying to communicate to resolve a hurt or disagreement and they don't ... (3:17) - John Townsend

What is the best way to find a good marriage counselor? (2:20) - Henry Cloud

When one person in a marriage clams up and won't talk during a disagreement, how can you resolve it in ... (1:36) - Henry Cloud

My husband as been having an affair for the last year and is now living with the woman. If he ... (2:34) - John Townsend

We have been married for 10 years and we don't have a very good sex life. What do you recommend ... (2:57) - John Townsend

Can I have a fulfilling sexual relationship when I get married if I've never had premarital sex? (1:48) - John Townsend

I am in a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage, should I divorce? (2:52) - John Townsend

Is it okay for a married couple to go to different churches, if they are both committed to them? (1:58) - John Townsend

My wife and I are separated but working toward getting back together. My wife is afraid of the reaction she ... (2:37) - John Townsend

Do married couples have to become more distant over time? Shouldn't the opposite be true? (2:08) - John Townsend

My husband wants to be intimate and have sex more often than I do. The stress of it is making ... (2:37) - John Townsend

My wife is not interested in any physical intimacy whatsoever. We're only in our forties and I've always been a ... (2:47) - John Townsend

I recently gave birth and my husband and I have not yet been sexually intimate in many months. What should ... (2:58) - John Townsend

We have been married for a number of years and our sex life is very routine. How can we spice ... (2:02) - John Townsend

What should I do when my spouse is upset and wont speak to me? (2:52) - John Townsend

I love my husband but I can't get any sleep he kicks the covers, thrashes around and snores ... (1:46) - Henry Cloud

How do I live with the wrong mate choice? (2:35) - John Townsend

What are some ways to put the fire back into a marriage? We have reached the bifocals stage. (3:03) - John Townsend

My husband and I used to fight like crazy. We always ended up saying things one or both of us ... (1:38) - John Townsend

I cheated on my wife three years ago. I've repented and I feel terrible and don't want to hurt her. ... (2:00) - John Townsend

Is there really such a thing as the "seven year itch?" We have been married for about seven years and ... (2:05) - John Townsend

My wife stopped touching me years ago. Am I to continue showing physical affection to her even though I feel ... (2:41) - John Townsend

My husband committed a crime and I'm the only one who knows about it. I think he should turn ... (2:54) - Henry Cloud

Is it a problem if one person in a marriage is a brand new Christian and the other has walked ... (1:47) - John Townsend

My wife had an affair and it didn't last - she wants to move back home. I'm afraid that she ... (2:45) - John Townsend

I am so unhappy in my marriage. Should I stick it out any longer? (4:02) - John Townsend

What are the danger signs that a marriage is in trouble? (6:05) - Henry Cloud

What are some practical steps a husband can take to become more sensitive to his wife? (3:17) - John Townsend

My husband is always working and doesn't seem to want to be at home with me. If I say I ... (3:16) - Henry Cloud

Why we fight. The good news about those four main reasons. (5:20) - John Townsend

One of the biggest mistakes you can make in an argument. (4:31) - John Townsend

Good Fights - Bad Fights! (7:55) - John Townsend

When fights get "historical." (2:22) - John Townsend

"You are not the boss of me!" Freedom and control in a relationship - you may be surprised by what ... (6:11) - John Townsend

My 18 year old son wants to get a tattoo. What should I do? (2:01) - Henry Cloud

My teenager seems to be depressed lately and I'm concerned. As a child he was so happy-go-lucky, but now he ... (3:30) - John Townsend

I think I might be about a month pregnant. I need to know what I can do to end this ... (1:52) - John Townsend

Help! My just turned 3 yr old son has zero interest in potty training. We've purchased all the ... (1:05) - Henry Cloud

I am a parent of three children. A year ago my wife and I felt like God was calling us ... (5:54) - Henry Cloud

My daughter is 15 and pregnant. She wants to put the baby up for adoption. I am worried ... (1:18) - Henry Cloud

I gave my first baby up for adoption ten years ago when I was 21 and now I am consumed ... (2:00) - Henry Cloud

People often ask personal questions about our 3-year-old adopted daughter who is obviously of a different race than my husband ... (1:34) - Henry Cloud

Practically speaking, how do you financially separate from your kids? What should our goal be now that our children are ... (2:03) - John Townsend

My daughter is in a relationship with a man who has had two wives already. She is going to move ... (2:41) - John Townsend

My son is reaching for the stars. He is sixteen and very creative and bright, and has ADD. He ... (4:19) - Henry Cloud

I know it's not right but sometimes when my kids do something wrong, I get REALLY upset. I never hit ... (1:07) - John Townsend

My eleven year old daughter is concerned about her weight already. How do I help her with her self image? (2:38) - John Townsend

I think my teenage daughter is bulimic. I ask her if she's okay and she says yes, but I sense ... (2:42) - John Townsend

I hear anorexia is about control. I want my daughters to eat but I am afraid of making food a ... (1:42) - John Townsend

My eighteen year old, introverted daughter was an Ugly Duckling and is now a knock-out swan. The problem is that ... (2:44) - John Townsend

How do you have balance with two parents and three children where one child is autistic? (2:02) - John Townsend

What are your thoughts on children sleeping in the same bed as their parents? (1:42) - Henry Cloud

I was raised "Christian" but now consider myself "Wicca." My parents are not happy. I'm still in school and ... (5:41) - Henry Cloud

My nine year old daughter has wild mood swings. She is bubbly and hyper one minute and angry and crying ... (3:00) - John Townsend

I am a single woman in my late thirties. I would like to be a mother but I am not ... (1:37) - John Townsend

Do you think that so many children get socialized so early in a daycare setting that I should send my ... (1:09) - John Townsend

My daughter is 19 and she lives at home. She goes to school full time and works full time. Our ... (1:29) - John Townsend

What are your thoughts on co-ed college dorms? (1:25) - Henry Cloud

My college-age son has no interest in attending church. What can I do to get him involved? (2:52) - John Townsend

I made a lot of mistakes raising my kids. I am a changed person now and have apologized to my ... (3:21) - Henry Cloud

I have an eight-year old child who is a compulsive liar. I can't even have a normal conversation with her ... (2:05) - John Townsend

How do you discipline teenagers? Everything I try either creates big drama or out-and-out defiance. (2:41) - John Townsend

My son is developing some behaviors that are concerning me. He is a germ freak and must have everyone wash ... (1:53) - John Townsend

How should I discipline my child when she misbehaves in public? (1:36) - John Townsend

How as a parent do you realize that you are pushing your children too hard as opposed to encouraging your ... (3:57) - Henry Cloud

My 19 year old daughter just moved out of the house. Her living arrangements will be ideal, so there is ... (2:21) - Henry Cloud

My daughter is so bossy with her little brother. I've noticed lately that he seems to depend on her ... (2:01) - Henry Cloud

I am a stay at home mom with a 1 yr old and a 2 1/2 yr old. The 2 ... (1:44) - John Townsend

My 16 year old son is into heavy metal music and I cannot stand it. I asked him to please ... (2:25) - Henry Cloud

We had a group of people over to our home. There was a kid that was misbehaving in an inappropriate ... (2:29) - Henry Cloud

I have a question. In the process of "tolerating and enduring our child's hatred of our boundaries... what ... (2:57) - Henry Cloud

When parents have different discipline techniques, how do you resolve that? (1:49) - John Townsend

What is the best response to give my 13 year old son when he acts and speaks disrespectfully to me? (4:01) - Henry Cloud

What are your thoughts on "time out" as a disciplinary tool? (2:10) - Henry Cloud

How do I talk to my young children about their alcoholic grandfather? I want them to love him but I ... (2:43) - John Townsend

My daughter is dating a boy I do not trust. I hear he is wild and drinks a lot. How ... (2:11) - Henry Cloud

I told my kids a long time ago that if I ever caught them with drugs I would personally call ... (3:41) - John Townsend

When I cleaned my teenager's room I found marijuana. How should I confront them now that I know they are ... (3:11) - John Townsend

How can I help my 15 year old daughter have a more positive outlook on life? Everything is boring ... (2:30) - Henry Cloud

How, as a mom, to address my son's feeling that he doesn't have a role model in his father? (1:44) - John Townsend

Our 22 yr old daughter opened up several charge accounts and was in debt over $7,000. We had no idea ... (2:42) - Henry Cloud

I don't want to breastfeed my daughter but I'll feel like a bad mother if I quit. My husband, my ... (2:27) - Henry Cloud

Are there benchmarks to know when a college-aged kid is ready for full independence? My child seems like a fourth ... (2:21) - John Townsend

I have an overweight teenage daughter, who doesn't seem concerned about losing weight. What can I do besides scream and ... (1:55) - John Townsend

Like a lot of our friends, our 20-something son moved back home while he "figures out what he wants to ... (2:30) - Henry Cloud

My teenage daughter has started to rebel by drinking and partying and is starting to hang out with friends who ... (3:43) - John Townsend

With many couples living away from their nuclear families, what are the support systems we can look for? (2:02) - John Townsend

My son is in process of getting divorce. I oppose divorce, he knows it, and I tried to counsel him. ... (1:32) - John Townsend

My 9 year old daughter wants to ride her bike the 3 blocks to school each day. The route is ... (3:02) - Henry Cloud

What are the most common mistakes parents make with disciplining their children? (2:50) - John Townsend

We have a 27 yr. old son who suffers from severe depression. He lives on his own but has trouble ... (2:10) - John Townsend

If parents like the datee, how do they keep from putting too much pressure on their child if ... (1:53) - John Townsend

I really hate Christmas. I'm too tired, stressed and broke to do it again. My children are 18 and 15. ... (1:45) - John Townsend

Are some people just destined to be criminals? What causes a child from a perfectly good home to turn out ... (2:53) - John Townsend

My teenage son seems effeminate to me. Even as a child, he never wanted to do typical boy ... (1:43) - John Townsend

My son is gay. Should I try to make him change or accept him as he is? (2:54) - John Townsend

What are some good ways to help your child cope with life when they begin to find out that life ... (3:36) - John Townsend

How do I deal with a teenager who usually makes the right choice, is very bright and is well grounded ... (2:16) - John Townsend

My teenager wants to get a tattoo, but I do not think it is a good idea. How should I ... (2:07) - John Townsend

I caught my son in a compromising situation with his young girlfriend - he is 15 and so is she. ... (3:51) - Henry Cloud

I am a father, newly-divorced from his wife of 23 years, I have 3 kids; 20, 17 and 12 years ... (1:28) - John Townsend

What are some of the most important things that I as a parent can say or do for my children? (3:45) - Henry Cloud

My daughter is in her early twenties and lives a very small, controlled life. I have learned a lot over ... (2:53) - John Townsend

Is there a point when you have done enough as a parent? When you have spent enough money, ... (1:57) - John Townsend

How can I be a good father to my growing daughter? What tools do I need? (2:58) - John Townsend

How do you become a good parent when your parents were bad role models? (2:06) - Henry Cloud

What are your thoughts about gender-specific preferences, for example boys like trucks and girls like dolls? Is this environmental or ... (2:27) - John Townsend

If a mom is going to work outside the home, is there a better time in the life of the ... (1:32) - John Townsend

We would like to move to a less-expensive region of the country but have a child in grade school, middle ... (1:19) - John Townsend

My teenage kids have web pages on My Space. I've heard too much about online predators and I insisted that ... (1:49) - John Townsend

Do you think birth-order has a lot to do with our emotional development? Does knowing someone's birth-order give you insight ... (1:18) - John Townsend

I'm a first-time mother with a problem. I feel overwhelmed by the demands of my baby, but I don't trust ... (2:09) - Henry Cloud

How do I deal with my kids after a divorce to help them connect with me on a deeper level? (2:36) - John Townsend

I've never told my children that I was married twice before. They're now in their twenties. On the one ... (2:08) - Henry Cloud

Our 13-year-old son spends a lot of time in his room with the door closed. I think he may ... (2:35) - John Townsend

My 16 yr daughter is pregnant. I am so angry at her for ruining her life, but I know now ... (1:34) - John Townsend

How do I determine the difference between the non-negotiable and negotiable when dealing with my three teenagers? I can't die ... (1:46) - John Townsend

How do you teach your kids to not be swayed by peer pressure? (3:36) - John Townsend

My spouse is more interested in being our kids' friends than being a parent. Is this a problem? (2:28) - John Townsend

If a child is being bullied how do you teach them to defend themselves? At what point should a parent ... (3:32) - John Townsend

We have a 15-year old daughter who is a great kid. She's never given us any trouble and she's a ... (2:37) - Henry Cloud

Is birth order really important in dealing with our children's personalities. (1:15) - John Townsend

We have a soon-to-be 18 yr old child that has refused to attend school or hold a job. He has ... (2:38) - Henry Cloud

Our three-year old simply will not sleep. She gets up in the middle of the night and fixes a snack ... (4:15) - Henry Cloud

My wife puts so much energy into home schooling that she has none left for me. We are both committed ... (1:33) - John Townsend

Is it okay to search my teenager's room, monitor their email and so on without their knowledge? I want to ... (2:57) - John Townsend

I just found out my thirteen year old daughter is cutting herself and I'm completely freaked out. How do I ... (2:11) - John Townsend

Do you have any suggestions for easing the stress of a divorce for children? (2:27) - Henry Cloud

Is it better to be completely honest with your children about the mistakes you made when you were younger or ... (2:46) - Henry Cloud

Is there any value in forcing a teenager to go to therapy? My son is exhibiting behavior that is beyond ... (1:02) - John Townsend

I have 3 children 10, 15 and 17. They all hate each other and the 2 older ones have physically ... (2:28) - John Townsend

Our daughter is sleeping with her boyfriend. One of us is upset by this and one of us thinks it's ... (2:45) - John Townsend

What do you think about home-schooling? Is it good for children or are they not learning socialization skills they'll need ... (1:25) - Henry Cloud

I don't trust the available technologies for protecting kids from pornography. How do you put in guidelines without sitting there ... (2:31) - John Townsend

Is spanking the right way to discipline children? (1:28) - John Townsend

How can parents respond to college-age children who are questioning their Christian faith and living contrary to biblical principles? What ... (2:43) - John Townsend

I am about to marry a person who has children. How do I approach being a step-parent? (2:01) - John Townsend

What suggestions do you have for someone marrying into a blended family? (2:35) - John Townsend

I am struggling with custody/visitation issues. My new spouse and I want to move a few hours away. My former ... (2:56) - John Townsend

Our son is speech-delayed and getting early intervention services. From time to time somebody will ask me if he's slow ... (1:39) - Henry Cloud

My 9 year old daughter suffers from OCD, depression, and anxiety. She is seeing a counselor, is on medication, and ... (2:17) - Henry Cloud

How can I get my kids to help out more around the home with chores? (2:52) - John Townsend

My ten year old son doesn't get along with his teacher. She is very difficult to talk to. What can ... (4:06) - Henry Cloud

How do you teach self-discipline to a teenager? Some kids seem to have it built in, while others never ... (1:52) - John Townsend

My 18 year old daughter is in need of counseling, she is living a double life and is extremely conflicted. ... (1:20) - Henry Cloud

I have heard the saying that parents have to move from a role of parenting to a role of consulting. ... (2:35) - John Townsend

Sometimes what feels like love to one of my children is lost on another one. How do you make each ... (2:49) - John Townsend

When should a teenager draw a boundary to a parent about their parent inquiring into their personal daily activities? (2:10) - Henry Cloud

When and how do I tell my young children about sex? (1:26) - John Townsend

My two year old throws really big tantrums. I'm pregnant and exhausted and tend to give him what he wants ... (1:55) - John Townsend

How do you go about choosing a counselor for your child? The stakes seem so high! (3:04) - John Townsend

It's time for our annual family vacation. My nineteen year old wants to stay home. I don't know which ... (2:17) - Henry Cloud

I have a three year old who is pretty disobedient. I have tried many forms of discipline, like time out ... (5:47) - Henry Cloud

I have a child that is a compulsive liar and I have no idea what to believe, or how to ... (2:06) - Henry Cloud

When a married couple is on different spectrums in their parenting ideas, how do you compromise or establish values that ... (3:18) - John Townsend

My husband had a daughter out of wedlock eight years ago, before we met. She was raised by her mother ... (3:38) - Henry Cloud

My husband and I have different discipline styles. I am more strict and will punish further for attitude as well ... (1:34) - John Townsend

How do you help a child who is bullied by his peers? (1:29) - John Townsend

What can parents do to reconnect with their teenage children? It seems I don't know my own kids anymore! (1:39) - John Townsend

I am an exhausted single parent. I work 14-16 hours a day and on weekends, and I'm starting to have ... (1:59) - John Townsend

My daughter has made some choices about what she wants to do in life but my husband is not being ... (1:52) - Henry Cloud

How much should an elementary-school aged child be expected to help with housework and yard work? My kids act like ... (1:38) - John Townsend

I can't stand it when my teenager apologizes by saying Well I'm SORRY in a way ... (3:45) - Henry Cloud

I don't like my twelve-year-old daughter's friends. I find them stuck up and gossipy. I told her what I thought, ... (3:08) - John Townsend

How to help your children develop 8 character qualities that will make them healthy adults. (6:23) - Henry Cloud, John Townsend

Parenting Pitfalls: Overcoming the 5 major obstacles to creating boundaries for your children. (4:16) - Henry Cloud, John Townsend

"Reality consequences" work. Use them! (4:45) - Henry Cloud, John Townsend

I tutor a 9 year old who is acting out. She is ADD and requires one on one attention. ... (1:49) - John Townsend

What do you do when dealing with a button pusher and the person doesn't respond to what you ask for? (2:49) - John Townsend

My sister at age 46 is continually jockeying for position in the family. She creates conflict that plays one person ... (2:00) - Henry Cloud

Some people believe that as Christians we ought to forgive and accept other people's behavior no matter how it affects ... (1:23) - John Townsend

I am so sad about my divorce, I don't know how to start over. What would you recommend? (3:34) - John Townsend

How do we handle situations where we find ourselves related to or working with people who aren't what we would ... (2:32) - John Townsend

We are newlyweds and had a terrible Christmas. We raced between her parents (there are two sets because her ... (2:54) - John Townsend

I am a Sunday School teacher and suspect some possible abuse or neglect of a child in my class. I ... (2:56) - Henry Cloud

There is a rumor that seems undisputable that my neighbor beats his wife. I feel strongly there is a moral ... (1:45) - John Townsend

I am in the process of gathering some men to help me in my growth process. What I am ... (2:31) - John Townsend

What is taboo when counseling? What things should I not say? (3:46) - Henry Cloud

I have a friend who has suffered a tremendous tragedy within two years with the death of both of his ... (1:57) - John Townsend

How does an older person in their sixties, who is divorced after an unhappy 34 year marriage, find true and ... (2:13) - John Townsend

How do you respond to someone that is apologizing to you for something they felt/did, and you were unaware of ... (1:43) - Henry Cloud

I like to help others but sometimes I feel like I am being used. I have a hard time saying ... (3:26) - Henry Cloud

What do you do when a trusted friend stabs you in the back? Try and give them another chance or ... (2:46) - John Townsend

My 35 year old daughter, who happens to live next door, still blames all of her quirks, shortcomings and problems ... (1:17) - Henry Cloud

My sister and I do not have much of a relationship anymore. We both seem to have gone our separate ... (2:23) - John Townsend

My girlfriend calls me on my cell phone at inconvenient times during the workday. I know she has been hurt ... (3:06) - John Townsend

How much does our upbringing really affect our adult life? (2:59) - John Townsend

I am 35 years old and most times when I visit my parents, I still feel like a child. They ... (3:36) - John Townsend

My neighbor introduces me as her best friend. Come to think of it, a number of people do this. It ... (2:15) - John Townsend

I think I'm a rescuer. Why do I feel like I have to help everyone out of whatever hole they ... (2:48) - Henry Cloud

I'm in my late forties and showing some signs of age like everyone else. My mother thinks I should have ... (2:48) - Henry Cloud

Once or twice I've met someone who gave me the willies There was no evidence that they were ... (2:38) - John Townsend

Why am I afraid of all confrontation and discord? How can I learn to be more comfortable with disagreeing and ... (3:14) - Henry Cloud

My best friend talks about committing suicide, and then says she is just kidding. Do I take her seriously? Ignore ... (1:06) - John Townsend

My friend is a lovely person who is in the medical community. I think she needs to stop taking care ... (2:20) - John Townsend

I'm fifteen and I have a friend who is eighteen. She says she doesn't do drugs anymore but I ... (1:30) - Henry Cloud

I am concerned with how young people approach the MySpace phenomenon. They reveal the most intimate information on it with ... (2:40) - Henry Cloud

My mom responds to everything with angry emotions. It's as if she thinks I'm trying to attack her at every ... (5:06) - Henry Cloud

Is there a diplomatic way to part company when a friendship seems to have lost its point? There has been ... (1:57) - John Townsend

I have a friend who is an alcoholic and only calls me when he is sober to convince me that ... (2:14) - John Townsend

I have co-worker who does drugs. She lost her brother a year ago from doing the very same thing. She ... (2:01) - John Townsend

How do you end a friendship that's really just an acquaintance? She's given me no real reason other than I ... (2:52) - John Townsend

My brother is getting a divorce. We have never dealt with this before. What do we do as a family ... (1:50) - John Townsend

I feel like I'm the black sheep of the family. My brother and sister have both been successful in ... (0:52) - John Townsend

How do I help people find a firm footing in a world that is so unstable? (5:29) - Henry Cloud

My brother is getting a divorce and it is clear that he is at fault. I am ... (1:36) - John Townsend

I swear my mother doesn't really like me. Since it's unspoken, and she is not one to acknowledge issues like ... (2:32) - John Townsend

My husband rarely is in contact with his mom and siblings. They live in another state, and the only time ... (1:42) - Henry Cloud

How do you take car keys away from an aging parent? My father is a force to be reckoned with, ... (1:46) - John Townsend

My friend is very sensitive about anyone thinking she's less than perfect. She views people who seek counseling as weak ... (1:57) - Henry Cloud

I have a life long friend who is unresponsive to my efforts to confront her on ways she has offended ... (3:38) - John Townsend

My brother in law has no sense of humor. I mean NONE. When we get together, which is rare, it's ... (1:23) - Henry Cloud

I know some "artistic types" who feel free to impose their drama on others, but do not face the same ... (1:45) - John Townsend

How do you know when sacrifice and wanting the others best are not in your best interest? Where do you ... (2:47) - John Townsend

My mother-in-law clearly favors one of my children over the other, although she denies this. How can I help ... (1:55) - Henry Cloud

My friend just lost her child, I always heard there are no words to say at a time like that, ... (2:37) - Henry Cloud

How do I comfort someone who is grieving? (4:20) - Henry Cloud

What are the stages of grief? (5:35) - Henry Cloud

What are the symptoms of repressed grief? (4:53) - Henry Cloud

I have heard you talk about core groups of friends. My question is: do the members of my ... (2:56) - Henry Cloud

I know of a number of old secrets in my family. I feel like I should get it out ... (4:21) - Henry Cloud

Serving wine with dinner has always been part of our family culture. If we know someone has a dependency problem ... (1:27) - John Townsend

My sister got a divorce. We love her ex, but she wants all family contact severed. Is this ... (2:37) - John Townsend

My husband's parents moved out of state, and since they moved they have not contacted us or return emails or ... (2:11) - John Townsend

How do you deal with someone who thinks they're always right? (5:04) - Henry Cloud

My parents are talking about getting a divorce after 30 years of marriage. I think they are just tired of ... (3:19) - Henry Cloud

If a person is always late, what does that tell you about them? (2:34) - John Townsend

I am going to legally fight for custody of my granddaughter as my daughter is not a fit parent. ... (3:49) - Henry Cloud

If people do not go through the steps of grief after a loved one dies, how can it affect events ... (1:29) - John Townsend

A friend who has personal experience with Alzheimer claims my boss is exhibiting signs of the illness. His behavior is ... (3:22) - Henry Cloud

My sister in law seems disinterested in anyone but her husband (my brother). She doesn't seem interested in expending any ... (2:48) - John Townsend

I have a question about boundaries in a friendship. My friend is a very needy person. Everything is a crisis ... (3:24) - John Townsend

How can I lovingly speak to my mother's attempts to manipulate? (4:10) - John Townsend

I d like to write an autobiography. However, not everyone in my family would come out looking the way they ... (1:21) - John Townsend

How can a grandmother help her granddaughter not to be such a high achiever? She can't relax and spends her ... (3:56) - Henry Cloud

How do I know I am being tempted to do something bad and not simply a choice I am making ... (3:14) - John Townsend

I'm 50 and I find my life without value as I put so much importance on Youth and Beauty. As ... (3:58) - John Townsend

My roommate is driving me crazy. She doesn't have the same sense of boundaries, cleanliness, manners, taste etc. The worst ... (2:53) - Henry Cloud

My father left my mom, moved in with his girlfriend and now expects me to treat her as one of ... (1:19) - John Townsend

I feel like everyone I work with is smarter and funnier than I am. I have trouble joining the conversations ... (2:07) - John Townsend

I am a people pleaser. Can you teach me to say "no"? (4:07) - John Townsend

What are some of the biggest obstacles to a healthy relationship in today's fast paced culture? (3:44) - Henry Cloud

Our dad is a pastor and we all go to church together. I know that he is not respected by ... (2:18) - Henry Cloud

I'm in high school and know a girl who says she's okay but I feel like something's wrong. I can't ... (1:47) - Henry Cloud

Related to boundaries -- what's the difference between a boundary and a defense mechanism? I hear about "armor" and ... (3:16) - Henry Cloud

When trust is devastated, how do you go about rebuilding it? (1:40) - Henry Cloud

What is my responsibility as a Sunday school teacher when my students reveal deeply personal things? (1:36) - John Townsend

Could you elaborate on some of the "values" we automatically gravitate to which can ruin a relationship (self protection, etc), ... (2:41) - John Townsend

How can I know if I'm a rescuer and what can I do if I am one? (3:13) - Henry Cloud

I'm a junior in high school. How can I tell people about how great it is to be 'straight-edge ... (1:26) - Henry Cloud

I have a brother and a sister. They seem like nice enough people, but none of us are close. I ... (2:10) - John Townsend

How do I not disconnect from relationships around me? (2:43) - John Townsend

Can you talk about how ostensibly passive people can be controlling? My sister is always hurt or wounded ... (2:03) - Henry Cloud

I grew up in a verbally abusive and alcoholic home. I now have children and my parents want to spend ... (2:52) - Henry Cloud

I am fifteen and my best friend is very poor. His mother works two jobs but she gets fired a ... (1:18) - John Townsend

I'm 40 years old and I recently found out I was born out of wedlock. I never met my real ... (1:53) - John Townsend

How do you deal with a drama queen without always being a pawn in their games? (3:05) - John Townsend

My friend and I are supportive and affirming in a way neither of us gets from our families. My problem ... (2:48) - Henry Cloud

What do you think about twin telepathy? (0:58) - John Townsend

I currently live in a condo building, and I work at home. My neighbors have an 18 month old ... (2:07) - Henry Cloud

I have a friend of about 10 years and I respect and care for him as a friend. The last ... (2:33) - John Townsend

How long should a person show a pattern of improved behavior before I can know they have really changed? (4:12) - Henry Cloud

Do you always need to tell the truth in relationships? Is the truth always the best thing? (1:40) - John Townsend

This sounds unbelievable but our neighbor, a grown man, got tired of the neighborhood kids playing kickball in OUR yard ... (2:16) - Henry Cloud

What is the difference between setting a boundary in a relationship and being unforgiving in a relationship? (2:19) - John Townsend

My young daughter was bitten by a dog that belonged to a neighbor when she was playing at their house. ... (1:24) - John Townsend

Apologize first and see what happens next. (1:30) - John Townsend

The Concept of Boundaries (4:11) - Henry Cloud

We Do Influence Others (3:48) - Henry Cloud

Respect Others' Boundaries (4:24) - Henry Cloud

The Importance of Accountability (2:44) - Henry Cloud

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Seek Outside Help (6:42) - Henry Cloud

External Resistances to Boundaries (6:05) - Henry Cloud

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Let the Bad Go (3:03) - Henry Cloud

Boundary Problems' Symptoms (4:18) - Henry Cloud

Handle Irresponsibility in Relationships (3:32) - Henry Cloud

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Fail First (3:28) - Henry Cloud

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Assess your Life (6:37) - Henry Cloud

The Difference Between Hurt and Harm (2:59) - Henry Cloud

Concede Control (6:42) - Henry Cloud

What Do Boundaries Protect? (6:58) - Henry Cloud

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Receive Help (4:21) - Henry Cloud

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Take Ownership (2:26) - Henry Cloud

Sowing and Reaping with Boundaries (3:10) - Henry Cloud

Verbal Boundaries (3:46) - Henry Cloud

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Say No (6:13) - Henry Cloud

Keeping Good In and Bad Out (2:58) - Henry Cloud

Internal Resistances to Boundaries (2:28) - Henry Cloud

Boundaries and consequences. How to bring about behavior change in others. (5:11) - John Townsend

Boundaries Require Action (3:16) - Henry Cloud

Life with a "Button-Pusher." Sound familiar? (7:21) - John Townsend

Your "button pushers:" Who they are and what they do. (6:29) - John Townsend

Time-proven ways to fail in dealing with your "button pusher." (5:07) - John Townsend

Time doesn't heal all wounds, but YOU can start the process in your relationships. (2:20) - John Townsend

The waiting game: There's a difference between hoping and wishing. (2:34) - John Townsend

Enabling. When it turns out YOU'RE the person who makes it all possible. (1:41) - John Townsend

We Have a Need for Freedom (4:05) - Henry Cloud

How Do You Receive Comfort? (3:08) - Henry Cloud

Humans Need Human Contact (5:32) - Henry Cloud

Families Need To Encourage Forward Development (2:33) - Henry Cloud

Experiences Affect Our Responses and Alter Our Choices (5:26) - Henry Cloud

Childhood Development Affects Adult Perspective (4:38) - Henry Cloud

Our Family Shapes Our Thinking (4:04) - Henry Cloud

Families Give Resources That Affect Your Personality (2:37) - Henry Cloud

The Need for Appropriate Structure (2:51) - Henry Cloud

"Need-And-Love-and-Give-And-Take" Spotting the problems. (4:20) - John Townsend

You have more power than you think when dealing with that difficult person. Here are some tools you can use. (7:10) - John Townsend

Be Emotionally Present and Available (5:37) - Henry Cloud

Two Ways of Falling in Love (6:54) - Henry Cloud

Good Reasons for Falling in Love (5:47) - Henry Cloud

Don't Control Your Partner (2:58) - Henry Cloud

Mature Expectations about Perfection (4:22) - Henry Cloud

Maintain Total Commitment (2:11) - Henry Cloud

Individuality is Healthy (4:24) - Henry Cloud

A Biblical Definition of Love (3:03) - John Townsend

Love Requires Need (2:35) - John Townsend

Purposes of Love (6:56) - John Townsend

Problems with Love (5:37) - John Townsend

Love is a Developing Process (2:41) - John Townsend

How to be a Loving Person (6:38) - John Townsend

Love Prevents Self-Absorption (2:45) - John Townsend

We Need Relationship Boundaries (6:15) - Henry Cloud

The incredible power of words. Choose them wisely. (6:50) - John Townsend

Why Our Past is Important (5:14) - Henry Cloud

Messages from the Past (6:30) - Henry Cloud

Predictors of Divorce (4:54) - Henry Cloud

The Past is a Foundation for the Future (2:39) - Henry Cloud

Our Past can Still Hurt in the Present (3:07) - Henry Cloud

Dealing with Post Traumatic Stress (4:56) - Henry Cloud

How Our Past may Affect Relationships (4:04) - Henry Cloud

How to Visualize a Boundary (5:57) - Henry Cloud

Denial doesn't help. Learn to incorporate the good and the bad into your life. (4:28) - John Townsend

Watch for change in that difficult person in your life. Some things you'll see when change begins. (7:20) - John Townsend

The two worst "compliments" you can give! (2:48) - John Townsend

The "Love Vocabulary." Learning what to say and what not to say. (6:25) - John Townsend

Timing Is Everything: When you say something is just as important as what you say. (6:38) - John Townsend

People are not projects - resist the urge to work on them. (5:44) - John Townsend

To accept or not to accept? When to affirm, when to push, and when to do both. (5:52) - John Townsend

Celebrate the differences in people! Why it's important and what you'll get from it. (5:15) - John Townsend

Why Values are Important (5:19) - Henry Cloud

The Value of Loving Others (4:49) - Henry Cloud

Happiness is a Result, not a Value (5:10) - Henry Cloud

The Value of Loving God (6:15) - Henry Cloud

The Values of Compassion and Forgiveness (4:40) - Henry Cloud

The Value of Holiness (2:43) - Henry Cloud

The Value of Honesty (6:34) - Henry Cloud

The Value of Faithfulness (4:17) - Henry Cloud

James Kim: The Death of a True Hero - Remembering the sacrifices a hero makes. (1:54) - John Townsend

Mark Foley: Inappropriate Relationships - Dr. Townsend shares how unhealthy and victimizing relationships can begin. (2:08) - John Townsend

YouTube Coming To Your Cell Phone!. Electronic relationships no substitute for the real thing. (2:22) - John Townsend

Get Out The Vote. Vote by your actions to have a good relationship. (1:37) - John Townsend

The Truth Always Wins - Dr. Townsend shares tips on dealing with a lack of truth in relationships. (2:23) - John Townsend

Nuclear Arms in North Korea - Dr. Townsend compares the situation in North Korea to the people in our own ... (2:35) - John Townsend

Fake Tabloid Pictures of Tiger's Wife - Dr. Cloud makes an example of Tiger Woods and shows how champions can ... (2:42) - Henry Cloud

Paris Hilton going to jail? (2:33) - John Townsend

What Can We Learn From the Lost Sacramento Whales In Approaching a Person To Change Direction In Their Lives? (4:39) - John Townsend

What Responsibility Do We Have To Others? (3:18) - John Townsend

Helping People Over the Long Term Who Have Had a Loss or Tragedy. (2:23) - John Townsend

What should the relationship rules be when you are on social networking sites like MySpace and Facebook? (2:29) - John Townsend

Perception is Not Always Reality. Dr. Townsend examines the dangers of only absorbing the information you agree with. (2:18) - John Townsend

Good Company as the Medicine for Life's Ailments. Dr. Townsend examines the benefits of keeping positive and healthy social ... (2:37) - John Townsend

Google Street View as a Metaphor for Our Relationships. Dr. Townsend discusses the impact that both our actions and words ... (2:32) - John Townsend

Celebrity Addiction: Why Are We Drawn to the Lives of the Famous. Dr. Townsend examines the internal emptiness that compels ... (3:05) - John Townsend

Technology and Relationships: Where the Similarities End. Dr. Townsend discusses the dangers of always looking for someone better. (2:24) - John Townsend

Love and Limits - the Best Balance. Dr. Cloud discusses the proper integration of freedom and structure. (2:58) - Henry Cloud

Commitment and Potential. Dr. Townsend discusses the advantage of examining the comittments that we make to others under the ... (2:20) - John Townsend

Welcome to website (4:03) - John Townsend

Owen Wilson's Alleged Suicide Attempt. Dr. Townsend discusses how to appropriately support those who are coping with overwhelming hurt. (3:37) - John Townsend

A Promising New Drug for Schizophrenia. Dr. Townsend examines how God blesses our society through new findings in modern medicine. (2:49) - John Townsend

The Psychology of Voting - Fear, likeability, beliefs all play a part. (3:36) - John Townsend

The Writers' Strike. Steps on How You Can Prepare to Solve a Conflict. (3:37) - John Townsend

The Presidential Debates - Vigorous debate is healthy is just one lesson to learn. (3:26) - John Townsend

YouTube shows us many things about ourselves - Some observations. (3:43) - John Townsend

Why would God allow my grandfather to molest me when I was only 4? I cannot understand a loving God ... (2:50) - John Townsend

I feel close to God, but not people. Is that a problem? (3:10) - John Townsend

I feel close to people, but not God. How can I improve this? (3:03) - John Townsend

In How People Grow you make the statement "all growth is spiritual growth."Can you explain what you mean by that? ... (2:14) - John Townsend

I struggle to know if I am on the path that God wants for me in my life. How do ... (3:44) - John Townsend

I feel that I have been in a rut spiritually for a long time. What would you suggest I do ... (2:05) - John Townsend

I am a woman over 30, unmarried, and not planning to have children. I have an opportunity to donate ... (0:42) - John Townsend

When I travel I enjoy being completely anonymous. Is it okay to ignore the person next to me on a ... (2:04) - John Townsend

I am a Christian but occasionally stumble in two main ways. I get so angry that I hurt people with ... (2:17) - John Townsend

What's the best way to leave a church? My family has been very involved with our church for years, but ... (1:41) - John Townsend