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How do I decide what is helpful and what is enabling regarding addicts? (1:40)
- John Townsend
Do you believe that alcoholism is an inherited disease and one will always be an alcoholic and can never learn ... (2:36)
- John Townsend
My 27 yr. old daughter is in rehab for alcoholism and drug use. She is in de-tox for 5 ... (1:34)
- John Townsend
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My first marriage ended because of my addiction to porn. I am now in love again but still struggle with ... (1:54)
- John Townsend
What does the Bible teach us about recovery in our life? Is it a life-long process or can you be ... (1:45)
- John Townsend
You hear the term "sex addict" a lot now. I think my husband may be one. Can you explain ... (2:59)
- John Townsend
There is a woman who has confided to me that she cuts herself with some frequency. She has also hinted ... (2:05)
- John Townsend
Why do you think Christians have failed in the addiction world compared to AA? (1:40)
- John Townsend
My daughter was diagnosed with ADHD many years ago. We explored all the non-medication routes but nothing worked for her. ... (1:52)
- John Townsend
What are your thoughts on using Ritalin to treat ADHD? (1:32)
- Henry Cloud
My son has a severe form of inattentive ADD. He isn't noticeably hyper, but he's off visiting Mars much of ... (2:13)
- John Townsend
My preteen steals money from family members. The money is used to go out with her girlfriends. She seems to ... (1:19)
- John Townsend
I need suggestions for good consequences for an eleven year old girl. I don't know what to take away. She ... (1:54)
- John Townsend
My 10 yr old son's classmate is stealing. What should I do? (2:23)
- Henry Cloud
I was a foster parent for 18 years. Now this child has turned away from me and wants to live ... (2:31)
- John Townsend
We have an 8 year old foster son who has had a terrible life and has lived with a huge ... (3:23)
- Henry Cloud
I am a single mother of 3 boys. I work full time and have gone back to school in order ... (1:50)
- Henry Cloud
I am a 51 year old, never married female. Is there a point in life when a I should stop ... (4:48)
- Henry Cloud
I am in love with a married man. Out of the blue he will stop calling. I'm not ready to ... (1:21)
- Henry Cloud
Does a small amount of ego ever serve a person? Where do you draw the line between confidence and conceit? (3:10)
- Henry Cloud
Tips For Being An Authentic Leader (6:33)
- John Townsend
Biblically Deal with Problematic People (7:14)
- Henry Cloud
Healthy Practices of Leaders (2:21)
- Henry Cloud
A Foolish Person Diagnosed (2:52)
- Henry Cloud
Do Not Tolerate Evil People (4:07)
- Henry Cloud
The Process of Dealing with a Fool (7:17)
- Henry Cloud
A Wise Person Diagnosed (4:51)
- Henry Cloud
A Healthy Leadership Immune System is Imperative (3:04)
- Henry Cloud
The Importance of the Authentic Leader (5:25)
- John Townsend
The Paradox of Authenticity (4:34)
- John Townsend
It is Better to Be Real than Be Positive (6:55)
- John Townsend
Normalize Failure in Your Leadership Culture (5:35)
- John Townsend
Qualities of the Authentic Leader (8:25)
- John Townsend
An Authentic Leader Lives in Reality (6:41)
- John Townsend
Credibility Vs. Happy Talk (6:26)
- Henry Cloud
Suggestive Steps To Telling the Truth (4:49)
- Henry Cloud
More Guiding Principles To Tell The Truth (3:48)
- Henry Cloud
Guiding Principles To Tell the Truth (6:25)
- Henry Cloud
The Big Problem In Telling the Truth Is You (2:05)
- Henry Cloud
You Must Believe the Truth To Tell It (6:06)
- Henry Cloud
Truth Telling Barriers (3:50)
- Henry Cloud
Should Christians boycott businesses that financially support groups that run counter to God's laws? Why do people compromise so easily ... (1:01)
- John Townsend
Are there evil people or just really mixed up people? (1:46)
- John Townsend
God predestined some of us to go to heaven and some to go to hell. As believers we have a ... (1:44)
- John Townsend
In your presentation, you focused on what most clinicians identify as bio-chemical causes for depression. You mentioned counseling and anti-depressants ... (1:48)
- John Townsend
My husband is a new Christian and has asked me a question that I am having a hard time answering. ... (1:11)
- John Townsend
My teenage son claims to be saved, but blames God for sin. How can we convince him otherwise? (3:14)
- John Townsend
Please address the scandal hitting the evangelical community with the hypocrisy of one of our leading pastors. (1:43)
- John Townsend
With all the new information about sexual addiction and classes offered to men like Everyman's Battle, some men in our ... (1:52)
- John Townsend
My husband is the Pastor at the small church we planted four years ago. I have been the 'volunteer' secretary ... (2:03)
- John Townsend
I am a male pastor and my ministry assistant is female. Our work requires us to spend a great deal ... (4:59)
- Henry Cloud
How do you release someone in Ministry? (1:09)
- John Townsend
I planted a church 3 years ago and I am afraid it will go under due to my personal family ... (1:44)
- Henry Cloud
Our church just recently went through a major time of turmoil where about 1/4th of our congregation pulled out. Very ... (2:14)
- John Townsend
What are some really good resources for helping church leaders in dealing with interpersonal conflict among their team members? (1:31)
- John Townsend
What guidelines would you have for our elders in a counseling role in our church? (2:44)
- John Townsend
I am a senior pastor at a church and do some short-term counseling. My question is: "What are some responsibility ... (2:25)
- John Townsend
I have a 50 yr old woman in my church that recently told me in private that she travels between ... (2:03)
- John Townsend
My girlfriend that I dated for 3 years, 10 years ago, recently divorced her husband to get back with me. ... (2:13)
- Henry Cloud
My mother passed away and my dad is an abusive alcoholic. I've never dealt with a single problem in my ... (2:10)
- John Townsend
How do you deal with someone who feels personally attacked by almost every comment? I love this person and want ... (3:23)
- Henry Cloud
Should I be concerned that the woman I have been with for 17 years runs from our problems and confides ... (2:43)
- Henry Cloud
How can I help my stepchildren establish boundaries with their unstable father? (3:02)
- John Townsend
Do the principles in your book Boundaries hold true when dealing with people with mental disorders? (1:27)
- John Townsend
My pastor's wife is very controlling and feels like she needs to know all of my personal struggles. Is it ... (2:23)
- John Townsend
Is it ever appropriate to use swear words? Some people don't seem to know how to put a sentence together ... (1:42)
- Henry Cloud
What can you do when loved ones completely lack empathy for one another or have an unapologetic attitude? (2:40)
- John Townsend
My partner of almost 4 years talks about his ex-wife all the time. They parted 13 years ago. I asked ... (3:35)
- Henry Cloud
Why do relationships fail? (1:32)
- John Townsend
I received a late night phone call from my single parent group leader. I think he was hitting on me ... (1:34)
- John Townsend
What is the best response to people who start to gossip to you? (1:55)
- John Townsend
My widowed mother-in-law is not a safe driver anymore but doesn't seem to realize it. What is the very kindest ... (3:04)
- Henry Cloud
Why do I seem to attract selfish, unreliable, egotistical people? I don't want to change my personality but I do ... (3:05)
- Henry Cloud
In all my relationships (parents, friends, husband and in-laws) there is a pattern of treating me poorly. I get a ... (2:10)
- John Townsend
I've shared personal details of my life with my Pastor and then he communicates details of what I've shared on ... (1:37)
- John Townsend
My son's girlfriend told me that her mother is gay and is in a long-term on-again off-again relationship with another ... (1:18)
- John Townsend
I have a friend that sent out a letter to all family members who they felt had done hurtful things ... (2:52)
- John Townsend
How should I respond to a friend who is constantly offended when I disagree with her or offer an opinion ... (3:20)
- Henry Cloud
What is a good definition of a perpetrator? (1:44)
- John Townsend
There is a man who is involved with kids at our church who is a suspected child abuser. I reported ... (2:12)
- Henry Cloud
A man is pursuing me who is a recovering alcoholic. He has been sober for 13 years (never married and ... (2:46)
- Henry Cloud
A meaningful dating relationship has ended and I'm feeling emotionally drained. On the one hand I know I need time ... (1:35)
- John Townsend
I have been mutually attracted to this guy in my church for two years. We kissed and it changed things. ... (1:33)
- John Townsend
How important do you believe physical attraction is in getting a date? (4:23)
- Henry Cloud
My boyfriend's mother is bipolar. Her overall attitude on life is negative and she is always blaming others. ... (2:29)
- John Townsend
My boyfriend is so busy with his job that he never has any time for me, or even himself. How ... (2:03)
- John Townsend
This man told me he liked me and I turned him down. I have since realized I have feelings for ... (2:33)
- Henry Cloud
I have had an on-again off-again relationship for the past couple of years. He wants to get back together again, ... (2:41)
- Henry Cloud
My boyfriend recently confessed to me that he had an affair with his ex girlfriend. He claims the reason he ... (1:46)
- John Townsend
My boyfriend lies occasionally about small things and is clingy. Are the lying and insecurities something that he can change? ... (1:57)
- Henry Cloud
How does dating differ from courtship? (2:56)
- John Townsend
My girlfriend seems to get upset over the smallest things. She said she doesn't even know why she cries most ... (2:34)
- John Townsend
I was recently at a conference featuring Dr. Cloud and he told the story of one lady who went from ... (4:15)
- Henry Cloud
I have been in a relationship with a guy with a borderline personality disorder. He has read your Boundaries books ... (1:19)
- John Townsend
My husband died 3 years ago. I have two children who are 7 & 9 now. I would like to ... (1:52)
- John Townsend
One of my friends is about to buy a ring for his girlfriend but he's got doubts about their relationship. ... (2:16)
- John Townsend
How picky should I be about first dates? I turn them down sometimes for a wide range of reasons - ... (1:17)
- John Townsend
How would I know if a man in my single parent group is interested in me? What does it mean ... (2:37)
- John Townsend
Is it OK to not want to be friends with an ex-boyfriend? (1:51)
- John Townsend
My friend's male friend came 3000 miles to visit her. Every time he walks by, he touches her in some ... (1:52)
- John Townsend
I met a man (54 years old) 2 months ago that is just finalizing his divorce. He was married 25+ ... (2:50)
- Henry Cloud
How do I go from "dating" someone to "just friends" emotionally until we are both ready for something more? ... (4:11)
- Henry Cloud
Should a man tell the woman on the first date that he is just dating to have fun and meet ... (2:18)
- Henry Cloud
I just learned my fiance is gay. Even though he was lying to himself, I feel like I should have ... (2:56)
- John Townsend
Is it bad to never allow a man to buy you anything unless you are married to each other or ... (2:45)
- John Townsend
How can you move on after a relationship has ended? (2:34)
- John Townsend
What do you think about a dating service just for people who are or have been in therapy? I want ... (1:23)
- John Townsend
I have recently gained 45 pounds as the result of an illness. I have gotten back into contact with an ... (3:13)
- Henry Cloud
I don't know why whenever my boyfriend wants to spend time with other people, I feel uncomfortable. I know I ... (2:46)
- John Townsend
I am in a long-distance relationship, but he does not call me. He will only send me a text message ... (1:46)
- John Townsend
I am still in love with my childhood sweetheart. He says he loves me, but we are both studying ... (1:56)
- John Townsend
I've been dating a women for 18 months. How do I know if I'm in love with her in a ... (1:57)
- John Townsend
I love someone, and she said she loved me too. Now she says she never loved me. I want only ... (1:56)
- John Townsend
I was just at one of your singles retreat. You said we should date 20 people. I am 59 years ... (1:29)
- John Townsend
I seem to only focus on the negative aspects of my dating relationships. How can I notice the good in ... (2:22)
- John Townsend
I am considering getting married. My boyfriend was married before and still has strong feelings for his ex-wife. Is this ... (2:21)
- Henry Cloud
In this day and age, is it appropriate to do a background check on someone you are dating or considering ... (1:53)
- John Townsend
It seems to me that single woman are looking for Jim Carrey and Tom Cruise all wrapped up in ... (1:18)
- John Townsend
I have been dating a great man for 6 months. He has met my parents, but I have yet to ... (2:54)
- Henry Cloud
I'm not sure I want to marry, but I desire intimacy and a healthy relationship. Does that always involve marriage? (2:30)
- John Townsend
After years of isolation as a single parent, how do I rediscover who I am and what I want from ... (2:01)
- John Townsend
I would like to be married but I seem to find a lot of reasons to not pursue potential partners. ... (3:11)
- John Townsend
In a dating relationship, is there an appropriate point to reveal something from my life that could have a serious ... (2:01)
- John Townsend
I think I am in love with my boyfriend. He asked me how I feel about him but I really ... (1:56)
- John Townsend
I have been burned from too many secrets in my boyfriend relationships. From those experiences, I learned to be ... (1:28)
- John Townsend
It seems that sex outside of marriage is more and more acceptable. Can you give me some thoughts about sex ... (2:43)
- John Townsend
My boyfriend and I began our relationship with lust and heavy breathing. How do I pull back and begin anew? (3:27)
- Henry Cloud
I am a 20-year-old male virgin. I can't seem to get over the fact that my current girlfriend didn't wait ... (1:54)
- John Townsend
What are some good physical boundaries my boyfriend and I can set? We don't want to have sex until we ... (3:23)
- Henry Cloud
Will God allow you to fall in love with someone who wasn't meant to be your spouse? (1:56)
- John Townsend
How do you know if a man loves you or is just stringing you along? (2:51)
- Henry Cloud
I have a history of being a poor judge of character, particularly when choosing men. Where do I start so ... (2:45)
- Henry Cloud
I tend to think I am in love and get swept away so easily. One minute I say "I love ... (3:15)
- Henry Cloud
What is a reasonable time frame in a dating relationship for the partners to decide jointly how weekends are spent? (1:04)
- John Townsend
What do I do to overcome my fear of commitment or fear of failure in choosing or being chosen by ... (3:25)
- Henry Cloud
I'm in my forties and dating again. I look for chemistry but the chemistry seems to appear only with the ... (4:07)
- Henry Cloud
I really think I have dealt with my anger about my parent's divorce, but how do I learn to trust ... (4:10)
- Henry Cloud
I struggle with my weight. I am about 30 pounds overweight. I am single and would love to be in ... (2:29)
- John Townsend
I am single and have been trying to meet new people by going to more social gatherings. The problems is ... (2:55)
- John Townsend
What's the best way to get over a broken heart? (3:56)
- Henry Cloud
My husband criticizes me in public. What can I do to make him stop? (4:40)
- John Townsend
Before I was married I had multiple sexual relationships, but my spouse did not. When we're intimate, I still have ... (3:17)
- John Townsend
My fiance is Jewish, and I am a Christian. What is the best way for me to get through ... (1:35)
- Henry Cloud
Should I tell my fiance that I had an abortion when I was younger? It was years before I ... (2:08)
- Henry Cloud
My husband and I are separated and he is still very involved with our children and house maintenance. However, he ... (2:14)
- John Townsend
My fiance and I are currently planning a wedding. We met with the pastor and he had opinions about ... (2:18)
- Henry Cloud
What is the best thing to do when you feel you are the only one working at the relationship? (2:21)
- John Townsend
I'm a divorced, single parent with a 16 year old daughter. I've tried to set standards for her dating, but ... (1:57)
- John Townsend
What is a good age for a daughter/son to start dating? (2:12)
- John Townsend
What are the basic rules parents should have and enforce when their children reach dating age? (1:53)
- John Townsend
Should dating rules be the same for a son and a daughter? (1:54)
- John Townsend
I'm a divorced mother of two daughters, ages 10 and 13. I've been divorced for 5 years and haven't even ... (3:21)
- Henry Cloud
Our eighteen year old daughter is starting to date. How can we help her know what a healthy dating prospect ... (2:59)
- Henry Cloud
How do we set dating standards according our family values, and not the values of what my son learns at ... (3:50)
- John Townsend
What do I do when the family of the person I'm dating doesn't like me? (1:44)
- Henry Cloud
How do you approach a man who drinks heavily and encourage him to slow down? (1:17)
- Henry Cloud
What do you think about love at first sight? Is it real? An illusion? Chemicals? (1:49)
- John Townsend
What do I do when someone I was once seeing won't let go of the relationship? What is the boundary ... (3:18)
- John Townsend
I'm 40yrs old, divorced for 5yrs, no kids. I have great relationships and lots of friends. I have ... (4:16)
- Henry Cloud
My fella in our 24 year committed relationship has found someone new. He promises he is not in a ... (4:35)
- Henry Cloud
My friend is about to marry someone that, although I don't know them very well, I have heard that this ... (1:38)
- John Townsend
How do you tell someone you have romantic feelings for them if you aren't sure they feel the same way? ... (1:01)
- John Townsend
How can I know if I'm taking a need to the wrong relationship, and how do I determine which relationship ... (3:25)
- Henry Cloud
I have a friend who wants to "just be friends" but it seems like more to me, how can I ... (2:04)
- Henry Cloud
I'm shy and I have difficulty making friends. I watch others interact and they seem to know how to bond ... (2:41)
- John Townsend
In a relationship, does absence make the heart grow fonder? Or is it out of sight, out of ... (1:36)
- John Townsend
My best friend was married to a great woman, but their marriage failed and he has since remarried. I stayed ... (2:29)
- Henry Cloud
Recently I overheard a conversation between my roommate and a boy who I thought she was just "friends" with, they ... (1:26)
- Henry Cloud
What are some of the characteristics of a healthy relationship with a significant other? (4:34)
- John Townsend
I just sold my old rickety car to a family in need, and my girlfriend is furious. I prayed on ... (3:17)
- Henry Cloud
I've been dating a guy for three months. He says that he loves the Lord and wants to grow spiritually ... (2:53)
- Henry Cloud
My wife and I have realized there are many areas in which we have failed to set boundaries with our ... (3:53)
- Henry Cloud
My ex-husband is subtly turning my kids against me and my rules, teaching them rebellion and defiance. How do I ... (2:12)
- Henry Cloud
My son finds it hard to abide by our curfew boundaries. We are not able to reach him as his ... (1:48)
- John Townsend
My 13-year-old son has a tendency to lie. As a consequence I took away two months allowance and a 2-day ... (1:44)
- John Townsend
How do you get a 2 year old to stay in time-out? I feel that if I sit with ... (1:22)
- John Townsend
My ex-spouse's lifestyle choices were a contributing factor to our divorce. What should I say to my children as they ... (2:26)
- Henry Cloud
I have been divorced for about 5 years and up to this point have not considered dating because I have ... (1:45)
- John Townsend
I try to keep a friendly relationship with my ex-wife for our children's sake, but it really bothers my girlfriend. ... (3:30)
- Henry Cloud
How do I get out of a bad relationship? (1:43)
- John Townsend
After 19 years of marriage and at the age of 46, I've determined I'm a sex addict. I have been ... (2:44)
- John Townsend
My husband had a 5 month affair, and is not repentant, but he wants to live at home. He says ... (2:12)
- John Townsend
My husband moved in with another woman. We own a house together and have a business and work together every ... (2:42)
- John Townsend
A friend's husband is a pastor. He has told her he wants a divorce. He moved into the basement and ... (2:21)
- Henry Cloud
My wife divorced me after 43 years because I would not join her church. I do go to church but ... (1:48)
- Henry Cloud
My husband refuses to talk to me and says that he doesn't want to commit to working on our relationship ... (2:50)
- John Townsend
Will God be unhappy with me if I divorce my husband of 25 years? He is unfaithful and emotionally unavailable. (2:38)
- John Townsend
I am in the midst of a divorce that I did not want. My spouse wants his freedom whatever that ... (3:31)
- Henry Cloud
My husband and I were married for 12 years. He now says he never loved me and that he married ... (1:54)
- John Townsend
I am separated from my non-believer wife and she wants a divorce. However she wants me to file for it. ... (1:22)
- John Townsend
My husband moved out and filed for divorce after 4 1/2 months of marriage. He says he isn't breaking his ... (1:41)
- Henry Cloud
My wife filed for divorce a few months ago. She is now hinting at getting back together, but I don't ... (3:14)
- Henry Cloud
How can I reconcile with my wife if she has no desire to be married or reconcile? (2:35)
- John Townsend
My wife and I are getting divorced. I cannot see my two lovely daughters right now due to allegations that ... (1:48)
- John Townsend
My husband and I have been separated for five months. We have three children under the age of 5. He ... (2:09)
- Henry Cloud
I was married for 34 years to a "Christian" school principal who abused me and was a sex addict. I ... (1:42)
- John Townsend
My spouse and I are legally separated but are trying to work things out. Is it alright for us to ... (1:02)
- John Townsend
I'm a single, divorced mother of 4 children. My ex-husbands are not paying their court-ordered child support. Some months I ... (2:11)
- John Townsend
Our grown son experienced an unwanted divorce, then remarried quickly (against our advice) and had a baby daughter. He suddenly ... (2:16)
- John Townsend
My daughter age 32, holds us, her mother and father accountable for everything we have done in our past. ... (2:44)
- John Townsend
I struggled with an eating disorder for 10 years. I understand the "control issues" behind it. I'm in my 30s ... (2:18)
- John Townsend
Our 6 yr old daughter started pulling out her eyebrows and eye lashes in August when she realized first grade ... (2:00)
- John Townsend
I often argue with my husband in front of the children. I am trying to stop. How will this ... (2:04)
- John Townsend
How do you help a teenager who continues to choose to date girls with low self esteem? (4:12)
- Henry Cloud
My husband relentlessly teases our children (grabbing, tickling, remarks). They ask him to stop and he ignores them. It ... (1:58)
- John Townsend
How do you help a 21 year old boy or girl increase their own self esteem? (4:26)
- Henry Cloud
My girlfriend is very emotional. She doesn't just cry at sad movies - she falls completely apart. It's embarrassing and ... (:44)
- Henry Cloud
I'm a single man in my late twenties. I think I move way to fast when it comes to dating. ... (2:48)
- John Townsend
I'm shy and I would like to date. I hate the thought of singles groups because that's even more people ... (1:57)
- John Townsend
How does a person know they are ready for a good relationship? (2:38)
- John Townsend
How do I start the process of goal setting? (2:32)
- John Townsend
I'm afraid to speak in public, but my new job involves presentations to potential clients. How can I overcome this ... (2:40)
- John Townsend
I procrastinate on really important things and often don't even do them. Like filing my insurance and getting reimbursed, ... (5:18)
- Henry Cloud
How can character maturity help build a successful large business? (2:04)
- John Townsend
I was sexually abused by my older brother's friend when I was a little girl and now years later I ... (2:46)
- John Townsend
My husband debates and debates and debates. Even if he agrees with what I say he'll take the opposite tack ... (1:27)
- Henry Cloud
When riding in the car with my husband, I seem to HAVE to tell him how to drive. This ... (2:30)
- Henry Cloud
When my husband and I are in a disagreement how do we get to the crux of the real issues? ... (3:22)
- Henry Cloud
What can I do when my spouse doesn't want anything to change? She isn't abusive, but she's not allowing me ... (2:05)
- Henry Cloud
Two years after we moved to another state my husband asked for a divorce. We have two young children. Because ... (2:44)
- Henry Cloud
I had an affair that led to the end of an abusive marriage. We ended up getting married and have ... (2:56)
- Henry Cloud
My husband is eighteen years older than me and it's really starting to be a problem, now that he's in ... (2:06)
- Henry Cloud
My husband accepted a job in another state. I am not happy about this because he thinks I am too ... (2:20)
- Henry Cloud
My husband was laid off and it's too late for him to start over. he's depressed. I'm depressed. How can ... (3:08)
- Henry Cloud
My husband of 62 years passed away last year. There is nothing left to look forward to, but people are ... (4:45)
- Henry Cloud
My father passed away a couple years ago. My mother is still going through stages of grief and having ... (1:49)
- Henry Cloud
My husband and I are getting a divorce after 30 yrs of marriage. After extensive marriage counseling, he still is ... (5:13)
- Henry Cloud
My husband is extremely overweight and in poor health. He WON'T do anything to improve his health. Any ... (2:51)
- Henry Cloud
I have been married to a man for 24 years who has been described as a narcissist and a loner ... (4:05)
- Henry Cloud
How do you support a husband going through 'mid life crisis . (2:11)
- Henry Cloud
I'm an optimist I can't help it. This irritates my wife to no end. I can empathize only ... (1:57)
- Henry Cloud
My husband left the family and caused tremendous pain to me, our grown children and friends. Now he wants to ... (3:01)
- Henry Cloud
What can be done when one of the partners in a marriage is selfish and does not give in to ... (3:24)
- John Townsend
I'm pregnant and I would not like to know the sex of the baby, however, my husband would like to ... (3:23)
- Henry Cloud
My husband wants me to go back to work. We have grown children and we have enough money, so finances ... (3:20)
- Henry Cloud
When I am with my son (age 30) I feel like I'm in the vicinity of a black hole. ... (3:22)
- Henry Cloud
I believe my daughter has an eating disorder. Every time I try to bring this up, she denies it. ... (1:29)
- Henry Cloud
Our son is autistic. he's reached puberty and is physically too much to handle. My wife won't consider putting him ... (1:34)
- John Townsend
Recently my eight year old hit his head and was crying. When I tried to console him he stomped ... (3:06)
- Henry Cloud
How do you handle a 6 year old only child who is VERY social and always wants a friend or ... (4:19)
- Henry Cloud
How do I you teach my 6 1/2 year old to express his frustration/anger in a healthy way? He tends ... (4:38)
- Henry Cloud
My 25 year-old daughter is bipolar. She is on medication and has a counselor, but I still worry about her ... (3:00)
- John Townsend
My son was very athletic. A few years ago he was paralyzed in a car accident. He thinks his life ... (3:49)
- Henry Cloud
I have a new baby and while I'm in love with our little son I don't much like this mothering ... (2:13)
- Henry Cloud
My father can't accept love from anyone, not even his grown children. I just found out that he has broken ... (3:19)
- Henry Cloud
I'm looking forward to the empty nest. My friends are all distressed at the thought of their children flying the ... (2:17)
- Henry Cloud
My 21 year old daughter is depressed, overweight and talking about quitting college to live at home and take correspondence ... (2:04)
- John Townsend
We had two sons. One of them died in a skiing accident two years ago. Our younger son really struggled ... (4:15)
- Henry Cloud
My nine year old son has cancer. I don't know how to handle this, or how to prepare him and ... (4:43)
- Henry Cloud
My grown son suffers from acute anxiety and depression and probably always will. He seems drawn to girls that have ... (4:04)
- Henry Cloud
I'm worried about my adult son. He talks a lot about longing to be with Jesus someday. Is this ever ... (1:53)
- Henry Cloud
I just found out I have a serious and progressive disease. My two kids are adolescents. Should I tell them ... (1:57)
- Henry Cloud
How do I explain homosexuality to my children? I don't know if it's behavioral or biological. I have gay friends ... (3:03)
- Henry Cloud
When my thirteen year old daughter died our family was decimated. We don't seem whole anymore and we don't know ... (2:47)
- Henry Cloud
My ten year old daughter has become obsessively worried about germs. She washes her hands constantly and does not like ... (2:22)
- John Townsend
My therapist talks about the need for a good internalized structure. What does that mean? (4:36)
- John Townsend
My ex-wife has been treated in the past for emotional and psychiatric issues. I don't know what her status is ... (2:44)
- Henry Cloud
My seventeen year old son has started driving and I'm worried all the time. I can't relax, I listen for ... (2:51)
- Henry Cloud
My step-father is irritable and controlling, but my mother tolerates his abusive ways. My children are freaked out by him. ... (1:38)
- Henry Cloud
I have a serious (but treatable) form of cancer. Everybody treats me differently now. I don't feel like myself anymore ... (2:40)
- Henry Cloud
How useful are personality tests like DISC or temperament analysis tests? Should employers use them? Couples? Parents? (1:01)
- John Townsend
My parents just retired to another state. I'm 32 and feel completely abandoned. Should I uproot and follow them? I ... (1:38)
- Henry Cloud
There is a family where I go to church they have 10 children. The mother is a house wife and ... (1:44)
- Henry Cloud
My nephew confided in me that he was molested as a child and says that because of this he is ... (1:42)
- John Townsend
When I'm in social situations I find that I have to approach other people, they don't approach me. But when ... (3:28)
- Henry Cloud
I have lived out of the house for a while now, away from my parents. I am 30 years old, ... (5:09)
- Henry Cloud
There is a woman in my town that I avoid because she comes over all the time, won't leave once ... (2:01)
- Henry Cloud
A young person I know claims to be bisexual. I love everything about this person except this one thing. ... (1:19)
- John Townsend
When I want to get serious and commit myself to an exclusive relationship, I have panic attacks and need to ... (4:03)
- Henry Cloud
I came out of a dysfunctional and toxic family and I have problems with developing deep relationships with anyone. What ... (3:02)
- John Townsend
When things are going really wrong I have a hard time accepting kindness. It seems like I can stay strong ... (2:14)
- John Townsend
I think my roommate has an eating disorder, I never see her eat, she works out for about 2 hours ... (2:28)
- Henry Cloud
My family thinks I have a problem with depression but I don't agree. How do I tell them to mind ... (3:12)
- Henry Cloud
If I think someone is not getting sound professional counseling, how do I go about helping them to see that? (1:29)
- John Townsend
How can I forgive an unrepentant person without giving them access to my life? They aren't safe but it doesn't ... (3:00)
- Henry Cloud
I recently broke up with someone because I think he has a gambling addiction. He tells me it's not ... (2:48)
- Henry Cloud
My step father recently lost his job because he is a drug user. My mother is in denial and continues ... (1:19)
- Henry Cloud
How do I deal compassionately with a hypochondriac? My friend loves the drama of illness, but there's nothing really wrong ... (4:46)
- Henry Cloud
As I get older I realize a driving force in my life is that I can't bear to "disappoint" people. ... (3:01)
- John Townsend
Nobody, and I mean nobody likes my boyfriend. How can I show people he's not as bad as they think? (2:15)
- John Townsend
One of my brother-in-laws just got married and he always bad mouths his wife and talks so low about her. ... (2:47)
- Henry Cloud
My boyfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago, I am still in a lot of pain and cry ... (3:36)
- Henry Cloud
When someone has been grieving for a long time (over a year), and can't seem to move on, and they ... (2:29)
- Henry Cloud
My mother is getting older and has let herself go. It's not just her weight, but she isn't ... (1:22)
- Henry Cloud
Why are boundaries important? (4:01)
- Henry Cloud
Aren't boundaries selfish? (3:20)
- Henry Cloud
How do I deal with elderly parents who are controlling? (4:16)
- Henry Cloud
My friend is being treated for cancer and I can't deal with any of it. I hate myself for feeling ... (3:20)
- Henry Cloud
My elderly father is struggling with a painful cancer condition and wants me to help him commit suicide. I ... (1:35)
- John Townsend
A friend of mine is behaving erratically - embezzling, lying, stealing etc. I believe she is mentally ill - when ... (2:21)
- John Townsend
My father was a workaholic all my life till HE retired. Now he wants a friend and companion (because he ... (4:01)
- Henry Cloud
Would God ever approve of divorcing a parent? I can not deal with my father anymore. (3:51)
- Henry Cloud
My parents are very elderly and I know that our time together is getting shorter. I can't even think ... (5:16)
- Henry Cloud
I have a friend who talks incessantly. This makes me so stressed. She is a good friend otherwise. ... (3:24)
- Henry Cloud
How fast can you heal from a broken relationship? What factors contribute to healing? What are the signs that healing ... (4:34)
- John Townsend
My brother apparently felt, and at forty seven still feels, that I got more love, attention, etc than he did. ... (2:48)
- Henry Cloud
I am starting to feel let down by God because He is not taking my depression away. It seems He ... (6:47)
- Henry Cloud
My Pastor believes for most problems and behavioral problems, psychologists are not the answer and are the equivalent of barking ... (4:31)
- Henry Cloud
Please explain why "Psychological" counseling is Biblical, and not in conflict with Scriptures. (2:04)
- John Townsend
Is masturbation a sin? (4:04)
- Henry Cloud
My father left me and my mother when I was 15 years old. It really hurt me and I have ... (3:16)
- John Townsend
Can I be gay and a Christian? I love the Lord and gave my life to Him but I feel ... (4:46)
- Henry Cloud
I recently was confronted by an individual who feels that Christians who have difficulties need to be treated only through ... (3:29)
- John Townsend
We have never been close to my husband's parents because they smoke constantly and we don't enjoy being around it. ... (1:41)
- John Townsend
My son is constantly listening to gangsta' rap. He seems infatuated with the so called "gangsta' lifestyle. It creeps me ... (2:55)
- Henry Cloud
My daughter married a man against our wishes. We don't like him because in the past he admitted to having ... (1:03)
- John Townsend
How can I show my parents I'm trustworthy and that I've grown up? I'm nineteen and made some mistakes in ... (1:51)
- John Townsend
I don't know how to deal with my adult daughter. She is a very controlling and "needy' person. Things ... (2:15)
- Henry Cloud
After being fired from my job when I was in debt, I entered a debt management program and my father ... (1:31)
- John Townsend
How do you deal with a mother who is physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive? How do you deal with the ... (3:24)
- John Townsend
Can you suggest some steps for true reconciliation between senior parents and adult children? (2:23)
- John Townsend
Do you have any advice for helping senior citizens transition into accepting assistance as they age? (2:08)
- John Townsend
My mother is getting up in years and is not in good health. A couple years ago my mother asked ... (2:03)
- John Townsend
My parents are facing foreclosure of their house due to very poor financial decisions. My brother who is in jail, ... (2:02)
- John Townsend
I recently read your book "Boundaries" and went through the series with my church. My mother has been diagnosed ... (2:14)
- John Townsend
Our new daughter-in-law comes from a dysfunctional home and is beginning to contaminate our family. What would be the best ... (1:56)
- Henry Cloud
What should you do if you try to set boundaries with a family member or friend and they refuse to ... (4:23)
- Henry Cloud
I was the unpaid caregiver for my grandkids. When I stopped over a year ago because I was hurting financially, ... (2:08)
- John Townsend
How do I treat a family member I no longer respect or love? I don't want to acknowledge this person ... (2:16)
- John Townsend
How can I improve the relationship with my youngest brother? He and his wife are not interested in participating in ... (2:15)
- John Townsend
My mom and I are both believers, and the other night at dinner she started making some very rude comments ... (1:17)
- John Townsend
My mother-in-law will only listen to my husband. She is in very poor health and when she needs to go ... (2:10)
- Henry Cloud
How do you deal with sibling disagreements over the care of an aging parent? (3:53)
- Henry Cloud
My parents have bailed my brother out jail for years and enabled his drug use. Then my father got involved ... (2:49)
- Henry Cloud
I am an only child of two alcoholic parents, and I am now fifty-seven. My mother is still alive and ... (4:04)
- Henry Cloud