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What about those "rules" of dating? (2:46)

Dating for Men: What are women looking for in a man? (3:21)

Honestly Evaluate Yourself (3:03)

Dating is Not Exclusively About Marriage (6:51)

Have an Accountability Team (5:31)

Why Am I Attracted to Bad Guys (2:38)

Games Are For People Without Lives (2:44)

Get Over the Stigma of Dating Services (3:54)

Marriage Is Not For Desperate People (2:09)

Excuses About Dating Are Not Always Accurate (5:14)

When a First Date Deserves a Second (5:20)

Wear a Face That Says You're Open (4:57)

Be Flexible With Expectations (3:31)

How Friendships Can Turn Into More (2:15)

Do Something So Good Things Happen (5:50)

Habits Affect Dating (6:44)

Tell a Date How You Really Feel (3:24)

Being Yourself Is More Attractive (5:16)

Guys Need To Initiate (4:17)

Enlarge Your Dating Vision By Trying New Ideas (6:06)

Meet New People (3:17)

When It's Ok To Date a Non-Christian (4:07)

Obstacles In Dating (4:40)

Don't Wait for Your Type (3:52)

Don't Be Afraid To Get Rejected In Dating (4:07)

Responsibility and Expectations in Finding Dates (6:46)

Why is Dating a Serious Choice (3:26)

Sex Appeal Isn't About Sex (2:52)

What happens when you say "no" to sex? (1:47)

Fear Your Dating Past (2:43)

Take God Out on a Date (7:12)

Dating is Not a Cure to Loneliness (4:32)

Identifying "Relationship Busters" (7:51)

When two halves DON'T make a whole. (5:20)

Do Not Repeat the Same Old Mistakes (7:53)

Dating for Men: Moving out of fantasyland. (2:06)

The "You-Complete-Me Thing." (2:56)

Patterns of Ineffective Dating (7:19)

Establish Healthy Boundaries in Dating (5:53)

Symptoms that Your Dating Life Needs Boundaries (8:00)

Risk and romance. Who needs it? (3:50)

Take Ownership Over Your Dating Life (4:17)

The Great Fallacy in Your Dating Philosophy (8:56)

Good Reasons to Date People (6:35)

Is It Ok for a Woman to Pursue a Man? (2:41)

Beware When Opposites Attract (3:56)

Dating is Not About Finding a Mate (4:25)

When Should A Divorcee Date Again? (2:52)

Fall in Love With a Friend (3:49)

You can resurrect your dead dating life. Here's how! (4:30)

For the single person - how far is "too far?" Maybe that's not the question! (3:16)

Is it sex or is it Prozac? (6:20)

The sexual person - it should be you. (4:11)

Your fantasy person isn't just a fantasy... they're a train wreck! (5:13)

Take the dating challenge - keep a log and see what happens next! (7:10)

Choose the Right Date (8:28)

Look for the Right Things in a Date (6:47)

A Character Test for a Truly Loving Person (7:19)

Dating for Men: Learning to be yourself. (3:21)

Dating for Men: Tips to jump start your dating life (2:37)

Take life as it comes: Take control of the time ahead to bring about change in your life. (5:22)

The Reality of Cheering Up Depression (3:29)

Fictitious Cures for Depression (7:21)

Causes of Depression (6:59)

Depression Defined (3:25)

Resolving Depression (6:34)

The good parts of bad times. How some problems and challenges can be the best thing that ever happened to ... (7:04)

Your "relational termites!" (4:01)

The four people in every good relationship. (1:14)

Personal growth - get comfortable with "process" and forget about time (7:16)

Your ability to confront will predict your success in life. (6:33)

Define yourself: who you are and where you stand. (7:52)

It's not all your responsibility. Where it starts and ends. (2:31)

Orient Yourself Toward the Truth (5:34)

Reality Is Always Your Friend (4:28)

Integrity Is About Producing Results (5:57)

Embrace the Negative (6:59)

Be Able to Make the Hard Calls (2:04)

Delayed Gratification Builds Character (3:52)

Learn to Meet the Demands of Reality (4:05)

Develop the Ability To Create and Maintain Trust (5:26)

Examples of Trust Building through Connecting (5:26)

The Three Things Needed to Succeed (5:29)

Connection is not a luxury - it's the fuel of your life. (6:37)

Reality will help overcome perfectionism - especially for leaders. (2:19)

Partner With God In Overcoming Failures (1:59)

Be Concerned With God's Affirmation Not Others' (3:13)

You Are Not Alone In Your Failure (6:39)

Trails Of People Who Fail Well (4:12)

Define Your Goals (2:01)

Confront Your Personal Weakness (2:18)

Have Structure In Your Life (2:47)

A Successful Plan for Handling Failures and Obstacles (7:20)

Obstacles Are Normal (6:14)

Traits of People Who Fail Poorly (4:33)

God Is Crucial To the Outcome Of Our Dreams (3:21)

Don't Let Failure Deter Your Dreams (2:27)

The Fear of Failure Prevents our Dreams (2:29)

Our Past Fears Can Prevent Our Future Dreams (5:04)

Our Community Fosters Our Dreams (5:36)

Dreams Respond to Positive and Negative Voices (2:00)

Is Your Dream Based In Reality? (3:27)

Play the movie and watch the ending. You'll be ahead of the game. (5:40)

Create Growth in Your Life (7:37)

Serve Values that Are Larger Than You (3:52)

Learn How To Create Growth (1:06)

Adjust to Transcendent Realities (4:50)

The Last Word on Integrity (1:34)

Can you "fess up" to your weaknesses and assess your strengths? It's more important than you think - here's where ... (6:41)

Hand-wringing helps! How constructive worrying can be beneficial to your health. (4:20)

Pull the Tooth! Successful people deal quickly with negative energy drains. (4:44)

Consequences for those difficult people. (5:46)

The traits to avoid as a leader. Watch out for these in yourself! (7:17)

Leaders need the right "traveling companions" on their journey to success. (3:11)

Leaders Need Traveling Companions who Provide Loving Support (3:41)

Learn to question authority. It makes for great leaders. (7:54)

The three characteristics of every successful leader. (6:36)

The Key Question in Servant Leadership (5:52)

Just say, "no." How to set limits in leadership (6:10)

Face the Reality Of Other People (8:56)

Tasks Are Not the Point Of Life (3:50)

Avoid Burnout In Leadership (5:28)

Some characteristics of the very best leaders. Who they are and how they got there. (6:00)

Face the Reality Of My Weaknesses (8:12)

That thing called "Trust." What it is and why it's important for you as a leader. (7:35)

How you can use "the outcomes" to evaluate yourself as a leader. (5:04)

Tips For Being An Authentic Leader (6:33)

Your character leaves a wake behind you. What's yours like? (4:55)

Don't explain it away - take responsibility! (5:23)

Good leaders attract the right people and frustrate the right people! (7:02)

The characteristics of a "relational leader." (6:44)

Lessons for Leadership Lifers (7:48)

"Relational-based leadership" isn't a luxury. The importance of valuing people. (6:23)

Getting to the hearts of those you are leading. (5:26)

It's okay and it's important to trust your gut instinct. It can be a good source of information. (3:03)

The 80-20 Principle (4:12)

Biblically Deal with Problematic People (7:14)

Healthy Practices of Leaders (2:21)

A Foolish Person Diagnosed (2:52)

Do Not Tolerate Evil People (4:07)

The Process of Dealing with a Fool (7:17)

A Wise Person Diagnosed (4:51)

A Healthy Leadership Immune System is Imperative (3:04)

Go the Distance In Leadership (6:43)

Finish Strong As a Leader (3:25)

Good leaders involve others and share the vision. (4:30)

Be a Leader Who Adapts (5:02)

The Principle Of Reality (6:43)

Face the Reality Of the Situation (4:38)

Face the Hard Realities Of Life (3:51)

What kind of leader will people trust? The answer will surprise you. (5:52)

Boundaries: Draw your property lines and see what happens next. (7:22)

Developing your boundaries skills in leadership. (5:11)

The best leaders have the best boundaries. (6:30)

Leaders Can't Make People Happy (5:07)

Deal with it! Toxic people, idiots and enemies and what to do with them. (6:40)

Fire! Ready! Aim! The path to making good decisions. (5:17)

Become a Leader for Life (6:20)

The Importance of the Authentic Leader (5:25)

The Paradox of Authenticity (4:34)

It is Better to Be Real than Be Positive (6:55)

Normalize Failure in Your Leadership Culture (5:35)

Qualities of the Authentic Leader (8:25)

Show them you value them! What to say and how to say it. (5:06)

Responsibility and accountability. Good leaders are responsible for successes and failures. (5:53)

How good leaders understand that authority cuts both ways - and they aren't afraid of that. (4:16)

The importance of the "humility process" and its outcome for leaders. (4:20)

An Authentic Leader Lives in Reality (6:41)

Leaders Need Traveling Companions who Provide Courage and Can Give Feedback (7:42)

"Relational leadership" makes great teams and leaders - but it doesn't just "happen." Practical steps to build from. (8:03)

Four regrets leaders have about working with difficult people. (2:20)

Credibility Vs. Happy Talk (6:26)

Suggestive Steps To Telling the Truth (4:49)

More Guiding Principles To Tell The Truth (3:48)

Guiding Principles To Tell the Truth (6:25)

The Big Problem In Telling the Truth Is You (2:05)

You Must Believe the Truth To Tell It (6:06)

Truth Telling Barriers (3:50)

Face the Reality Of My Strengths (7:00)

Beyond integrity. What else is there? (9:33)

Leaders Need "Traveling Companions" Who Will Provide Wisdom. (3:46)

Worry about the right things. (6:14)

Why we fight. The good news about those four main reasons. (5:20)

One of the biggest mistakes you can make in an argument. (4:31)

Good Fights - Bad Fights! (7:55)

When fights get "historical." (2:22)

The two pillars you need to support a good conversation. (7:22)

The two secret weapons for any argument. (5:14)

"You are not the boss of me!" Freedom and control in a relationship - you may be surprised by what ... (6:11)

"Getting to know you." How to get to each others' hearts. (6:03)

Better communication isn't the whole solution - here's what you need even more! (6:35)

How to help your children develop 8 character qualities that will make them healthy adults. (6:23)

Parenting Pitfalls: Overcoming the 5 major obstacles to creating boundaries for your children. (4:16)

"Reality consequences" work. Use them! (4:45)

Setting boundaries with teenagers. How late is too late? (2:44)

Apologize first and see what happens next. (1:30)

The Concept of Boundaries (4:11)

We Do Influence Others (3:48)

Respect Others' Boundaries (4:24)

The Importance of Accountability (2:44)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Seek Outside Help (6:42)

External Resistances to Boundaries (6:05)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Let the Bad Go (3:03)

Boundary Problems' Symptoms (4:18)

Handle Irresponsibility in Relationships (3:32)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Fail First (3:28)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Assess your Life (6:37)

The Difference Between Hurt and Harm (2:59)

Concede Control (6:42)

What Do Boundaries Protect? (6:58)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Receive Help (4:21)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Take Ownership (2:26)

Sowing and Reaping with Boundaries (3:10)

Verbal Boundaries (3:46)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Say No (6:13)

Keeping Good In and Bad Out (2:58)

Internal Resistances to Boundaries (2:28)

Boundaries and consequences. How to bring about behavior change in others. (5:11)

Boundaries Require Action (3:16)

Life with a "Button-Pusher." Sound familiar? (7:21)

Your "button pushers:" Who they are and what they do. (6:29)

Time-proven ways to fail in dealing with your "button pusher." (5:07)

Time doesn't heal all wounds, but YOU can start the process in your relationships. (2:20)

The waiting game: There's a difference between hoping and wishing. (2:34)

Enabling. When it turns out YOU'RE the person who makes it all possible. (1:41)

We Have a Need for Freedom (4:05)

How Do You Receive Comfort? (3:08)

Humans Need Human Contact (5:32)

Families Need To Encourage Forward Development (2:33)

Experiences Affect Our Responses and Alter Our Choices (5:26)

Childhood Development Affects Adult Perspective (4:38)

Our Family Shapes Our Thinking (4:04)

Families Give Resources That Affect Your Personality (2:37)

The Need for Appropriate Structure (2:51)

"Need-And-Love-and-Give-And-Take" Spotting the problems. (4:20)

You have more power than you think when dealing with that difficult person. Here are some tools you can use. (7:10)

Be Emotionally Present and Available (5:37)

Two Ways of Falling in Love (6:54)

Good Reasons for Falling in Love (5:47)

Don't Control Your Partner (2:58)

Mature Expectations about Perfection (4:22)

Maintain Total Commitment (2:11)

Individuality is Healthy (4:24)

A Biblical Definition of Love (3:03)

Love Requires Need (2:35)

Purposes of Love (6:56)

Problems with Love (5:37)

Love is a Developing Process (2:41)

How to be a Loving Person (6:38)

Love Prevents Self-Absorption (2:45)

We Need Relationship Boundaries (6:15)

The incredible power of words. Choose them wisely. (6:50)

Why Our Past is Important (5:14)

Messages from the Past (6:30)

Predictors of Divorce (4:54)

The Past is a Foundation for the Future (2:39)

Our Past can Still Hurt in the Present (3:07)

Dealing with Post Traumatic Stress (4:56)

How Our Past may Affect Relationships (4:04)

How to Visualize a Boundary (5:57)

Denial doesn't help. Learn to incorporate the good and the bad into your life. (4:28)

Watch for change in that difficult person in your life. Some things you'll see when change begins. (7:20)

The two worst "compliments" you can give! (2:48)

The "Love Vocabulary." Learning what to say and what not to say. (6:25)

Timing Is Everything: When you say something is just as important as what you say. (6:38)

People are not projects - resist the urge to work on them. (5:44)

To accept or not to accept? When to affirm, when to push, and when to do both. (5:52)

Celebrate the differences in people! Why it's important and what you'll get from it. (5:15)

Why Values are Important (5:19)

The Value of Loving Others (4:49)

Happiness is a Result, not a Value (5:10)

The Value of Loving God (6:15)

The Values of Compassion and Forgiveness (4:40)

The Value of Holiness (2:43)

The Value of Honesty (6:34)

The Value of Faithfulness (4:17)

Absence of Ground Rules Inhibits Spiritual Growth in Groups (7:25)

Leaders Share Their Weakness to the Group (3:22)

Help Groups Share Imperfections (5:28)

Specific Listening Skills for Group Leaders (4:31)

Non-Verbal Communication as a Group Leader (3:52)

Burning Questions Concerning Listening as a Group Leader (5:50)

The one relationship that will affect all the others in your life. (2:00)

Listening to Lead People Deeper in Groups (7:48)

Truth Focused vs. Life Focused Groups (7:41)

Four Ways People Hide Their Imperfections in a Group (2:38)

Honesty in Groups Opens People to the Work of the Spirit (7:08)

Leave your expectations at the door and you'll be amazed by what you find inside. (3:18)

Ask Better Questions in Groups (5:06)

Role Playing Good Questions in a Group (3:50)

Common Inhibitors to Authenticity in Groups (2:57)

Listening in a Small Group (5:19)

Role Playing Active and Passive Listening in a Group (5:46)

Use Reflective Statements as a Group Leader (2:46)

Interpret Meaning in Small Group Discussions (2:54)

Go Deeper in Small Group Discussions (7:58)

Connect with People's Soul in Groups (6:39)

A good look in the mirror: Get small and get humble and see what happens next. (7:07)

Practices for Helping a Group Share Imperfections (7:29)

Why Our Attempts at Prayer Fail (7:21)

Practical Ways to Begin a Prayer Life (3:01)

Grace Fuels Our Spiritual Life (5:25)

Even Movers and Shakers Can Be Still (5:20)

Discussion Killers in a Group (4:15)

Ask Probing Questions in a Group (5:35)

The Power of Questions in a Group (6:42)

Small Groups Are Not Classrooms (5:29)

Clarify Expectations and Enforce Ground Rules in Groups (5:32)

Barriers to Admitting our Imperfections (2:30)

Bad Group Experiences in the Past Inhibit Spiritual Growth in Groups (8:06)

Help People Overcome the Fear of Self Disclosure (6:38)

Burning Questions Concerning Facilitating Spiritual Growth in Groups (7:42)

Fear of Self Disclosure Inhibits Spiritual Growth in Groups (6:19)

Unsolicited Advice Kills Group Discussion (5:42)

Ask Guided Questions in a Group (7:36)

How Do We Overcome Barriers Of Conflict? (3:41)

The Problem With Religion (5:00)

Give Up Being Independent (3:34)

How Do We Handle Dysfunctional People? (3:55)

Deal With Fear and Pain (2:38)

The Nature Of Forgiveness (3:25)

Can We Forgive Ourselves (2:57)

How Do We Understand God In a Fallen World? (3:49)

Reconcile Unrealized Areas In Your Life (2:30)

Grace Is the Ultimate Fertilizer (3:58)

How Is Guilt Related To Anger? (2:09)

Healing Takes Time (2:22)

How Should We Approach a Legalistic Church (2:29)

Too Often We Live Under the Law (5:49)

Pain Happens and Will Happen Again (4:00)

How Can We Become Honest Christians? (3:13)

Give Up Perfection (2:16)

Uncover the Truth of Your Problems (4:44)

Though Life Is Not Easy, A Promise Awaits (3:54)

What Is Life's Purpose? (2:13)

What If Your Spouse Is Not Interested In Spiritual Growth (4:02)

Unclear Community Expectations Inhibit Spiritual Growth in Groups (6:27)

Legalistic Versus Grace Based Small Groups Culture (8:28)

Poor Curriculum Inhibits Spiritual Growth in a Small Group (4:07)

The Challenge of Sharing Imperfections in a Group (3:09)

Honesty in Groups Promotes Healing and Increases Confidence (4:15)

Honesty in Groups Minimizes Pretending and Encourages Deeper Communication (3:36)

Barriers for Spiritual Growth in a Small Group (4:53)

Over-Spiritualizing Kills Group Discussion (5:06)

Burning Questions Concerning Transformational Questions in a Small Group (5:36)

Burning Questions Concerning Sharing Imperfections in a Group (9:14)

Connect with People's Passion in Groups (2:18)

Listen in a Loop (4:59)

Honesty Holds a Group Together and Fosters Emotional Well-Being (4:56)

God's ideas and my ideas. When it feels like there's disconnect between what you want and what He wants. (6:33)

The Aspects Of Reality (4:36)

Welcome to website (4:03)

1255 Q&A Videos on

When it comes to dating after a divorce, I've heard that many counselors recommend one year of healing for every ... (3:26)

A man is pursuing me who is a recovering alcoholic. He has been sober for 13 years (never married and ... (2:46)

How much physical contact should I have with someone I'm dating but not committed to? I wonder if even a ... (1:37)

A meaningful dating relationship has ended and I'm feeling emotionally drained. On the one hand I know I need time ... (1:35)

I am no longer married and would like to reenter the dating world. As a Christian I don't believe ... (2:44)

I am eighteen and in love with a thirty-five year old. He is very introverted and people don't understand him. ... (3:00)

I have been mutually attracted to this guy in my church for two years. We kissed and it changed things. ... (1:33)

Is it ok to marry for security and companionship if you are not in love? (4:46)

How important do you believe physical attraction is in getting a date? (4:23)

I'm dating someone who doesn't like to deal with any conflict. When a disagreement arises or something happens that results ... (2:23)

I have been dating a guy who says he loves me, but when I talk to his friends they seem ... (2:41)

I am in a relationship with a girl with whom I have grown to love very much. Must I ... (2:01)

My boyfriend's mother is bipolar. Her overall attitude on life is negative and she is always blaming others. ... (2:29)

My boyfriend is so busy with his job that he never has any time for me, or even himself. How ... (2:03)

If you have gone on a couple of dates with someone and the person is not a good match for ... (1:48)

How do you know when it is time to let go of a dating relationship? (3:08)

Can you give me a few phrases to use to dump someone after a date or two? (2:51)

This man told me he liked me and I turned him down. I have since realized I have feelings for ... (2:33)

I have had an on-again off-again relationship for the past couple of years. He wants to get back together again, ... (2:41)

I am dating a man who is decent, honorable, gainfully employed and boring. It's not serious, just a now and ... (1:28)

My boyfriend recently confessed to me that he had an affair with his ex girlfriend. He claims the reason he ... (1:46)

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I am dating someone who is so shy and quiet, I find myself carrying the conversations and disclosing way more ... (2:25)

My boyfriend lies occasionally about small things and is clingy. Are the lying and insecurities something that he can change? ... (1:57)

How does dating differ from courtship? (2:56)

My girlfriend seems to get upset over the smallest things. She said she doesn't even know why she cries most ... (2:34)

I was recently at a conference featuring Dr. Cloud and he told the story of one lady who went from ... (4:15)

I have been divorced for about 5 years and up to this point have not considered dating because I have ... (1:45)

Is it wrong for a woman to ask a man for a date? (2:04)

The Definition of Dating (2:06)

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I am a widow with young children who would like to begin dating again, but my children don't want me ... (4:23)

I have been in a relationship with a guy with a borderline personality disorder. He has read your Boundaries books ... (1:19)

How soon should I expect to meet the young children of the man I'm dating? He seems awfully hesitant to ... (1:15)

My husband died 3 years ago. I have two children who are 7 & 9 now. I would like to ... (1:52)

I am 50 years old and have been a widow for 6 years. I would like to marry again. Are ... (2:14)

My fiance and I are supposed to get married in a few months. We have always been close and he ... (1:39)

My girlfriend is very emotional. She doesn't just cry at sad movies - she falls completely apart. It's embarrassing and ... (:44)

I am a divorcee about to remarry. How can I stop the process of transferring negative feelings to my innocent ... (2:50)

How can I know for sure if someone is the right person for me? (3:57)

How long should I wait for my fiance to set a date for our wedding? We dated for 2 1/2 ... (1:26)

I try to keep a friendly relationship with my ex-wife for our children's sake, but it really bothers my girlfriend. ... (3:30)

I don't like my boyfriend's friends. I trust him, but NOT them and I don't like it when he hangs ... (3:34)

Recently I went on a first date with someone after meeting them on a Christian dating web site. I ... (3:37)

In a dating relationship, is there a timeline for a commitment? For example, if we haven't made a commitment to ... (2:23)

Do you think for each person there is one person out there that they are supposed to marry? (4:24)

One of my friends is about to buy a ring for his girlfriend but he's got doubts about their relationship. ... (2:16)

I'm 35 years old and I've never been on a date. I don't even know where to start. ... (2:08)

How picky should I be about first dates? I turn them down sometimes for a wide range of reasons - ... (1:17)

How would I know if a man in my single parent group is interested in me? What does it mean ... (2:37)

Is it OK to not want to be friends with an ex-boyfriend? (1:51)

My friend's male friend came 3000 miles to visit her. Every time he walks by, he touches her in some ... (1:52)

How can I let someone know I'm interested in going out with him? I don't want to communicate that there's ... (3:27)

I met a man (54 years old) 2 months ago that is just finalizing his divorce. He was married 25+ ... (2:50)

How do I go from "dating" someone to "just friends" emotionally until we are both ready for something more? ... (4:11)

Should a man tell the woman on the first date that he is just dating to have fun and meet ... (2:18)

I just learned my fiance is gay. Even though he was lying to himself, I feel like I should have ... (2:56)

Is it bad to never allow a man to buy you anything unless you are married to each other or ... (2:45)

How can you move on after a relationship has ended? (2:34)

I am a widower in my late fifties. My friends encourage me to date but it's so hard to even ... (2:21)

What do you think about a dating service just for people who are or have been in therapy? I want ... (1:23)

What are your thoughts about group-dating? Pros and cons? (2:40)

I have recently gained 45 pounds as the result of an illness. I have gotten back into contact with an ... (3:13)

My girlfriend that I dated for 3 years, 10 years ago, recently divorced her husband to get back with me. ... (2:13)

In a dating relationship, where do I draw the line physically? (2:57)

I am currently in a relationship with a person I would call commitment phobic. He is really good at starting ... (3:44)

I'm a single man in my late twenties. I think I move way to fast when it comes to dating. ... (2:48)

I don't know why whenever my boyfriend wants to spend time with other people, I feel uncomfortable. I know I ... (2:46)

I have been dating a man for two years. We haven't moved past the "dinner and a movie" dating stage. ... (2:24)

Do you think a long distance romantic relationship can ever work? (1:29)

We have been friends for 2 1/2 years and dating approximately two months. Should we date for the recommended year+ ... (1:19)

How do I break out of a pattern of being attracted to men who don't return my feelings? (3:11)

I am in a long-distance relationship, but he does not call me. He will only send me a text message ... (1:46)

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I've been dating a women for 18 months. How do I know if I'm in love with her in a ... (1:57)

I love someone, and she said she loved me too. Now she says she never loved me. I want only ... (1:56)

I am in love with a married man. Out of the blue he will stop calling. I'm not ready to ... (1:21)

How is dating different at 18 vs. 28? Or is it different? Are the rules the same? Similar? (1:22)

I was just at one of your singles retreat. You said we should date 20 people. I am 59 years ... (1:29)

Why do so many men today wait for women to make the first move? (2:19)

What do you think about inter-faith relationships? (2:13)

I've met someone I would like to date. I don't think he's a Christian yet so when is too soon ... (:38)

Is it unfair to enter into marriage with $10,000 of debt, even if the irresponsible habits that caused that debt ... (1:15)

Can I date multiple people at one time? (1:32)

I seem to only focus on the negative aspects of my dating relationships. How can I notice the good in ... (2:22)

What are some of the deal-breakers when choosing a spouse? (3:21)

I am considering getting married. My boyfriend was married before and still has strong feelings for his ex-wife. Is this ... (2:21)

What do you think about online dating services that promise to match you up with your "perfect soul mate?" Do ... (5:59)

Can you talk about vulnerability and connectedness as opposed to autonomy in a dating relationship? When do I self-protect and ... (2:59)

When I became a single mother with a three year old and a six year old my life was consumed ... (2:37)

In this day and age, is it appropriate to do a background check on someone you are dating or considering ... (1:53)

If I want to try a reputable internet dating service, what should I look for? (1:36)

It seems to me that single woman are looking for Jim Carrey and Tom Cruise all wrapped up in ... (1:18)

How do I compassionately tell a "toxic" person that I don't want a relationship with them anymore? (2:49)

I have been dating a great man for 6 months. He has met my parents, but I have yet to ... (2:54)

I know that some things in a dating relationship are "deal breakers" and some things are more minor annoyances (which ... (2:48)

Are there some steps that I can do, to improve my level of confidence so that when I see a ... (2:16)

I was in a long relationship with a man, and we were close to getting married. When he broke it ... (2:19)

I've been dating a man for four months and the relationship has begun to get serious. We are both divorced. ... (3:33)

If a woman breaks the engagement, should she give the ring back? What if the man breaks the engagement? (1:28)

I tend to over-romanticize when I'm in a dating relationship. How do I know when I'm doing it and how ... (3:36)

I'm not sure I want to marry, but I desire intimacy and a healthy relationship. Does that always involve marriage? (2:30)

After years of isolation as a single parent, how do I rediscover who I am and what I want from ... (2:01)

I would like to be married but I seem to find a lot of reasons to not pursue potential partners. ... (3:11)

In a dating relationship, is there an appropriate point to reveal something from my life that could have a serious ... (2:01)

I think I am in love with my boyfriend. He asked me how I feel about him but I really ... (1:56)

I'm shy and I would like to date. I hate the thought of singles groups because that's even more people ... (1:57)

The person I'm in love with had a troubled past. I've noticed that most of my past relationships have been ... (1:48)

I have been burned from too many secrets in my boyfriend relationships. From those experiences, I learned to be ... (1:28)

How does dating differ from courtship? (2:26)

How important do you believe physical attraction is in a dating relationship? (3:29)

It seems that sex outside of marriage is more and more acceptable. Can you give me some thoughts about sex ... (2:43)

My boyfriend and I began our relationship with lust and heavy breathing. How do I pull back and begin anew? (3:27)

How do I communicate my boundaries to someone I'm dating? (1:55)

I am a 20-year-old male virgin. I can't seem to get over the fact that my current girlfriend didn't wait ... (1:54)

What are some good physical boundaries my boyfriend and I can set? We don't want to have sex until we ... (3:23)

My boyfriend acts like he loves me but has never said so. I tell him that I love him all ... (2:07)

I'm in love with a woman on the other side of the country. It seems obvious the time has come ... (2:04)

My friends are always trying to fix me up. I'm not opposed to dating, but I'm selective about ... (1:37)

Where can a woman in her early twenties find a nice man? (2:33)

I am a single guy with a lot of life goals. I feel like dating and marriage would make these ... (2:56)

What do you think about dating someone of a different faith or belief system? (1:46)

Will God allow you to fall in love with someone who wasn't meant to be your spouse? (1:56)

I am in a relationship with someone who puts her son before me. What is the best way to deal ... (2:24)

I am dating a man who has two children who are rude to me. Their father thinks I'm imagining it, ... (4:31)

How do you know if a man loves you or is just stringing you along? (2:51)

I have a history of being a poor judge of character, particularly when choosing men. Where do I start so ... (2:45)

How does a person know they are ready for a good relationship? (2:38)

I'm single, outgoing, and very busy. Because of this, I am careful how I invest my time. I see dating ... (2:01)

I tend to think I am in love and get swept away so easily. One minute I say "I love ... (3:15)

Do you think men are more interested in women who are inaccessible? If so, should I try to play hard ... (2:27)

We are Christians who have been dating for a year and a half. We've decided to become engaged, but our ... (3:04)

What are some of the red flags when deciding whether or not to move forward in a dating relationship? (3:20)

What is a reasonable time frame in a dating relationship for the partners to decide jointly how weekends are spent? (1:04)

How young is too young to get married? (2:04)

What makes a relationship codependent? Can you give some possible examples of codependent qualities? (2:28)

When my sister gets upset I think she cuts herself. She won't admit it but I've seen the scratches. I ... (1:26)

How can I know if I am emotionally healthy? (2:24)

My parents had a wonderful, happy marriage for 51 years until my father passed away two years ago. My seventy-five ... (2:26)

I was sexually abused as a child. Is it normal to still have fears? (1:41)

How do people with disabilities strive for success when they can barely function from day to day? I am bi-polar ... (2:00)

How do I break bad sexual habits? (2:03)

I think I have a sexual addiction to pornography on the net. Can you help me? (3:20)

How do I decide what is helpful and what is enabling regarding addicts? (1:40)

HELP! I am what you would call the controlling freak and criticizer! I see myself and hear myself and I ... (3:34)

Do you believe that alcoholism is an inherited disease and one will always be an alcoholic and can never learn ... (2:36)

How do I know when my loneliness is healthy or unhealthy? (2:37)

How can I deal with my depression? (3:46)

How can I cope with and manage the basic feelings that lead to my anger? (2:59)

What to do when your doctor thinks your spouse may be suffering from Bi-Polar Disorder? (2:15)

My friend told me that I have a problem with anger, but I have been told it is healthy to ... (2:55)

I'm anxious all the time - even when things are going well. Do I have to take medication? (5:35)

Would it be considered normal for a person to be asexual (and not married) or is that an indication that ... (2:08)

My question is linked to childhood abandonment that happened 50 years ago. I know that I have unresolved grief--but how ... (1:19)

Why, when I awake during the night, am I unable to return to sleep -- I lay in bed and ... (4:12)

I experience extreme emotional highs and lows. How can I gain control of this? (4:26)

Can you direct me to a truly Christian perspective on Borderline Personality Disorder? (4:34)

I am not happy with my breast surgery. I can't go back now. What should I do? (2:08)

Are panic attacks real? Where do they come from? I sometimes seem to get them and I want to know ... (3:05)

From all outward appearances I seem to have a good life. I have a good marriage, great kids and a ... (3:05)

What causes a person to want to commit suicide? (3:21)

What do I do to overcome my fear of commitment or fear of failure in choosing or being chosen by ... (3:25)

My brother is bipolar. He is often excluded from events because of his erratic behavior. No one has been successful ... (2:19)

My childhood was so abusive that as an adult I am terrified of conflict. What is the best way to ... (2:19)

Is there a way to change from seeing life in a negative vein to seeing it positively? How do you ... (3:18)

I am on a church staff and don't know where to go for help. The Sr. Pastor is my boss ... (1:29)

My mother passed away and my dad is an abusive alcoholic. I've never dealt with a single problem in my ... (2:10)

I'm a grown man who is extremely sensitive. I really dislike conflict and I feel like crying when I feel ... (2:29)

I heard a statement that "physical and mental exhaustion brought on by hectic pace, family demands and job stress can ... (3:23)

Are recurring nightmares a good indicator that someone should seek help? My best friend has had recurring nightmares for years ... (1:45)

When I give someone in my life a choice and let them know how I will respond based on their ... (4:04)

How can I deal with my anger? (4:53)

I spend most of my time waiting for something bad to happen. How can I stop worrying so much? (1:55)

How do I cope with anxiety and depression? (1:27)

How do you go about choosing a psychiatrist, therapist or counselor for a family member who is in a crisis? (2:02)

While I have a positive outlook on life, I seem to come to tears easily if I talk about painful ... (2:18)

How can I tell the difference between being depressed and just having a bad couple weeks? When should I ... (1:29)

I am in counseling dealing with the effects of sexual abuse at the hands of my grandfather and I feel ... (2:24)

What is a safe way to "vent?" Sometimes I just want to gripe, but feel that it is not always ... (2:18)

I'm in my forties and dating again. I look for chemistry but the chemistry seems to appear only with the ... (4:07)

I'm fifteen and I don't know who to ask about this. I don't know how to act at funerals or ... (3:02)

I have heard of a phrase called "paralysis of the will" which seems to be the best way to describe ... (1:39)

My best friend has early-onset Alzheimer's. Her husband is no help - he doesn't want to deal with it and ... (1:28)

My cousin's wife is a stew-pot of tragic, psychiatric problems. He has been living in pain for years. Now that ... (1:56)

How do I get out of a bad relationship? (1:43)

Is there a way to know if I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome or if I'm depressed or just burned out. ... (1:05)

I'm 52 and don't know how to look ahead. There doesn't seem to be anything to look forward ... (5:03)

I have struggled with depression throughout my adult life. I keep asking God to take away my depression, but ... (2:18)

Try as I may, I cannot believe God loves me. I am a woman with no goals in life ... (1:26)

How should a person deal with a fear of dying? (5:06)

Twelve years of unemployment after my graduate education have left me feeling totally rejected by people, even those I helped ... (2:08)

I am feeling lonely more and more often. My children are grown and my husband travels a lot for work. ... (1:55)

I am sad, have no energy, and no desire to do anything. I sometimes wish I would die. Am I ... (4:43)

I am sad, have no energy, and no desire to do anything. Sometimes I just wish I would die. Am ... (2:01)

A young man in my son's youth group committed suicide. It's been very hard for his friends in the group. ... (6:15)

I get the blues periodically. How do I know when it's part of normal life or if I have ... (1:51)

Is there such a thing as religious addiction where the person goes even to the point of psychotic delusions and ... (3:08)

Am I compulsive.. I HAVE TO and ALWAYS line my shoes up, I honk 4 times in a row ... (2:05)

I have dreams are about being in a war situation and after running, I always get caught by the enemy. ... (2:31)

My mother attempted suicide several times when I was a child and my father told me it was my fault. ... (3:12)

I struggled with an eating disorder for 10 years. I understand the "control issues" behind it. I'm in my 30s ... (2:18)

What kind of help is available for young adults with mild learning disabilities who have a hard time connecting? (1:54)

How can I deal with my guilt and shame? It interrupts my life and keeps me from having close ... (3:27)

I'd like to know where the sense of entitlement comes from and why some people have it and others don't? (2:46)

I've heard that schizophrenia often shows up for the first time during the college-age years. Are there any warning ... (2:27)

I can't take criticism at all! A semi stranger made a casual remark about me and it really threw me ... (5:26)

What is Bipolar Disorder? I hear the term frequently and also that it's very serious but don't know what it ... (4:13)

Do you think that obesity is similar to other substance abuse problems? Should they be approached the same way? (2:18)

My mother so strongly preferred one of her children over another that now that he has passed away, she no ... (4:13)

Can you talk about ways to get over the fear of rejection? (3:09)

How do you handle someone that confronts you, and who wants to argue something you just don't want ... (2:25)

How can I learn to give up control in my various relationships (home, work, friends)? I'm not a control-freak but ... (3:58)

Is anorexia always about control? (1:36)

I am afraid of having friends! What does this mean? Is there help for someone like me? (4:36)

A friend of mine is a moody person. He can be really outgoing and really quiet. He seems confident but ... (1:40)

Taking control of my life seems big. Where do I start? (3:38)

I am feeling a lot of stress and anxiety. What are the symptoms of anxiety attacks? Do I see a ... (3:19)

I've struggled with homosexual tendencies since I was a teenager. I don't know whether I am gay or not, and ... (3:00)

What is the difference between an anxiety attack and a panic attack? Is there any way to stop them before ... (2:37)

I have friend who is very worried about the situation in the middle east. I too, am concerned but I ... (2:40)

What is the difference between grief and depression? (1:41)

We have 2 friends that had grown children that both committed suicide recently. I want to be as absolutely empathetic ... (2:38)

I'm having trouble letting go of guilt about things in my past. I've asked for forgiveness and believe I'm forgiven ... (4:10)

I really want to follow my heart and make a dramatic life-change, but my head says no. I'm single so ... (2:30)

What are some of the characteristics of an unhealthy relationship with a significant other? (2:36)

How do I know if I am beyond a normal amount of crazy and need help? (4:18)

What's difference between a therapist, a psychiatrist, a psychologist, a counselor etc? How do I know who to speak with? (3:49)

What are signals that it's time to move to professional counseling? (2:21)

How long should you see a counselor? (2:37)

My son (20) recently made two serious suicide attempts. He is now in intensive therapy at a specialized recovery hospital. ... (2:55)

I'm 52 and don't know how to "look ahead." There doesn't seem to be anything to look forward to. How ... (2:08)

I really think I have dealt with my anger about my parent's divorce, but how do I learn to trust ... (4:10)

I am having the worst physical and emotional pain I've ever had. I recently found out that my partner cheated ... (2:12)

How do you deal with someone who feels personally attacked by almost every comment? I love this person and want ... (3:23)

Is hypnosis wrong for Christians? (1:30)

How can you have good relationships if you have disassociation identity disorder? I can understand why I have no friends. ... (3:22)

I struggle with my weight. I am about 30 pounds overweight. I am single and would love to be in ... (2:29)

I normally would say nothing back to someone who insults or slights me but I do stew over the ill ... (3:35)

I have a disability and get around pretty well with my wheelchair. I'd like to know if there's a way ... (1:17)

What is the difference between quiet and shy. People talk about shyness like it's a sin or something. (2:02)

Life just doesn't seem to work for me anymore. I don't know what changed, I just know nothing feels right ... (4:09)

I have an irresistible desire to steal small things that I don't even need and could certainly afford to buy. ... (1:40)

A friend of my daughter is cutting herself. What is my responsibility as an adult to try to help ... (1:25)

Why can't I just shut up and be a good listener? (4:14)

My parents were detached and unavailable to me. I do not want to carry the feelings that created in me ... (2:56)

Why do I love the person that makes me suffer? (1:59)

I have such a hurtful need to be loved, that when I get into a relationship, I get so focused ... (2:24)

What are some ways to control my thoughts more? (3:30)

How do you get power over lust? (2:02)

What is bipolar disorder? Can it be treated? (2:07)

My life doesn't feel complete without a significant other. I connect well with friends but I still feel this huge ... (1:45)

Why can't I spend even a little money on myself without feeling guilt and anxiety? I only feel okay about ... (4:29)

I have been on anti-depressants for the last 15 years. I am in counseling and getting involved in a social ... (2:44)

Are there any ways of dealing with panic attacks that do not involve using drugs? (7:59)

My friend has OCD and lately it has been unbearable for her. Her insurance won't cover meds and she doesn't ... (2:00)

At what point does distorted thinking become mental illness? (1:46)

My husband seems to be struggling with a lot of internal issues right now. He is a middle age man ... (3:14)

I am still struggling from the pain of my miscarriage 14 years ago. How can I heal? (2:28)

I have been getting in touch with a lot of anger toward my mother. Do I have a responsibility ... (3:41)

The more I think about my childhood, the more I realize how dysfunctional my mother was in her parenting of ... (3:01)

My 27 yr. old daughter is in rehab for alcoholism and drug use. She is in de-tox for 5 ... (1:34)

What makes a person a critical person? Can they change? (2:55)

People throw the term co-dependent around all the time, can you define co-dependency and give an example of it? (2:32)

My husband is suffering greatly from depression and anxiety. How can I help? (2:16)

I have heard that grief is a process. If that is true, then what are the phases of the process ... (6:05)

I'm overweight. After years of struggling and struggling with this I am finally resigned to it and I'm not going ... (3:43)

In light of recent world events, how do we avoid living under fear? (7:30)

What is OCD? (2:02)

My husband has OCD and it puts a lot of pressure on me and our relationship. What should I do? (2:13)

With OCD, how does a person distinguish between valid concerns regarding one's relationship with God and obsessions? I particularly struggle ... (2:42)

It is difficult to overcome the scars of molestation. If healing requires forgiveness, when there's been no justice, it feels ... (5:07)

I realize that I am too passive. How can I become more assertive? (2:14)

How do you forgive hurts that are continuously being committed? (2:55)

I've identified my "baggage" and have gotten rid of some of it but I am having a tough time letting ... (3:13)

I was in a committed relationship for 2 years. One year ago we got engaged. We are now ... (3:56)

My counselor told me that he thinks I might be a HSP (highly sensitive person). I read up on it ... (1:16)

I'm in high school and not popular. People make fun of me because I don't fit in any group. Please ... (4:09)

My first marriage ended because of my addiction to porn. I am now in love again but still struggle with ... (1:54)

I just learned what I've suspected for a long time that my husband is mentally ill. What do ... (2:21)

Could you discuss "good anger" versus "bad anger?" (5:25)

I am trying to gain freedom from past familial sexual and addiction issues. I cannot afford counseling. How can I ... (1:16)

What does the Bible teach us about recovery in our life? Is it a life-long process or can you be ... (1:45)

How would you advise someone in recovery with issues from dysfunctional family of origin and having just exited from a ... (2:43)

I was married for 17 years. Of course I was devastated when he told me he was homosexual and left ... (2:00)

I was sexually molested as a 4 year old and I can't seem to move past the pain from my ... (2:29)

How can change be good and not frightening? (2:26)

What hope is there for a person who hates their self? I was divorced a few years ago and since ... (5:13)

When someone has experienced a critical injury that has left them handicapped and unable to work, how can they move ... (2:42)

Can you define narcissism and talk about what a relationship with a narcissistic person looks like? (2:58)

You hear the term "sex addict" a lot now. I think my husband may be one. Can you explain ... (2:59)

When I was a child, my grandfather molested me. Although I have never discussed it with him, I suspect that ... (1:46)

I was sexually abused as a child by my father and my mother remained silent. I know that many ... (2:15)

I was sexually abused in my past. I now have serious issues with sex. I seem to do things that ... (3:31)

I have a conscience that beats me up all the time. What can I do to get it to stop? ... (3:57)

I am single and have been trying to meet new people by going to more social gatherings. The problems is ... (2:55)

I am a 51 year old, never married female. Is there a point in life when a I should stop ... (4:48)

My wife suffers from some form of social anxiety disorder. Every time she walks into church or any other social ... (2:24)

How can a meek person effectively stand-up for themselves? What exercises can you recommend to learn how to be defensive ... (1:43)

I have a problem with drugs and it's wrecking my life. What can I do? (3:03)

I can't stop drinking. What should I do? (3:19)

How can I deal with my anxiety? (3:05)

There is a woman who has confided to me that she cuts herself with some frequency. She has also hinted ... (2:05)

Is there benefit to going into therapy as part of a serious weight-loss plan? What would that be? (2:22)

I suffer from an anxiety disorder and I have an overwhelming fear of death and dying. Is it normal even ... (2:04)

What is therapy supposed to be like? How do you know you're getting the right kind of help? (2:40)

I have a friend who says he was sexually molested by a schoolmate in high school for 2 years until ... (1:33)

Why am I the family punching bag? I don't mean physical abuse, but my family seems to have designated me ... (2:52)

What is the best way to meet safe people? (2:13)

I have a lot of shame. I tend to isolate myself and avoid intimate relationships for fear of being asked ... (3:04)

I am bipolar. How can I get my husband to understand my extreme highs and lows? (1:49)

I have learned to never trust anyone because I will be hurt. My stepdad hurt me. My mom blamed me. ... (4:21)

I'm starting to feel like I should go back and apologize to everyone I've ever wronged. There are about eight ... (1:30)

What are the warning signs that depression is becoming worse and needs to be addressed professionally? (6:47)

What is really going on when you feel the need to prove yourself and compete with others? It's worse around ... (1:08)

What's the best way to get over a broken heart? (3:56)

What does forgiveness look like? For example, can I forgive someone when I still feel angry about that they did? (2:20)

I can't seem to find a good mentor. Either they feel you are beneath them or they just don't want ... (3:48)

How do I start the process of goal setting? (2:32)

My boss can be very critical and leads based on his feelings about others. I'm finding myself doing the same ... (3:16)

How do you set boundaries with your boss? (4:02)

Can you talk about over-working, what are reasonable limits and how do we avoid it? (1:53)

I'm struggling with my career, or lack there of. I know there is a book called, "What Color is Your ... (2:38)

I am always surprised at the number of my middle-aged peers who still don't know what they want to be ... (3:45)

I work with someone who volunteers for extra work. She always claims to be overworked but will immediately move to ... (3:18)

I'm 28 and since my teens I've been dependent on others for assurance and help. Now I am learning to ... (4:14)

My company was recently bought by another one and a new manager was brought in. At first we were excited ... (3:10)

How can I achieve work/life balance? When I'm at work I feel like I'm cheating my family. When I'm home ... (2:49)

My co-worker and I have very different personalities. Do you have any suggestions on how we can work together peacefully? (2:40)

I have just started reading your book "How People Grow." I have had chronic issues with career and employment. What ... (2:12)

I'm afraid to speak in public, but my new job involves presentations to potential clients. How can I overcome this ... (2:40)

Sometimes when I am in front of a group of people I will start to blush, and I get very ... (1:35)

I am a female college student working towards my degree in psychology. What positive traits or behaviors do you find ... (2:03)

How can I learn not to demand too much from myself and be realistic about my abilities? (3:09)

My husband is the Pastor at the small church we planted four years ago. I have been the 'volunteer' secretary ... (2:03)

How do I set boundaries at work when everyone else works twelve-hour days? (2:25)

How do you work with a co-worker, when you know she tried to get you fired? (2:50)

I am terrible at job interviews. In fact, I'll stay in a miserable job just so I don't ever have ... (2:55)

I work with someone who often will take credit for work I did during our staff meetings. What is the ... (2:05)

I'm 23 years old. I have doubts that my current career is right for me. I feel an urgency to ... (2:26)

Do you have any advice on how to find my true career or purpose? Are there steps or helps? (3:14)

I was involved in a business venture and gave it all that I had. I struggled with it for 15 ... (2:06)

I'm in my late twenties and I've been through four jobs already. Why is it so hard to commit to ... (2:50)

I am a middle-aged man with a comfortable and secure job, but I don't like what I am doing and ... (2:30)

You said in one of your videos that passion doesn't have to be connected with your job but what if ... (4:54)

I work in a very creative environment - the product we create is all about entertainment and creativity. I ... (4:14)

How far can I stretch the truth in a resume? They're obviously marketing devices and it seems understood they should ... (1:55)

Could you talk about people's need for significance in our lives? (4:15)

I am a male pastor and my ministry assistant is female. Our work requires us to spend a great deal ... (4:59)

I have a co-worker who flirts with me even though she knows I am married. How can I set ... (1:20)

Is it common for someone to intentionally fail at something to get someone to step up and take over for ... (2:57)

I get discouraged when I set personal goals and fail. How can I deal with failure? (2:25)

How do I build up my personality? (2:41)

I have tried to set goals to lose weight and get in shape a million times, but I can't follow ... (1:43)

I'm up for a promotion. It would mean working longer hours and sacrificing time with my family. But it would ... (1:53)

Would you relate how you decided to go into the psychology field and what struggles you encountered to get through ... (2:11)

I am a Christian, starting a new business. I would like to use the word "Christian" in the name of ... (2:52)

I have a lot of financial fears. I work in ministry and while I love what I do, I hate ... (3:40)

I procrastinate on really important things and often don't even do them. Like filing my insurance and getting reimbursed, ... (5:18)

I am a science student but think I'd like to try banking. Those two things don't seem at all similar ... (1:02)

I'm in a job I love but working for people I don't love, actually I have learned to resent because ... (4:06)

I was offered two jobs. One was secure but boring and the other one was risky. I loved the little ... (4:25)

I work with someone who is not a team player and always looking out for his own good and not ... (5:06)

How important is setting goals? I try to set goals, but I fail at so many of them that I ... (2:43)

My boss is more concerned with results than his employees. It really bothers me. What should I do? (3:49)

I am in a leadership position at work. My style is to acknowledge that everyone has flaws, starting with me; ... (2:38)

What are the most important elements of successful goal setting? (3:19)

How can character maturity help build a successful large business? (2:04)

I am frustrated at work. I was not given any training, yet my superiors are unhappy with my performance. What ... (3:25)

I am currently working nights and have been trying to advance to a day shift job. When I go into ... (1:56)

My boss gave me a bad review and I'm very upset. I am sure it's personal because my work is ... (2:22)

I am in a leadership position in my company. Can I be friends with people who report to me? Sometimes ... (2:03)

I get called Patton at work a lot. I guess I have a tough, direct leadership style. I ... (1:39)

I lead a pretty large team and I'm always looking for the next leader as our company grows. How do ... (1:11)

Why is it that the "big picture" people you talk about want all the control but none of the responsibility? ... (1:53)

I have great passion to lead people. However, whenever I try it, I feel unconfident, weak, or incompetent. How can ... (2:29)

Does a small amount of ego ever serve a person? Where do you draw the line between confidence and conceit? (3:10)

When I get together with a group of people, I have a desire to lead and end up trying to ... (2:09)

What are the hallmarks of a natural leader in a workplace? I'm on the lookout for them as our company ... (1:37)

My friends say I am burnt out and not well. What should I do? How do you know if you're ... (2:53)

In the workplace or at church as a boss and leader, how do I stop the ... (2:00)

How can I become a better leader? (2:01)

I work with a young woman who comes to me about her marriage problems. She tells me that her husband ... (1:52)

How do I delegate? It takes longer to show someone how to do something (and do it right) than to ... (2:00)

I want to be the best leader I can be. What are some tools or tips to develop my leadership ... (1:56)

What are signs that an employee is burning out? We are pushing people very hard right now and I want ... (1:19)

How do you fire someone in a way that's sensitive and yet final? This is the worst part of my ... (2:36)

I am a church staff member having an issue supervising a young, new part-time employee. I came up with a ... (1:54)

I work with someone who is comfortable with little white lies if it gets them ahead. These lies ... (2:31)

What are the qualities of successful leaders? (1:25)

How do you release someone in Ministry? (1:09)

How can we retain people and keep them energized when we don't have the money to give raises? What are ... (2:01)

As a leader in a mid-sized company my job is to do what I can to alleviate, avoid or sometimes ... (3:01)

I make decisions all day long as a major part of my job. When I'm done with work I feel ... (1:51)

How do I solve conflicts with people I am leading? (1:52)

I was just promoted at work and I now manage the very people who used to be my co-workers. Most ... (1:43)

What are the elements necessary to have a great team environment within a company? (2:31)

I manage human resources for a small company. What are some things I can do to develop and maintain employee ... (2:00)

What's the best way to deal with underachieving or problem employees? We don't have the time or resources for weak ... (3:14)

I lead a team of workaholics! They are so committed to the company, to our leaders, to each other and ... (2:21)

I would like to promote a very talented young woman in my company. She's never been in a management position, ... (1:25)

How can I evaluate my leadership strengths and weaknesses? (2:02)

My spouse has made up their mind that they want to leave me. What can I do? (2:37)

What do you do if your spouse refuses to discuss things that you disagree about? (2:14)

I was sexually abused by my older brother's friend when I was a little girl and now years later I ... (2:46)

Should I separate from my husband because he hit me one time? My friends say so but my mom says ... (2:15)

How can you help a spouse recognize their addictive behavior? (1:55)

I've been married for 9 months. I'm starting to feel smothered and I'm wondering if I made a big mistake. ... (5:05)

My husband and I disagree on a very important subject, adoption. We are having a hard time having children ... (3:56)

My therapist says I need to stop trying so hard to please my husband, and to take care of myself ... (3:33)

How do I assess my spouse's needs without her thinking she is a clinical case study? (3:13)

My husband is 34 yrs old and is involved in a relationship with a 50 yr old woman. I feel ... (2:22)

I discovered my husband has been "talking" to another woman for the past 3 months. Initially he denied everything. ... (2:39)

My husband had an affair a year ago. I never told our children or family members. We are trying to ... (1:48)

After 19 years of marriage and at the age of 46, I've determined I'm a sex addict. I have been ... (2:44)

We've been married for less than a year and we fight a lot. We never fought when we were dating ... (3:54)

My husband of fifteen months has a habit of speaking to me harshly, with ridicule or sarcasm. If I tell ... (5:00)

Alcoholism runs in my husband's family. I am starting to see the traits develop in my husband. He is in ... (1:55)

What if your spouse is not as invested in the relationship as you are? What do you do? (3:35)

My husband debates and debates and debates. Even if he agrees with what I say he'll take the opposite tack ... (1:27)

When riding in the car with my husband, I seem to HAVE to tell him how to drive. This ... (2:30)

What would you suggest when a partner has noisy eating habits that are annoying to the other? How can I ... (2:33)

My marriage problems are causing me anxiety and panic attacks. I don't want to tell my family because I ... (2:24)

When my husband and I are in a disagreement how do we get to the crux of the real issues? ... (3:22)

Three days after I got a new truck, my husband wrecked it. I told him it was ok, accidents happen ... (3:40)

For a woman to feel sexually attractive, does the atmosphere have to be just right? My wife insists on the ... (1:35)

Is it important to be physically attracted to your wife? We have been married for 15 years and have 3 ... (2:37)

My wife and I seem to get into disagreement about finances a lot: how to budget money, what we should ... (2:23)

I have been married for 31 years. One problem my husband and I have had from the beginning is that ... (2:26)

My husband has a gambling addiction and has essentially bankrupted the family. Otherwise he is a kind and good man. ... (2:20)

I cheated 20 yrs ago and had 2 one-night stands before I married my husband. We were not Christians and ... (2:08)

My wife is bipolar and her medication is only partially helpful. Because of this we don't get invited many places ... (1:16)

My husband is leaving me for a younger woman. My children and I are devastated. How can I keep from ... (3:35)

My husband will not attend our young children's sporting events. He says he is bored there. I am so embarrassed ... (2:49)

We've been married for over 20 years and our marriage seems to be in one long rut that we cannot ... (3:24)

How do I protect my boundaries when my husband does not follow doctor's orders and continues a lifestyle of nightly ... (3:56)

There is a young man I know who is a compulsive gambler. He plays poker online any chance he gets. ... (1:35)

What can I do when my spouse doesn't want anything to change? She isn't abusive, but she's not allowing me ... (2:05)

When my husband and I were first married we agreed that children were not for us, and they never would ... (2:32)

What do I do when my husband repeatedly says he wants to leave me but never does? I'm tempted to ... (1:42)

I am recovering from porn addiction. My wife moved out and wants a divorce. She refuses to seek marriage counseling. ... (3:28)

My husband had a 5 month affair, and is not repentant, but he wants to live at home. He says ... (2:12)

I think my husband might be having an affair. How should I approach him? How can I find out if ... (2:29)

I think my wife is having an affair with one of my friends. Should I confront her? Should ... (1:45)

I'm in my mid- 20's, finished with college, and engaged. My fiance and I are paying for the wedding, but ... (1:25)

What is the best way to handle our wedding plans when we (the bride and groom) attend one church and ... (2:01)

My husband is a pastor and puts his ministry above our family and we feel neglected. What should we do? (2:24)

My wife is a nurse and her housekeeping standards are very high. I'm not a slob but I don't feel ... (2:27)

I am a 37 yr. old never married male who grew up in the Church of Christ. Should I ... (2:22)

Should I be concerned that the woman I have been with for 17 years runs from our problems and confides ... (2:43)

My spouse and I are committed to each other, but we just don't feel in love anymore. How do we ... (2:29)

My husband has been physically abusing me for years. Counseling helps for a while, but his rage always comes back. ... (4:58)

My husband has been thinking about a woman he had a sexual relationship with, when we were apart for 3 ... (2:30)

My husband offers to help with the kids or help with the housework. This drives me ... (1:59)

I've heard that most marital fights are about money, sex or kids. Isn't all of this ultimately about control? What's ... (1:28)

Is there a way to get my wife to stop talking about all her exes? She's a faithful wife but ... (1:32)

I'm 23 and everyone thinks I should be married. I'm not even thinking about marriage yet. Is there something wrong ... (1:47)

Two years after we moved to another state my husband asked for a divorce. We have two young children. Because ... (2:44)

I have a friend whose wife just left him. He found a room full of romantic novels with strong sexual ... (1:42)

My husband started a new job where he needs to travel to another city for training with his female co-worker. ... (2:48)

My wife is mentally ill and not able to take care of herself by any standard. She is more like ... (1:34)

My husband admits that he gets admiration from talking to other women. Is this an "affair" on his part? What ... (3:08)

My wife uses a condescending tone of voice to me, even though her words are neutral. How can I make ... (2:47)

I had an affair that led to the end of an abusive marriage. We ended up getting married and have ... (2:56)

My fiance and I have almost graduated from college. I would like to join the armed services after we get ... (3:53)

My husband's mother told him years ago that she had wanted to have an abortion when she found out she ... (2:10)

My husband moved in with another woman. We own a house together and have a business and work together every ... (2:42)

My husband and I have struggled for 18 years with issues relating to his drinking and sexual demands. My counselor ... (2:34)

I keep telling my wife that I just want her to listen to me but she always either interrupts me ... (1:49)

When my husband corrects me, I feel criticized. I feel he is parenting me, rather than telling me his thoughts ... (2:23)

There has been a pattern of betrayal, internet pornography, repeated lying and deception in my marriage. I have worked on ... (2:08)

If one marriage partner feels that the couple needs counseling to maintain the health of the marriage, what valid reasons ... (2:11)

What can a wife do when the husband is fearful of emotions and refuses to see someone to discuss the ... (3:10)

A friend's husband is a pastor. He has told her he wants a divorce. He moved into the basement and ... (2:21)

My husband criticizes me in public. What can I do to make him stop? (4:40)

My husband makes major purchases without even consulting me! I also work full-time and we barely have enough left at ... (2:48)

I have been married for 12 years and discovered my husband is a compulsive liar. This has killed the love ... (3:22)

I am a married man in love with another woman. My wife hurts my self-esteem and is not supportive. Do ... (3:07)

My husband is eighteen years older than me and it's really starting to be a problem, now that he's in ... (2:06)

How can I help my wife deal with post-partum depression? (2:17)

My husband cannot control money but is unwilling to let me take care of our finances. We've had overdrafts, utilities ... (1:55)

My wife divorced me after 43 years because I would not join her church. I do go to church but ... (1:48)

How do you call it quits? We have been married 4 years and my husband has a LOW/no sex drive. ... (3:24)

My husband left our home about 2 months ago. He called and said he wants a divorce and he does ... (2:13)

My husband refuses to talk to me and says that he doesn't want to commit to working on our relationship ... (2:50)

I have been divorced and remarried for 15 years with 2 children from the previous marriage and 2 with my ... (2:03)

Will God be unhappy with me if I divorce my husband of 25 years? He is unfaithful and emotionally unavailable. (2:38)

I am in the midst of a divorce that I did not want. My spouse wants his freedom whatever that ... (3:31)

How do you know when to keep working on a marriage and when to seek a divorce? (1:24)

I am about to get married but I'm beginning to have doubts. I broke up with my high school sweetheart ... (4:02)

My husband coached our son's football team for all of his Pop Warner years. Now our son is in high ... (2:56)

I have been married for 12 years to a great guy and we have beautiful children. I recently saw an ... (1:17)

How do I set boundaries after a divorce from a 38-year marriage? My husband doesn't want to be married, and ... (1:07)

My husband will not go to church with me. I get so sad when I see other couples in ... (4:37)

I am struggling with letting go of an unhealthy marriage, we have been separated for a year, and the divorce ... (1:35)

My ex-husband and I divorced by a mutual decision. We both felt that we married without really knowing who the ... (3:20)

My husband accepted a job in another state. I am not happy about this because he thinks I am too ... (2:20)

I've been married for almost 10 years, and I sometimes find myself thinking about my college girlfriend and wondering if ... (1:42)

I have had an emotional affair. My husband was never there for me even though I pleaded for many years. ... (3:10)

My husband and I have issues with fighting and going over the same things continually. He constantly tracks my whereabouts, ... (4:54)

How should the subject of finances in a second marriage be approached? My husband does not tell me about the ... (1:23)

My friend has a full time job outside the home and so does her husband. They have chosen to ... (1:37)

My husband was laid off and it's too late for him to start over. he's depressed. I'm depressed. How can ... (3:08)

My wife & I are obtaining a second mortgage on our house to pay off bills. She has been taking ... (2:10)

Why don't I want my ex-husband to get remarried? I certainly don't want to be married to him, but I've ... (3:59)

My wife flirts with other men. It makes me jealous and it hurts. What should I do? (3:33)

Does forgiveness require an admission of wrong doing? In other words, if we believe that someone has wronged us, are ... (1:31)

I had an affair in my past and it is now over. I have come to terms with it myself, ... (2:08)

How do you forgive an unfaithful spouse? (2:23)

When we go out for dinner my wife asks me to make the decisions on where to go and what ... (3:25)

My husband gambled away all of our money. He is getting psychological help through his employee assistance group, but I ... (6:38)

How do I handle the fact that my husband likes to leave my side at functions to chat with other ... (1:47)

Is emotional intimacy outside of marriage equivalent to adultery? (1:57)

I've been married for 35 years and there is absolutely no communication, and a passive resistance to the whole idea ... (4:45)

How do a wife and husband make a life plan that will consider both of their individual goals? (2:09)

My husband of 62 years passed away last year. There is nothing left to look forward to, but people are ... (4:45)

My father passed away a couple years ago. My mother is still going through stages of grief and having ... (1:49)

My husband and I are getting a divorce after 30 yrs of marriage. After extensive marriage counseling, he still is ... (5:13)

It's only been 2 months since I gave birth. My husband left me 2 months before I gave birth due ... (2:04)

I feel like there is a roadblock to the spiritual intimacy between my husband and I. He does not want ... (2:37)

My husband is extremely overweight and in poor health. He WON'T do anything to improve his health. Any ... (2:51)

My husband and I were married for 12 years. He now says he never loved me and that he married ... (1:54)

I have been married to a man for 24 years who has been described as a narcissist and a loner ... (4:05)

My wife is verbally abusive to me when she has PMS. I know it's the hormones, but she seems to ... (3:41)

My husband is addicted to internet porn and masturbation. He is seeking help from therapy, but I feel so much ... (2:09)

My husband has always looked at other women. Is this a normal thing for a man to do? (3:02)

My husband constantly tells me it is none of my business when I ask him about specific issues that affect ... (3:03)

My wife and her mother are inseparable. I feel like I don't get the full person or a real marriage, ... (3:15)

Before I was married I had multiple sexual relationships, but my spouse did not. When we're intimate, I still have ... (3:17)

I am separated from my non-believer wife and she wants a divorce. However she wants me to file for it. ... (1:22)

My fiance is Jewish, and I am a Christian. What is the best way for me to get through ... (1:35)

I'm at a loss as to how to comfort my husband who is worried sick about his employment/employer as he ... (4:37)

Should I tell my wife that another woman made a pass at me? (1:11)

In a marriage when one partner has already left emotionally, what path should the other take? (1:40)

Is it wrong to set the final limit and leave my Christian alcoholic husband, who, having relapsed 2+ years ago ... (2:22)

Soon after my child was born my wife changed dramatically. She has put my child ahead of our marriage for ... (3:35)

Is it wrong for 1st cousins to marry even if they don't have children together? (1:06)

My husband is not a believer and is one of the most negative people I know. He's disabled, watches TV ... (2:46)

I feel so lonely. My husband never kisses me, hugs me, or holds my hand. What should I do? (1:56)

How do I talk to my wife about something wrong that I've done when what I have to say is ... (2:20)

I find myself looking more and more at other women. I've never had an affair but I do look. I ... (2:03)

Is it ever right to lie to your spouse? (1:49)

I think my wife cut her hair very short to spite me and I hate it. Am I wrong to ... (3:04)

I'm in aviation and my whole job is about being away. My wife knew about the demands of my schedule ... (5:27)

My husband moved out and filed for divorce after 4 1/2 months of marriage. He says he isn't breaking his ... (1:41)

How do you support a husband going through 'mid life crisis . (2:11)

How do you know when it's the right time in a marriage to start having kids? (2:06)

My husband and I fight about money all the time. I've heard that fights about money are actually about other ... (4:38)

I know I need to respect my husband, but he certainly blows it in business decisions and our personal finances. ... (2:28)

I'm in the military so we move around a lot. Now that we have a family (6 month old, 3 ... (2:57)

Should women seek to meet some of their emotional needs outside of marriage? My wife insists that she needs a ... (2:40)

I think my husband is watching pornography on the internet. What should I do? How should I confront him? (2:56)

I feel very offended when my husband watches a movie with a nude woman. To me, it is like he ... (1:27)

My wife filed for divorce a few months ago. She is now hinting at getting back together, but I don't ... (3:14)

How can I reconcile with my wife if she has no desire to be married or reconcile? (2:35)

Should you tell your husband everything? (2:19)

I'm an optimist I can't help it. This irritates my wife to no end. I can empathize only ... (1:57)

My husband of 20 years is verbally abusive. He flirts and humiliates me in public. What can I do? (2:24)

Should I tell my fiance that I had an abortion when I was younger? It was years before I ... (2:08)

I struggle with my spouse. He is very severe with me and is constantly trying to prove his superiority. Please ... (1:30)

I caught my husband watching pornography when I was asleep next to him. He said that he would not do ... (2:28)

My wife and I have a low sex marriage. I have no desire for my wife but want to do ... (5:25)

My husband and I have been dealing with his addiction to pornography for about 12 years. He feels like it ... (2:26)

My husband's mother is super-emotional and given to anger when she is crossed. My husband feels like he has it ... (4:46)

What do you do when a couple is trying to communicate to resolve a hurt or disagreement and they don't ... (3:17)

I was married for eight years to a man who physically, emotionally and sexually abused me. He finally asked me ... (1:40)

How do you deal with a husband that I believe has paranoid personality disorder or severe depression? He refuses to ... (2:21)

I am afraid of my husband. He has been raging and verbally abusive throughout our 15 years of marriage. What ... (3:33)

My husband left the family and caused tremendous pain to me, our grown children and friends. Now he wants to ... (3:01)

What is the best way to find a good marriage counselor? (2:20)

I am newly married and my husband is SO easygoing it drives me nuts. The answer to just about every ... (3:44)

My wife and I are getting divorced. I cannot see my two lovely daughters right now due to allegations that ... (1:48)

My husband and I have been separated for five months. We have three children under the age of 5. He ... (2:09)

I am a married woman (31 years) who gave my heart to another man 12 years ago. My out-of-marriage partner ... (1:08)

I think my wife is irrationally jealous of everyone I know; family, friends, coworkers, even our grandchildren. What are the ... (2:08)

When one person in a marriage clams up and won't talk during a disagreement, how can you resolve it in ... (1:36)

My husband as been having an affair for the last year and is now living with the woman. If he ... (2:34)

I was married for 34 years to a "Christian" school principal who abused me and was a sex addict. I ... (1:42)

We have been married for 10 years and we don't have a very good sex life. What do you recommend ... (2:57)

My husband of 12 years shoved me after a confrontation about getting help for anger management. He is also verbally ... (2:04)

Can I have a fulfilling sexual relationship when I get married if I've never had premarital sex? (1:48)

What can be done when one of the partners in a marriage is selfish and does not give in to ... (3:24)

I am in a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage, should I divorce? (2:52)

Is it okay for a married couple to go to different churches, if they are both committed to them? (1:58)

My wife and I are separated but working toward getting back together. My wife is afraid of the reaction she ... (2:37)

My spouse and I are legally separated but are trying to work things out. Is it alright for us to ... (1:02)

Do married couples have to become more distant over time? Shouldn't the opposite be true? (2:08)

My husband is a sex addict and is undergoing therapy and accountability. He lied to me about being sober ... (1:36)

My husband and I are separated because he is a sex addict. I gave him a deadline to complete some ... (1:48)

My husband withholds affection from simple things to sex. Last year we went 11 months without sex. Normally its 3x ... (3:01)

I counsel a Christian couple that has been married more than 15 years. They have had an active sex life ... (1:43)

My husband and I struggle with our sex life. I adore him but don't have a fraction of the sexual ... (3:23)

My husband wants to be intimate and have sex more often than I do. The stress of it is making ... (2:37)

My wife is not interested in any physical intimacy whatsoever. We're only in our forties and I've always been a ... (2:47)

I recently gave birth and my husband and I have not yet been sexually intimate in many months. What should ... (2:58)

When my spouse and I have sex, it's over before I know it. What can we do to prolong the ... (1:36)

My husband was sexually abused as a child and has told no one but me and refuses to go to ... (2:14)

We have been married for a number of years and our sex life is very routine. How can we spice ... (2:02)

What should I do when my spouse is upset and wont speak to me? (2:52)

What do you do when your wife is obviously upset and you ask her "What's wrong?" and she says, "nothing?" (2:31)

I love my husband but I can't get any sleep he kicks the covers, thrashes around and snores ... (1:46)

My best friend is marrying a man and I think it's a huge mistake. They don't seem happy to ... (2:04)

How do I live with the wrong mate choice? (2:35)

What are some ways to put the fire back into a marriage? We have reached the bifocals stage. (3:03)

My husband and I are separated and he is still very involved with our children and house maintenance. However, he ... (2:14)

I married a wonderful man who has two children by a previous marriage. His former wife had serious psychiatric issues ... (2:20)

My husband and I both have low sex drives and do not have sex often. He is overweight and feels ... (2:07)

My husband is in the Marines and in his second tour of duty in Iraq. I am so against this ... (2:12)

I'm pregnant and I would not like to know the sex of the baby, however, my husband would like to ... (3:23)

My husband and I used to fight like crazy. We always ended up saying things one or both of us ... (1:38)

I am married to a man that thinks it's the husband's role to take care of the finances. I would ... (3:27)

The only reason we are staying together is because our children are still in middle and high school. Is that ... (2:11)

I cheated on my wife three years ago. I've repented and I feel terrible and don't want to hurt her. ... (2:00)

After the birth of our child, my wife started displaying obsessive behavior with a lot of cleanliness issues and a ... (3:03)

Is there really such a thing as the "seven year itch?" We have been married for about seven years and ... (2:05)

How does a relationship work if the couple doesn't have the same interests? For example, one person is a homebody ... (2:53)

My wife stopped touching me years ago. Am I to continue showing physical affection to her even though I feel ... (2:41)

My husband lost his job over ten years ago and it is affecting our marriage. He is depressed, not ... (4:00)

My husband is a professed Christian who is an alcoholic. Is it wrong for me, a committed Christian, to withhold ... (1:21)

How can I develop trust in my new marriage after there was adultery in my past marriage? (1:42)

I asked my husband to move out because he went to a bachelor party and I don't trust him when ... (2:56)

My husband committed a crime and I'm the only one who knows about it. I think he should turn ... (2:54)

Is it a problem if one person in a marriage is a brand new Christian and the other has walked ... (1:47)

My wife had an affair and it didn't last - she wants to move back home. I'm afraid that she ... (2:45)

How can one forgive and forget about an unfaithful partner? Is it possible for true love to continue afterwards? (1:53)

I am so unhappy in my marriage. Should I stick it out any longer? (4:02)

I serve in the military and have my MBA as well. My wife thinks we would have a lot more ... (5:27)

What are the danger signs that a marriage is in trouble? (6:05)

My fiance and I are currently planning a wedding. We met with the pastor and he had opinions about ... (2:18)

My wife is very controlling and critical. She puts me down in public every time she has a chance. I'm ... (4:33)

What are some practical steps a husband can take to become more sensitive to his wife? (3:17)

My husband is always working and doesn't seem to want to be at home with me. If I say I ... (3:16)

I recently just ended a four year affair. I got divorced 7 months ago but have recently moved back in ... (2:12)

What is the best thing to do when you feel you are the only one working at the relationship? (2:21)

My husband wants me to go back to work. We have grown children and we have enough money, so finances ... (3:20)

My 18 year old son wants to get a tattoo. What should I do? (2:01)

Our 6 yr old daughter started pulling out her eyebrows and eye lashes in August when she realized first grade ... (2:00)

What is your opinion about putting a television in a 10 year old child's room? This concerns me but my ... (2:01)

My teenager seems to be depressed lately and I'm concerned. As a child he was so happy-go-lucky, but now he ... (3:30)

I think I might be about a month pregnant. I need to know what I can do to end this ... (1:52)

My son doesn't stick with anything. He has transferred colleges 3 times and never kept a job for an entire ... (4:59)

Help! My just turned 3 yr old son has zero interest in potty training. We've purchased all the ... (1:05)

I am a single mother of 3 boys. I work full time and have gone back to school in order ... (1:50)

When I am with my son (age 30) I feel like I'm in the vicinity of a black hole. ... (3:22)

We have a teenage daughter, who just turned 17. She has sex with boyfriend. What kind of plan should be ... (2:27)

We want to adopt a child but are afraid that the biological parents could have serious issues that the child ... (1:26)

I am a parent of three children. A year ago my wife and I felt like God was calling us ... (5:54)

My daughter is 15 and pregnant. She wants to put the baby up for adoption. I am worried ... (1:18)

I gave my first baby up for adoption ten years ago when I was 21 and now I am consumed ... (2:00)

People often ask personal questions about our 3-year-old adopted daughter who is obviously of a different race than my husband ... (1:34)

Practically speaking, how do you financially separate from your kids? What should our goal be now that our children are ... (2:03)

I'm a divorced, single parent with a 16 year old daughter. I've tried to set standards for her dating, but ... (1:57)

My daughter is in a relationship with a man who has had two wives already. She is going to move ... (2:41)

My son is reaching for the stars. He is sixteen and very creative and bright, and has ADD. He ... (4:19)

My younger of two boys, a preteen, has anger issues. How can I help him to articulate his feeling through ... (2:01)

I know it's not right but sometimes when my kids do something wrong, I get REALLY upset. I never hit ... (1:07)

I believe my daughter has an eating disorder. Every time I try to bring this up, she denies it. ... (1:29)

My eleven year old daughter is concerned about her weight already. How do I help her with her self image? (2:38)

I think my teenage daughter is bulimic. I ask her if she's okay and she says yes, but I sense ... (2:42)

I hear anorexia is about control. I want my daughters to eat but I am afraid of making food a ... (1:42)

Our 16 yr old daughter is very passive when it comes to relationships. Any suggestions? Is it appropriate at ... (2:48)

My eighteen year old, introverted daughter was an Ugly Duckling and is now a knock-out swan. The problem is that ... (2:44)

I know a couple who fights in front of their children. How can I help them see the damage they ... (2:57)

I often argue with my husband in front of the children. I am trying to stop. How will this ... (2:04)

How do you feel about working moms? (3:28)

How do you have balance with two parents and three children where one child is autistic? (2:02)

Our son is autistic. he's reached puberty and is physically too much to handle. My wife won't consider putting him ... (1:34)

How can I help my son develop a healthy self-image? He's very awkward. (2:31)

We need some advice. We have a 7 year old daughter who is more than a typical challenge. She is ... (2:14)

What are your thoughts on children sleeping in the same bed as their parents? (1:42)

Recently my eight year old hit his head and was crying. When I tried to console him he stomped ... (3:06)

How do you handle a 6 year old only child who is VERY social and always wants a friend or ... (4:19)

How do I you teach my 6 1/2 year old to express his frustration/anger in a healthy way? He tends ... (4:38)

I was raised "Christian" but now consider myself "Wicca." My parents are not happy. I'm still in school and ... (5:41)

My 25 year-old daughter is bipolar. She is on medication and has a counselor, but I still worry about her ... (3:00)

I took my 15-year old daughter to the doctor and the doctor mentioned the new immunization for HPV. I feel ... (2:07)

I have a grown son that is extremely rebellious and disrespectful towards me and I have had to bar him ... (2:04)

My wife and I have realized there are many areas in which we have failed to set boundaries with our ... (3:53)

How can I help my stepchildren establish boundaries with their unstable father? (3:02)

My daughter is being harassed at school by a girl bully, who is jealous of her boyfriend. My daughter ... (1:38)

My son was very athletic. A few years ago he was paralyzed in a car accident. He thinks his life ... (3:49)

A mother of a classmate of my daughter wants to arrange a play date for our daughters. I don't like ... (1:58)

I have a new baby and while I'm in love with our little son I don't much like this mothering ... (2:13)

My nine year old daughter has wild mood swings. She is bubbly and hyper one minute and angry and crying ... (3:00)

I am a single woman in my late thirties. I would like to be a mother but I am not ... (1:37)

Do you think that so many children get socialized so early in a daycare setting that I should send my ... (1:09)

My son married young against our wishes. My husband now won't offer his support to them. He says he is ... (2:56)

My son is a freshmen in college three hours away from home. He is a good kid, and he comes ... (1:49)

My daughter is 19 and she lives at home. She goes to school full time and works full time. Our ... (1:29)

What is the best way to help my 13 year old daughter face the difficulties with other teenage girls? The ... (2:25)

My parents have an unusually close relationship. They love each other and do everything together. Now that I'm an adult ... (1:37)

I feel like my 13 year old daughter dresses too racy, but when I confront her about the tank tops ... (1:41)

My ex-husband is subtly turning my kids against me and my rules, teaching them rebellion and defiance. How do I ... (2:12)

What are your thoughts on co-ed college dorms? (1:25)

Do you have an opinion whether graduating high school students should take time off from school if they don't know ... (1:50)

My college-age son has no interest in attending church. What can I do to get him involved? (2:52)

We have never been close to my husband's parents because they smoke constantly and we don't enjoy being around it. ... (1:41)

I notice some women seem to compete socially with their daughters. What is this about? (4:41)

I made a lot of mistakes raising my kids. I am a changed person now and have apologized to my ... (3:21)

I have an eight-year old child who is a compulsive liar. I can't even have a normal conversation with her ... (2:05)

How can I get my teenagers to understand the long-term effects of their actions and decisions now? My teenagers are ... (3:55)

How do you discipline teenagers? Everything I try either creates big drama or out-and-out defiance. (2:41)

My son is developing some behaviors that are concerning me. He is a germ freak and must have everyone wash ... (1:53)

How should I discipline my child when she misbehaves in public? (1:36)

My granddaughter is 3 yrs old. For about a year she had been stealing food. She will get up at ... (3:24)

My daughter was diagnosed with ADHD many years ago. We explored all the non-medication routes but nothing worked for her. ... (1:52)

As the parent of 3 teenagers, I am discouraged how devious and secretive my teenagers are. They tell me that ... (3:33)

How as a parent do you realize that you are pushing your children too hard as opposed to encouraging your ... (3:57)

My son finds it hard to abide by our curfew boundaries. We are not able to reach him as his ... (1:48)

I am divorced. When my teenage daughter is staying with her dad, my ex-husband lets her boyfriend sleep over. I ... (4:19)

My 19 year old daughter just moved out of the house. Her living arrangements will be ideal, so there is ... (2:21)

What is a good age for a daughter/son to start dating? (2:12)

What are the basic rules parents should have and enforce when their children reach dating age? (1:53)

Should dating rules be the same for a son and a daughter? (1:54)

How do you help a teenager who continues to choose to date girls with low self esteem? (4:12)

How do I tell or stop my son (17) from dating a non-Christian? This is his first dating experience. (1:16)

My father can't accept love from anyone, not even his grown children. I just found out that he has broken ... (3:19)

My daughter is so bossy with her little brother. I've noticed lately that he seems to depend on her ... (2:01)

I am a stay at home mom with a 1 yr old and a 2 1/2 yr old. The 2 ... (1:44)

My 16 year old son is into heavy metal music and I cannot stand it. I asked him to please ... (2:25)

I'm looking forward to the empty nest. My friends are all distressed at the thought of their children flying the ... (2:17)

My 4 1/2 year-old son hurt one of his fingers. The nail has re-grown but there is a permanent black ... (1:35)

We had a group of people over to our home. There was a kid that was misbehaving in an inappropriate ... (2:29)

I have a question. In the process of "tolerating and enduring our child's hatred of our boundaries... what ... (2:57)

My husband is not a strong disciplinarian and always comes out looking like the good guy with the children. How ... (4:57)

When parents have different discipline techniques, how do you resolve that? (1:49)

My son is a three-year old handful. We know he can get out of hand but we don't like it ... (2:25)

What is the best response to give my 13 year old son when he acts and speaks disrespectfully to me? (4:01)

What are your thoughts on "time out" as a disciplinary tool? (2:10)

How can I remain a presence in the lives of long distance children and grandchildren? (2:15)

I have a 16-yr old son with mental health problems. He hears voices telling him to do things. He is ... (2:17)

We are a Christian family and my son sometimes uses bad language and is disrespectful. What should we do? (1:29)

I'm a single, divorced mother of 4 children. My ex-husbands are not paying their court-ordered child support. Some months I ... (2:11)

How do I talk to my young children about their alcoholic grandfather? I want them to love him but I ... (2:43)

My daughter is dating a boy I do not trust. I hear he is wild and drinks a lot. How ... (2:11)

I told my kids a long time ago that if I ever caught them with drugs I would personally call ... (3:41)

When I cleaned my teenager's room I found marijuana. How should I confront them now that I know they are ... (3:11)

What do you say to a child after they have suddenly lost a pet that was hit by a car? (3:47)

How can I help my 15 year old daughter have a more positive outlook on life? Everything is boring ... (2:30)

How, as a mom, to address my son's feeling that he doesn't have a role model in his father? (1:44)

My stepson is belligerent and lazy. He is eighteen and lives with us. I want to like him but ... (2:34)

My 18-year-old son got involved in skydiving. He fractured his neck in football and broke his pelvis snowboarding. I have ... (1:37)

I'm a divorced mother of two daughters, ages 10 and 13. I've been divorced for 5 years and haven't even ... (3:21)

Our daughter is about to begin her senior year in high school. She has more and more activities all the ... (2:59)

My husband relentlessly teases our children (grabbing, tickling, remarks). They ask him to stop and he ignores them. It ... (1:58)

My 21 year old daughter is depressed, overweight and talking about quitting college to live at home and take correspondence ... (2:04)

I've been trying to get pregnant for 8 months but am not yet. I am pretty down about it. Can ... (1:50)

Do kids ever grow out of sibling rivalry? Is there hope for my grown children? (3:01)

Our 22 yr old daughter opened up several charge accounts and was in debt over $7,000. We had no idea ... (2:42)

What are some of the signs that a young adult (late teens) is mature enough to leave home and be ... (2:15)

I don't want to breastfeed my daughter but I'll feel like a bad mother if I quit. My husband, my ... (2:27)

I was a foster parent for 18 years. Now this child has turned away from me and wants to live ... (2:31)

Are there benchmarks to know when a college-aged kid is ready for full independence? My child seems like a fourth ... (2:21)

I have an overweight teenage daughter, who doesn't seem concerned about losing weight. What can I do besides scream and ... (1:55)

Like a lot of our friends, our 20-something son moved back home while he "figures out what he wants to ... (2:30)

I grew up in an all-male household and now I have three daughters. How can I be a good father ... (2:55)

My son is constantly listening to gangsta' rap. He seems infatuated with the so called "gangsta' lifestyle. It creeps me ... (2:55)

My teenage daughter has started to rebel by drinking and partying and is starting to hang out with friends who ... (3:43)

With many couples living away from their nuclear families, what are the support systems we can look for? (2:02)

We had two sons. One of them died in a skiing accident two years ago. Our younger son really struggled ... (4:15)

My nine year old son has cancer. I don't know how to handle this, or how to prepare him and ... (4:43)

My son is in process of getting divorce. I oppose divorce, he knows it, and I tried to counsel him. ... (1:32)

My 9 year old daughter wants to ride her bike the 3 blocks to school each day. The route is ... (3:02)

At what age do children develop a conscience? When should we worry if our child shows no remorse or guilt? (3:56)

I feel like my mother depends on me for her happiness. She doesn't have a life apart from me, but ... (4:14)

What are the most common mistakes parents make with disciplining their children? (2:50)

We have a 27 yr. old son who suffers from severe depression. He lives on his own but has trouble ... (2:10)

If parents like the datee, how do they keep from putting too much pressure on their child if ... (1:53)

I really hate Christmas. I'm too tired, stressed and broke to do it again. My children are 18 and 15. ... (1:45)

Are some people just destined to be criminals? What causes a child from a perfectly good home to turn out ... (2:53)

My teenage son seems effeminate to me. Even as a child, he never wanted to do typical boy ... (1:43)

My son is gay. Should I try to make him change or accept him as he is? (2:54)

While talking about homosexuality, my 17 yr old son was told by his boss that the boss is gay and ... (1:10)

What are some good ways to help your child cope with life when they begin to find out that life ... (3:36)

Our son recently got married to a lovely girl. They got advice on "leaving and cleaving," but we feel like ... (2:27)

My son has been arrested. How do I show my face at church and keep from killing him? (4:26)

My daughter married a man against our wishes. We don't like him because in the past he admitted to having ... (1:03)

How do I deal with a teenager who usually makes the right choice, is very bright and is well grounded ... (2:16)