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The Importance of the Authentic Leader (5:25)

The Paradox of Authenticity (4:34)

An Authentic Leader Lives in Reality (6:41)

It is Better to Be Real than Be Positive (6:55)

Normalize Failure in Your Leadership Culture (5:35)

Qualities of the Authentic Leader (8:25)

Tips For Being An Authentic Leader (6:33)

Being Yourself Is More Attractive (5:16)

Games Are For People Without Lives (2:44)

Guys Need To Initiate (4:17)

Honestly Evaluate Yourself (3:03)

Sex Appeal Isn't About Sex (2:52)

Marriage Is Not For Desperate People (2:09)

How Friendships Can Turn Into More (2:15)

Obstacles In Dating (4:40)

Don't Be Afraid To Get Rejected In Dating (4:07)

The Three Things Needed to Succeed (5:29)

Learn to Meet the Demands of Reality (4:05)

Develop the Ability To Create and Maintain Trust (5:26)

Examples of Trust Building through Connecting (5:26)

Orient Yourself Toward the Truth (5:34)

Reality Is Always Your Friend (4:28)

Integrity Is About Producing Results (5:57)

Delayed Gratification Builds Character (3:52)

Embrace the Negative (6:59)

Be Able to Make the Hard Calls (2:04)

Create Growth in Your Life (7:37)

Learn How To Create Growth (1:06)

Adjust to Transcendent Realities (4:50)

Serve Values that Are Larger Than You (3:52)

The Last Word on Integrity (1:34)

Responsibility and Expectations in Finding Dates (6:46)

Why is Dating a Serious Choice (3:26)

Dating is Not Exclusively About Marriage (6:51)

Habits Affect Dating (6:44)

Excuses About Dating Are Not Always Accurate (5:14)

Do Something So Good Things Happen (5:50)

Biblically Deal with Problematic People (7:14)

A Healthy Leadership Immune System is Imperative (3:04)

Healthy Practices of Leaders (2:21)

A Wise Person Diagnosed (4:51)

A Foolish Person Diagnosed (2:52)

The Process of Dealing with a Fool (7:17)

Do Not Tolerate Evil People (4:07)

Our Past Fears Can Prevent Our Future Dreams (5:04)

Dreams Respond to Positive and Negative Voices (2:00)

The Fear of Failure Prevents our Dreams (2:29)

Don't Let Failure Deter Your Dreams (2:27)

Is Your Dream Based In Reality? (3:27)

Our Community Fosters Our Dreams (5:36)

God Is Crucial To the Outcome Of Our Dreams (3:21)

Obstacles Are Normal (6:14)

Traits of People Who Fail Poorly (4:33)

Trails Of People Who Fail Well (4:12)

You Are Not Alone In Your Failure (6:39)

Partner With God In Overcoming Failures (1:59)

Define Your Goals (2:01)

Be Concerned With God's Affirmation Not Others' (3:13)

Confront Your Personal Weakness (2:18)

Have Structure In Your Life (2:47)

A Successful Plan for Handling Failures and Obstacles (7:20)

Our Family Shapes Our Thinking (4:04)

Experiences Affect Our Responses and Alter Our Choices (5:26)

Childhood Development Affects Adult Perspective (4:38)

Families Give Resources That Affect Your Personality (2:37)

Humans Need Human Contact (5:32)

How Do You Receive Comfort? (3:08)

We Have a Need for Freedom (4:05)

The Need for Appropriate Structure (2:51)

Families Need To Encourage Forward Development (2:33)

The Problem With Religion (5:00)

Give Up Being Independent (3:34)

Give Up Perfection (2:16)

Pain Happens and Will Happen Again (4:00)

Though Life Is Not Easy, A Promise Awaits (3:54)

How Do We Understand God In a Fallen World? (3:49)

How Can We Become Honest Christians? (3:13)

What Is Life's Purpose? (2:13)

Deal With Fear and Pain (2:38)

How Do We Handle Dysfunctional People? (3:55)

Reconcile Unrealized Areas In Your Life (2:30)

How Do We Overcome Barriers Of Conflict? (3:41)

The Nature Of Forgiveness (3:25)

How Is Guilt Related To Anger? (2:09)

Too Often We Live Under the Law (5:49)

Uncover the Truth of Your Problems (4:44)

Grace Is the Ultimate Fertilizer (3:58)

Healing Takes Time (2:22)

What If Your Spouse Is Not Interested In Spiritual Growth (4:02)

Can We Forgive Ourselves (2:57)

How Should We Approach a Legalistic Church (2:29)

The Reality of Cheering Up Depression (3:29)

Depression Defined (3:25)

Causes of Depression (6:59)

Fictitious Cures for Depression (7:21)

Resolving Depression (6:34)

Tell a Date How You Really Feel (3:24)

Meet New People (3:17)

Enlarge Your Dating Vision By Trying New Ideas (6:06)

Get Over the Stigma of Dating Services (3:54)

Have an Accountability Team (5:31)

Don't Wait for Your Type (3:52)

Be Flexible With Expectations (3:31)

When a First Date Deserves a Second (5:20)

When It's Ok To Date a Non-Christian (4:07)

Wear a Face That Says You're Open (4:57)

Why Am I Attracted to Bad Guys (2:38)

Become a Leader for Life (6:20)

Go the Distance In Leadership (6:43)

Tasks Are Not the Point Of Life (3:50)

Avoid Burnout In Leadership (5:28)

Leaders Can't Make People Happy (5:07)

Be a Leader Who Adapts (5:02)

The 80-20 Principle (4:12)

Lessons for Leadership Lifers (7:48)

Finish Strong As a Leader (3:25)

The Principle Of Reality (6:43)

Face the Reality Of My Strengths (7:00)

Face the Reality Of My Weaknesses (8:12)

Face the Reality Of Other People (8:56)

Face the Reality Of the Situation (4:38)

Face the Hard Realities Of Life (3:51)

Credibility Vs. Happy Talk (6:26)

The Big Problem In Telling the Truth Is You (2:05)

You Must Believe the Truth To Tell It (6:06)

Truth Telling Barriers (3:50)

Suggestive Steps To Telling the Truth (4:49)

Guiding Principles To Tell the Truth (6:25)

More Guiding Principles To Tell The Truth (3:48)

The Aspects Of Reality (4:36)

Welcome to website (4:03)

You can resurrect your dead dating life. Here's how! (4:30)

Your fantasy person isn't just a fantasy... they're a train wreck! (5:13)

Take the dating challenge - keep a log and see what happens next! (7:10)

What about those "rules" of dating? (2:46)

When two halves DON'T make a whole. (5:20)

The "You-Complete-Me Thing." (2:56)

Identifying "Relationship Busters" (7:51)

The sexual person - it should be you. (4:11)

Is it sex or is it Prozac? (6:20)

What happens when you say "no" to sex? (1:47)

For the single person - how far is "too far?" Maybe that's not the question! (3:16)

Risk and romance. Who needs it? (3:50)

The good parts of bad times. How some problems and challenges can be the best thing that ever happened to ... (7:04)

The importance of the "humility process" and its outcome for leaders. (4:20)

The traits to avoid as a leader. Watch out for these in yourself! (7:17)

The Key Question in Servant Leadership (5:52)

Some characteristics of the very best leaders. Who they are and how they got there. (6:00)

How you can use "the outcomes" to evaluate yourself as a leader. (5:04)

Don't explain it away - take responsibility! (5:23)

Fire! Ready! Aim! The path to making good decisions. (5:17)

Leaders need the right "traveling companions" on their journey to success. (3:11)

Leaders Need Traveling Companions who Provide Loving Support (3:41)

Leaders Need Traveling Companions who Provide Courage and Can Give Feedback (7:42)

Leaders Need "Traveling Companions" Who Will Provide Wisdom. (3:46)

"Relational-based leadership" isn't a luxury. The importance of valuing people. (6:23)

The characteristics of a "relational leader." (6:44)

Show them you value them! What to say and how to say it. (5:06)

"Relational leadership" makes great teams and leaders - but it doesn't just "happen." Practical steps to build from. (8:03)

Boundaries: Draw your property lines and see what happens next. (7:22)

The best leaders have the best boundaries. (6:30)

Just say, "no." How to set limits in leadership (6:10)

Developing your boundaries skills in leadership. (5:11)

Better communication isn't the whole solution - here's what you need even more! (6:35)

"Getting to know you." How to get to each others' hearts. (6:03)

The two pillars you need to support a good conversation. (7:22)

The two secret weapons for any argument. (5:14)

"You are not the boss of me!" Freedom and control in a relationship - you may be surprised by what ... (6:11)

Listening in a Small Group (5:19)

Role Playing Active and Passive Listening in a Group (5:46)

Small Groups Are Not Classrooms (5:29)

Common Inhibitors to Authenticity in Groups (2:57)

Listening to Lead People Deeper in Groups (7:48)

Interpret Meaning in Small Group Discussions (2:54)

Go Deeper in Small Group Discussions (7:58)

Connect with People's Soul in Groups (6:39)

Connect with People's Passion in Groups (2:18)

Listen in a Loop (4:59)

Specific Listening Skills for Group Leaders (4:31)

Non-Verbal Communication as a Group Leader (3:52)

Use Reflective Statements as a Group Leader (2:46)

Burning Questions Concerning Listening as a Group Leader (5:50)

The Challenge of Sharing Imperfections in a Group (3:09)

Honesty in Groups Opens People to the Work of the Spirit (7:08)

Honesty in Groups Promotes Healing and Increases Confidence (4:15)

Honesty Holds a Group Together and Fosters Emotional Well-Being (4:56)

Honesty in Groups Minimizes Pretending and Encourages Deeper Communication (3:36)

Barriers to Admitting our Imperfections (2:30)

Legalistic Versus Grace Based Small Groups Culture (8:28)

Four Ways People Hide Their Imperfections in a Group (2:38)

Help Groups Share Imperfections (5:28)

Practices for Helping a Group Share Imperfections (7:29)

Burning Questions Concerning Sharing Imperfections in a Group (9:14)

The Power of Questions in a Group (6:42)

Truth Focused vs. Life Focused Groups (7:41)

Ask Better Questions in Groups (5:06)

Role Playing Good Questions in a Group (3:50)

Ask Guided Questions in a Group (7:36)

Ask Probing Questions in a Group (5:35)

Discussion Killers in a Group (4:15)

Unsolicited Advice Kills Group Discussion (5:42)

Over-Spiritualizing Kills Group Discussion (5:06)

Burning Questions Concerning Transformational Questions in a Small Group (5:36)

Barriers for Spiritual Growth in a Small Group (4:53)

Bad Group Experiences in the Past Inhibit Spiritual Growth in Groups (8:06)

Fear of Self Disclosure Inhibits Spiritual Growth in Groups (6:19)

Help People Overcome the Fear of Self Disclosure (6:38)

Leaders Share Their Weakness to the Group (3:22)

Unclear Community Expectations Inhibit Spiritual Growth in Groups (6:27)

Absence of Ground Rules Inhibits Spiritual Growth in Groups (7:25)

Clarify Expectations and Enforce Ground Rules in Groups (5:32)

Poor Curriculum Inhibits Spiritual Growth in a Small Group (4:07)

Burning Questions Concerning Facilitating Spiritual Growth in Groups (7:42)

We Need Relationship Boundaries (6:15)

How to Visualize a Boundary (5:57)

Keeping Good In and Bad Out (2:58)

The Concept of Boundaries (4:11)

Verbal Boundaries (3:46)

What Do Boundaries Protect? (6:58)

Boundary Problems' Symptoms (4:18)

Sowing and Reaping with Boundaries (3:10)

Handle Irresponsibility in Relationships (3:32)

We Do Influence Others (3:48)

The Importance of Accountability (2:44)

Concede Control (6:42)

Respect Others' Boundaries (4:24)

The Difference Between Hurt and Harm (2:59)

Boundaries Require Action (3:16)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Assess your Life (6:37)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Seek Outside Help (6:42)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Receive Help (4:21)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Let the Bad Go (3:03)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Take Ownership (2:26)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Say No (6:13)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Fail First (3:28)

External Resistances to Boundaries (6:05)

Internal Resistances to Boundaries (2:28)

Two Ways of Falling in Love (6:54)

Good Reasons for Falling in Love (5:47)

Be Emotionally Present and Available (5:37)

Individuality is Healthy (4:24)

Mature Expectations about Perfection (4:22)

Maintain Total Commitment (2:11)

Don't Control Your Partner (2:58)

A Biblical Definition of Love (3:03)

Purposes of Love (6:56)

Love Prevents Self-Absorption (2:45)

Love Requires Need (2:35)

Love is a Developing Process (2:41)

Problems with Love (5:37)

How to be a Loving Person (6:38)

Why Values are Important (5:19)

Happiness is a Result, not a Value (5:10)

The Value of Loving God (6:15)

The Value of Loving Others (4:49)

The Value of Honesty (6:34)

The Value of Faithfulness (4:17)

The Values of Compassion and Forgiveness (4:40)

The Value of Holiness (2:43)

Dating for Men: Tips to jump start your dating life (2:37)

Dating for Men: What are women looking for in a man? (3:21)

Dating for Men: Moving out of fantasyland. (2:06)

Dating for Men: Learning to be yourself. (3:21)

Good Reasons to Date People (6:35)

Dating is Not About Finding a Mate (4:25)

The Great Fallacy in Your Dating Philosophy (8:56)

Take Ownership Over Your Dating Life (4:17)

Establish Healthy Boundaries in Dating (5:53)

Symptoms that Your Dating Life Needs Boundaries (8:00)

Take God Out on a Date (7:12)

Dating is Not a Cure to Loneliness (4:32)

Is It Ok for a Woman to Pursue a Man? (2:41)

When Should A Divorcee Date Again? (2:52)

Do Not Repeat the Same Old Mistakes (7:53)

Patterns of Ineffective Dating (7:19)

Fear Your Dating Past (2:43)

Choose the Right Date (8:28)

Look for the Right Things in a Date (6:47)

A Character Test for a Truly Loving Person (7:19)

Fall in Love With a Friend (3:49)

Beware When Opposites Attract (3:56)

Why Our Attempts at Prayer Fail (7:21)

Practical Ways to Begin a Prayer Life (3:01)

Grace Fuels Our Spiritual Life (5:25)

Even Movers and Shakers Can Be Still (5:20)

Why Our Past is Important (5:14)

Our Past can Still Hurt in the Present (3:07)

The Past is a Foundation for the Future (2:39)

How Our Past may Affect Relationships (4:04)

Dealing with Post Traumatic Stress (4:56)

Messages from the Past (6:30)

Predictors of Divorce (4:54)

The four people in every good relationship. (1:14)

Your "relational termites!" (4:01)

Take life as it comes: Take control of the time ahead to bring about change in your life. (5:22)

Play the movie and watch the ending. You'll be ahead of the game. (5:40)

Pull the Tooth! Successful people deal quickly with negative energy drains. (4:44)

Hand-wringing helps! How constructive worrying can be beneficial to your health. (4:20)

Your ability to confront will predict your success in life. (6:33)

Define yourself: who you are and where you stand. (7:52)

Can you "fess up" to your weaknesses and assess your strengths? It's more important than you think - here's where ... (6:41)

Connection is not a luxury - it's the fuel of your life. (6:37)

It's not all your responsibility. Where it starts and ends. (2:31)

Reality will help overcome perfectionism - especially for leaders. (2:19)

Personal growth - get comfortable with "process" and forget about time (7:16)

Worry about the right things. (6:14)

That thing called "Trust." What it is and why it's important for you as a leader. (7:35)

Getting to the hearts of those you are leading. (5:26)

What kind of leader will people trust? The answer will surprise you. (5:52)

The three characteristics of every successful leader. (6:36)

Beyond integrity. What else is there? (9:33)

Your character leaves a wake behind you. What's yours like? (4:55)

Deal with it! Toxic people, idiots and enemies and what to do with them. (6:40)

Four regrets leaders have about working with difficult people. (2:20)

Consequences for those difficult people. (5:46)

Responsibility and accountability. Good leaders are responsible for successes and failures. (5:53)

Good leaders attract the right people and frustrate the right people! (7:02)

It's okay and it's important to trust your gut instinct. It can be a good source of information. (3:03)

How good leaders understand that authority cuts both ways - and they aren't afraid of that. (4:16)

Good leaders involve others and share the vision. (4:30)

Learn to question authority. It makes for great leaders. (7:54)

Why we fight. The good news about those four main reasons. (5:20)

Good Fights - Bad Fights! (7:55)

When fights get "historical." (2:22)

One of the biggest mistakes you can make in an argument. (4:31)

How to help your children develop 8 character qualities that will make them healthy adults. (6:23)

Parenting Pitfalls: Overcoming the 5 major obstacles to creating boundaries for your children. (4:16)

"Reality consequences" work. Use them! (4:45)

Setting boundaries with teenagers. How late is too late? (2:44)

Celebrate the differences in people! Why it's important and what you'll get from it. (5:15)

Apologize first and see what happens next. (1:30)

To accept or not to accept? When to affirm, when to push, and when to do both. (5:52)

"Need-And-Love-and-Give-And-Take" Spotting the problems. (4:20)

Boundaries and consequences. How to bring about behavior change in others. (5:11)

You have more power than you think when dealing with that difficult person. Here are some tools you can use. (7:10)

Time doesn't heal all wounds, but YOU can start the process in your relationships. (2:20)

Watch for change in that difficult person in your life. Some things you'll see when change begins. (7:20)

The "Love Vocabulary." Learning what to say and what not to say. (6:25)

Timing Is Everything: When you say something is just as important as what you say. (6:38)

The two worst "compliments" you can give! (2:48)

The incredible power of words. Choose them wisely. (6:50)

Life with a "Button-Pusher." Sound familiar? (7:21)

Your "button pushers:" Who they are and what they do. (6:29)

Time-proven ways to fail in dealing with your "button pusher." (5:07)

People are not projects - resist the urge to work on them. (5:44)

Enabling. When it turns out YOU'RE the person who makes it all possible. (1:41)

Denial doesn't help. Learn to incorporate the good and the bad into your life. (4:28)

The waiting game: There's a difference between hoping and wishing. (2:34)

God's ideas and my ideas. When it feels like there's disconnect between what you want and what He wants. (6:33)

Leave your expectations at the door and you'll be amazed by what you find inside. (3:18)

A good look in the mirror: Get small and get humble and see what happens next. (7:07)

The one relationship that will affect all the others in your life. (2:00)

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My son doesn't stick with anything. He has transferred colleges 3 times and never kept a job for an entire ... (4:59)

When I was little I was spanked when I was naughty, but now I feel like spanking is child abuse. ... (5:38)

My daughter is spending a lot of time with her boyfriend. They are seniors in high school, getting good ... (2:54)

A friend of my daughter is cutting herself. What is my responsibility as an adult to try to help ... (1:25)

My son has been arrested. How do I show my face at church and keep from killing him? (4:26)

I am feeling lonely more and more often. My children are grown and my husband travels a lot for work. ... (1:55)

I was recently at a conference featuring Dr. Cloud and he told the story of one lady who went from ... (4:15)

I drive a school bus in an especially tough district. If I could instill just a little self-worth in one ... (2:41)

I think that God is calling me into a leadership position in the church. How can I be sure? (2:37)

My husband lost his job over ten years ago and it is affecting our marriage. He is depressed, not ... (4:00)

A friend's husband is a pastor. He has told her he wants a divorce. He moved into the basement and ... (2:21)

Are there any ways of dealing with panic attacks that do not involve using drugs? (7:59)

In light of recent world events, how do we avoid living under fear? (7:30)

What do you say to a child after they have suddenly lost a pet that was hit by a car? (3:47)

Is there such a thing as over-praising a child's accomplishment? (2:42)

How many extra curricular activities is too much for my high-schooler? (2:46)

My son is constantly listening to gangsta' rap. He seems infatuated with the so called "gangsta' lifestyle. It creeps me ... (2:55)

How do you deal with sibling disagreements over the care of an aging parent? (3:53)

How do I get my teenager to get out and do more socially? She gets invited to do things but ... (4:20)

I have a friend who is negative about everything under the sun. Any conversation we have turns negative. Any suggestions ... (4:16)

I am married to a man that thinks it's the husband's role to take care of the finances. I would ... (3:27)

Recently a woman in our church who had left her husband and took the children, came back and wants to ... (2:15)

How as a parent do you realize that you are pushing your children too hard as opposed to encouraging your ... (3:57)

I'm a divorced mother of two daughters, ages 10 and 13. I've been divorced for 5 years and haven't even ... (3:21)

I'm having trouble letting go of guilt about things in my past. I've asked for forgiveness and believe I'm forgiven ... (4:10)

What is the difference between an anxiety attack and a panic attack? Is there any way to stop them before ... (2:37)

How do you feel about working moms? (3:28)

How would you advise someone in recovery with issues from dysfunctional family of origin and having just exited from a ... (2:43)

I'm 28 and since my teens I've been dependent on others for assurance and help. Now I am learning to ... (4:14)

Our 22 yr old daughter opened up several charge accounts and was in debt over $7,000. We had no idea ... (2:42)

A friend who has personal experience with Alzheimer claims my boss is exhibiting signs of the illness. His behavior is ... (3:22)

How can you have good relationships if you have disassociation identity disorder? I can understand why I have no friends. ... (3:22)

What should you do if you try to set boundaries with a family member or friend and they refuse to ... (4:23)

How do you deal with a husband that I believe has paranoid personality disorder or severe depression? He refuses to ... (2:21)

My 19 year old daughter just moved out of the house. Her living arrangements will be ideal, so there is ... (2:21)

I'm in a job I love but working for people I don't love, actually I have learned to resent because ... (4:06)

I'm at a loss as to how to comfort my husband who is worried sick about his employment/employer as he ... (4:37)

I normally would say nothing back to someone who insults or slights me but I do stew over the ill ... (3:35)

I have a new Christian friend whose father just died. My friend had asked for prayer on several occasions for ... (3:47)

Our daughter is about to begin her senior year in high school. She has more and more activities all the ... (2:59)

Our son is 9 years old and needs to be informed of what to expect in puberty, etc... After 3 ... (2:20)

I am about to get married but I'm beginning to have doubts. I broke up with my high school sweetheart ... (4:02)

My husband coached our son's football team for all of his Pop Warner years. Now our son is in high ... (2:56)

My daughter's boyfriend asked our permission to ask our daughter to marry him. We said no because our daughter is ... (3:39)

How important do you believe physical attraction is in getting a date? (4:23)

My friend has a full time job outside the home and so does her husband. They have chosen to ... (1:37)

My husband and I struggle with our sex life. I adore him but don't have a fraction of the sexual ... (3:23)

We have been friends with another couple for about 6 years. We consider them close friends but we can't help ... (2:51)

Do pets/animals go to heaven? (3:30)

What does the Bible teach about birth control? (1:52)

What do you think about home-schooling? Is it good for children or are they not learning socialization skills they'll need ... (1:25)

How can I get my teenagers to understand the long-term effects of their actions and decisions now? My teenagers are ... (3:55)

I met a man (54 years old) 2 months ago that is just finalizing his divorce. He was married 25+ ... (2:50)

My mother attempted suicide several times when I was a child and my father told me it was my fault. ... (3:12)

What do I do if I don't want to buy something my teen wants? (2:43)

How do you call it quits? We have been married 4 years and my husband has a LOW/no sex drive. ... (3:24)

My husband withholds affection from simple things to sex. Last year we went 11 months without sex. Normally its 3x ... (3:01)

Should a man tell the woman on the first date that he is just dating to have fun and meet ... (2:18)

My son is 15 and smokes. He had asthma when he was as a child. He is not allowed to ... (2:12)

Is there such a thing as religious addiction where the person goes even to the point of psychotic delusions and ... (3:08)

I am concerned with how young people approach the MySpace phenomenon. They reveal the most intimate information on it with ... (2:40)

My child showed me some very damaging information on MySpace about my friend's child. What is my responsibility as a ... (1:47)

As the parent of 3 teenagers, I am discouraged how devious and secretive my teenagers are. They tell me that ... (3:33)

What is a safe way to "vent?" Sometimes I just want to gripe, but feel that it is not always ... (2:18)

Is it ever appropriate to use swear words? Some people don't seem to know how to put a sentence together ... (1:42)

I am newly married and my husband is SO easygoing it drives me nuts. The answer to just about every ... (3:44)

I was raised "Christian" but now consider myself "Wicca." My parents are not happy. I'm still in school and ... (5:41)

I'm in high school and not popular. People make fun of me because I don't fit in any group. Please ... (4:09)

When my sister gets upset I think she cuts herself. She won't admit it but I've seen the scratches. I ... (1:26)

How can I learn to give up control in my various relationships (home, work, friends)? I'm not a control-freak but ... (3:58)

How do you deal with someone who feels personally attacked by almost every comment? I love this person and want ... (3:23)

I heard a statement that "physical and mental exhaustion brought on by hectic pace, family demands and job stress can ... (3:23)

I've been married for 9 months. I'm starting to feel smothered and I'm wondering if I made a big mistake. ... (5:05)

Three days after I got a new truck, my husband wrecked it. I told him it was ok, accidents happen ... (3:40)

I'm 23 and everyone thinks I should be married. I'm not even thinking about marriage yet. Is there something wrong ... (1:47)

My mother-in-law will only listen to my husband. She is in very poor health and when she needs to go ... (2:10)

Every year, my 15 year old daughter figures out how to get on the good side of her teachers. She ... (2:59)

My widowed mother-in-law is not a safe driver anymore but doesn't seem to realize it. What is the very kindest ... (3:04)

My ex-spouse's lifestyle choices were a contributing factor to our divorce. What should I say to my children as they ... (2:26)

My son is in a Christian college. He observes some teens in small worship groups praising the Lord one night ... (4:05)

A young man in my son's youth group committed suicide. It's been very hard for his friends in the group. ... (6:15)

What is Bipolar Disorder? I hear the term frequently and also that it's very serious but don't know what it ... (4:13)

My husband and I are on a very tight budget. It's a struggle just to pay all our bills every ... (3:15)

My ex-husband and I divorced by a mutual decision. We both felt that we married without really knowing who the ... (3:20)

One of my good friends is very sick but will not go to the doctor because she thinks the vitamins ... (1:40)

I am a Sunday School teacher and suspect some possible abuse or neglect of a child in my class. I ... (2:56)

My husband cannot control money but is unwilling to let me take care of our finances. We've had overdrafts, utilities ... (1:55)

Does a small amount of ego ever serve a person? Where do you draw the line between confidence and conceit? (3:10)

In the old days, wasn't salvation considered more of a process than a quick event? (1:31)

What do you think about a dating service just for people who are or have been in therapy? I want ... (1:23)

My mom and I are both believers, and the other night at dinner she started making some very rude comments ... (1:17)

My preteen steals money from family members. The money is used to go out with her girlfriends. She seems to ... (1:19)

I was married for eight years to a man who physically, emotionally and sexually abused me. He finally asked me ... (1:40)

I am a stay at home mom with a 1 yr old and a 2 1/2 yr old. The 2 ... (1:44)

My counselor told me that he thinks I might be a HSP (highly sensitive person). I read up on it ... (1:16)

My wife and I are getting divorced. I cannot see my two lovely daughters right now due to allegations that ... (1:48)

I am separated from my non-believer wife and she wants a divorce. However she wants me to file for it. ... (1:22)

I am afraid that I have committed blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. I did not mean to do this; I ... (1:50)

What is really going on when you feel the need to prove yourself and compete with others? It's worse around ... (1:08)

My father who is an unsafe person for me wants to pay for our 3 children and 9 more grandchildren's ... (1:47)

I am struggling with letting go of an unhealthy marriage, we have been separated for a year, and the divorce ... (1:35)

In How People Grow you make the statement "all growth is spiritual growth."Can you explain what you mean by that? ... (2:14)

I was married for 17 years. Of course I was devastated when he told me he was homosexual and left ... (2:00)

I need suggestions for good consequences for an eleven year old girl. I don't know what to take away. She ... (1:54)

I am a doctorial student at Oral Roberts University and work a full-time job. I feel God is calling me ... (2:04)

We have been friends for 2 1/2 years and dating approximately two months. Should we date for the recommended year+ ... (1:19)

I was married for 34 years to a "Christian" school principal who abused me and was a sex addict. I ... (1:42)

My friend's husband recently had an affair, had a child with the other woman and left my friend for 2 ... (1:45)

What is my responsibility as a Sunday school teacher when my students reveal deeply personal things? (1:36)

I am a father, newly-divorced from his wife of 23 years, I have 3 kids; 20, 17 and 12 years ... (1:28)

My husband is addicted to internet porn and masturbation. He is seeking help from therapy, but I feel so much ... (2:09)

My question is linked to childhood abandonment that happened 50 years ago. I know that I have unresolved grief--but how ... (1:19)

We have a 27 yr. old son who suffers from severe depression. He lives on his own but has trouble ... (2:10)

A meaningful dating relationship has ended and I'm feeling emotionally drained. On the one hand I know I need time ... (1:35)

I keep telling my wife that I just want her to listen to me but she always either interrupts me ... (1:49)

How do I handle the fact that my husband likes to leave my side at functions to chat with other ... (1:47)

I am a married woman (31 years) who gave my heart to another man 12 years ago. My out-of-marriage partner ... (1:08)

How should the subject of finances in a second marriage be approached? My husband does not tell me about the ... (1:23)

I am a church staff member having an issue supervising a young, new part-time employee. I came up with a ... (1:54)

I am a single mom that is friends with a couple in my church. We spend a lot of time ... (1:26)

It's only been 2 months since I gave birth. My husband left me 2 months before I gave birth due ... (2:04)

I have heard of a phrase called "paralysis of the will" which seems to be the best way to describe ... (1:39)

I have an overweight teenage daughter, who doesn't seem concerned about losing weight. What can I do besides scream and ... (1:55)

When my spouse and I have sex, it's over before I know it. What can we do to prolong the ... (1:36)

I teach a small group of youth from the ages of 13 to 17 on dating and relationships. I want ... (1:52)

I am a science student but think I'd like to try banking. Those two things don't seem at all similar ... (1:02)

I have a friend who says he was sexually molested by a schoolmate in high school for 2 years until ... (1:33)

A friend of mine is a moody person. He can be really outgoing and really quiet. He seems confident but ... (1:40)

Would you relate how you decided to go into the psychology field and what struggles you encountered to get through ... (2:11)

I am a female college student working towards my degree in psychology. What positive traits or behaviors do you find ... (2:03)

How do I cope with anxiety and depression? (1:27)

Why do you think Christians have failed in the addiction world compared to AA? (1:40)

Can you talk about over-working, what are reasonable limits and how do we avoid it? (1:53)

My boyfriend recently confessed to me that he had an affair with his ex girlfriend. He claims the reason he ... (1:46)

I am having the worst physical and emotional pain I've ever had. I recently found out that my partner cheated ... (2:12)

Why do I love the person that makes me suffer? (1:59)

How do I get out of a bad relationship? (1:43)

I have a 16-yr old son with mental health problems. He hears voices telling him to do things. He is ... (2:17)

I'm 19 yrs old. I don't have a girlfriend and I don't feel I can tell my problems to my ... (1:56)

My husband of 20 years is verbally abusive. He flirts and humiliates me in public. What can I do? (2:24)

I think I might be about a month pregnant. I need to know what I can do to end this ... (1:52)

My daughter is 19 and she lives at home. She goes to school full time and works full time. Our ... (1:29)

I have been in a relationship with a guy with a borderline personality disorder. He has read your Boundaries books ... (1:19)

I think I am in love with my boyfriend. He asked me how I feel about him but I really ... (1:56)

Is it wrong to set the final limit and leave my Christian alcoholic husband, who, having relapsed 2+ years ago ... (2:22)

I've been trying to get pregnant for 8 months but am not yet. I am pretty down about it. Can ... (1:50)

How do I break bad sexual habits? (2:03)

Do you believe people can become demon-possessed? (2:19)

I am recovering from porn addiction. My wife moved out and wants a divorce. She refuses to seek marriage counseling. ... (3:28)

My husband is suffering greatly from depression and anxiety. How can I help? (2:16)

I asked my husband to move out because he went to a bachelor party and I don't trust him when ... (2:56)

How should a person deal with a fear of dying? (5:06)

My granddaughter is 3 yrs old. For about a year she had been stealing food. She will get up at ... (3:24)

My parents have bailed my brother out jail for years and enabled his drug use. Then my father got involved ... (2:49)

How do I know if I am beyond a normal amount of crazy and need help? (4:18)

Could you talk about people's need for significance in our lives? (4:15)

I am an only child of two alcoholic parents, and I am now fifty-seven. My mother is still alive and ... (4:04)

How do you forgive hurts that are continuously being committed? (2:55)

My boyfriend often tickles and wrestles with his 14 yr old niece. Is this type of behavior ok? My gut ... (2:17)

What are thoughts of the teachings of existentialist psychiatrist Irvin D. Yalom? (6:43)

My mother passed away 8 months ago from cancer. She was a strong Christian woman, but her unexpected death has ... (3:23)

There is a man who is involved with kids at our church who is a suspected child abuser. I reported ... (2:12)

I planted a church 3 years ago and I am afraid it will go under due to my personal family ... (1:44)

My wife filed for divorce a few months ago. She is now hinting at getting back together, but I don't ... (3:14)

Why do some Christians claim to have faith, but don't exercise it or are always placing doubt in situations. (3:24)

My husband is not a believer and is one of the most negative people I know. He's disabled, watches TV ... (2:46)

I can't seem to find a good mentor. Either they feel you are beneath them or they just don't want ... (3:48)

We have an 8 year old foster son who has had a terrible life and has lived with a huge ... (3:23)

How can I learn not to demand too much from myself and be realistic about my abilities? (3:09)

I am bipolar. How can I get my husband to understand my extreme highs and lows? (1:49)

My father is cheating on my mother. She has no idea. I have solid evidence. Do I confront him myself ... (1:24)

A man is pursuing me who is a recovering alcoholic. He has been sober for 13 years (never married and ... (2:46)

My husband and I both have low sex drives and do not have sex often. He is overweight and feels ... (2:07)

My husband of fifteen months has a habit of speaking to me harshly, with ridicule or sarcasm. If I tell ... (5:00)

I feel like there is a roadblock to the spiritual intimacy between my husband and I. He does not want ... (2:37)

My therapist says I need to stop trying so hard to please my husband, and to take care of myself ... (3:33)

I am a single mother of 3 boys. I work full time and have gone back to school in order ... (1:50)

How do you set boundaries with your boss? (4:02)

My husband and I have been separated for five months. We have three children under the age of 5. He ... (2:09)

My husband is a professed Christian who is an alcoholic. Is it wrong for me, a committed Christian, to withhold ... (1:21)

My husband of 12 years shoved me after a confrontation about getting help for anger management. He is also verbally ... (2:04)

My ex-husband is subtly turning my kids against me and my rules, teaching them rebellion and defiance. How do I ... (2:12)

My 16 yr old son would like to spend the night with his 22 yr old brother and girlfriend. As ... (1:59)

Is it wrong for 1st cousins to marry even if they don't have children together? (1:06)

I have a history of being a poor judge of character, particularly when choosing men. Where do I start so ... (2:45)

I am trying to gain freedom from past familial sexual and addiction issues. I cannot afford counseling. How can I ... (1:16)

My husband started a new job where he needs to travel to another city for training with his female co-worker. ... (2:48)

My husband has been thinking about a woman he had a sexual relationship with, when we were apart for 3 ... (2:30)

I suffer from an anxiety disorder and I have an overwhelming fear of death and dying. Is it normal even ... (2:04)

Sometimes when I am in front of a group of people I will start to blush, and I get very ... (1:35)

My wife divorced me after 43 years because I would not join her church. I do go to church but ... (1:48)

My husband and I have issues with fighting and going over the same things continually. He constantly tracks my whereabouts, ... (4:54)

What can a parent in her early 80's do when one of her children very rarely communicates with her and ... (3:05)

My partner of almost 4 years talks about his ex-wife all the time. They parted 13 years ago. I asked ... (3:35)

What hope is there for a person who hates their self? I was divorced a few years ago and since ... (5:13)

My wife and I have realized there are many areas in which we have failed to set boundaries with our ... (3:53)

Is mental illness referred to in the Bible? What does God think about mental illness? (5:44)

Is it wrong to spend every day or close to it with your safe friend? (2:21)

I am a male pastor and my ministry assistant is female. Our work requires us to spend a great deal ... (4:59)

How do you help a teenager who continues to choose to date girls with low self esteem? (4:12)

How do you help a 21 year old boy or girl increase their own self esteem? (4:26)

I have been divorced and remarried for 15 years with 2 children from the previous marriage and 2 with my ... (2:03)

At what age do children develop a conscience? When should we worry if our child shows no remorse or guilt? (3:56)

Why do I seem to attract selfish, unreliable, egotistical people? I don't want to change my personality but I do ... (3:05)

I am in the midst of a divorce that I did not want. My spouse wants his freedom whatever that ... (3:31)

My husband will not attend our young children's sporting events. He says he is bored there. I am so embarrassed ... (2:49)

I am a married man in love with another woman. My wife hurts my self-esteem and is not supportive. Do ... (3:07)

I am in love with a married man. Out of the blue he will stop calling. I'm not ready to ... (1:21)

What are some good physical boundaries my boyfriend and I can set? We don't want to have sex until we ... (3:23)

I was sexually abused in my past. I now have serious issues with sex. I seem to do things that ... (3:31)

I try to keep a friendly relationship with my ex-wife for our children's sake, but it really bothers my girlfriend. ... (3:30)

I have had an on-again off-again relationship for the past couple of years. He wants to get back together again, ... (2:41)

I feel very offended when my husband watches a movie with a nude woman. To me, it is like he ... (1:27)

I've been dating a guy for three months. He says that he loves the Lord and wants to grow spiritually ... (2:53)

My husband left our home about 2 months ago. He called and said he wants a divorce and he does ... (2:13)

Alcoholism runs in my husband's family. I am starting to see the traits develop in my husband. He is in ... (1:55)

I just sold my old rickety car to a family in need, and my girlfriend is furious. I prayed on ... (3:17)

My husband moved out and filed for divorce after 4 1/2 months of marriage. He says he isn't breaking his ... (1:41)

My husband was sexually abused as a child and has told no one but me and refuses to go to ... (2:14)

My girlfriend that I dated for 3 years, 10 years ago, recently divorced her husband to get back with me. ... (2:13)

I am sad, have no energy, and no desire to do anything. Sometimes I just wish I would die. Am ... (2:01)

I am sad, have no energy, and no desire to do anything. I sometimes wish I would die. Am I ... (4:43)

My son (20) recently made two serious suicide attempts. He is now in intensive therapy at a specialized recovery hospital. ... (2:55)

My 10 yr old son's classmate is stealing. What should I do? (2:23)

I experience extreme emotional highs and lows. How can I gain control of this? (4:26)

I am divorced. When my teenage daughter is staying with her dad, my ex-husband lets her boyfriend sleep over. I ... (4:19)

I have been dating a great man for 6 months. He has met my parents, but I have yet to ... (2:54)

My friend has OCD and lately it has been unbearable for her. Her insurance won't cover meds and she doesn't ... (2:00)

My husband and I have struggled for 18 years with issues relating to his drinking and sexual demands. My counselor ... (2:34)

How should I respond to a friend who is constantly offended when I disagree with her or offer an opinion ... (3:20)

This man told me he liked me and I turned him down. I have since realized I have feelings for ... (2:33)

Should I be concerned that the woman I have been with for 17 years runs from our problems and confides ... (2:43)

I have had an emotional affair. My husband was never there for me even though I pleaded for many years. ... (3:10)

My son married young against our wishes. My husband now won't offer his support to them. He says he is ... (2:56)

I have a friend who apologizes excessively for things that didn't offend anyone or weren't her fault. It's really annoying. ... (1:49)

I have just started reading your book "How People Grow." I have had chronic issues with career and employment. What ... (2:12)

I have been married for 12 years and discovered my husband is a compulsive liar. This has killed the love ... (3:22)

I am raising my grandchildren. How can I find extra support and resources during this difficult time? (1:41)

How does a relationship work if the couple doesn't have the same interests? For example, one person is a homebody ... (2:53)

What kind of help is available for young adults with mild learning disabilities who have a hard time connecting? (1:54)

You said in one of your videos that passion doesn't have to be connected with your job but what if ... (4:54)

I have recently gained 45 pounds as the result of an illness. I have gotten back into contact with an ... (3:13)

I am a Christian, starting a new business. I would like to use the word "Christian" in the name of ... (2:52)

I recently just ended a four year affair. I got divorced 7 months ago but have recently moved back in ... (2:12)

I tend to think I am in love and get swept away so easily. One minute I say "I love ... (3:15)

How do you know if a man loves you or is just stringing you along? (2:51)

I have a lot of financial fears. I work in ministry and while I love what I do, I hate ... (3:40)

How can I develop trust in my new marriage after there was adultery in my past marriage? (1:42)

I have great passion to lead people. However, whenever I try it, I feel unconfident, weak, or incompetent. How can ... (2:29)

My friends say I am burnt out and not well. What should I do? How do you know if you're ... (2:53)

I have a friend whose wife just left him. He found a room full of romantic novels with strong sexual ... (1:42)

How can I fight the enemy besides praying? (3:11)

How do people with disabilities strive for success when they can barely function from day to day? I am bi-polar ... (2:00)

What causes a person to want to commit suicide? (3:21)

I am considering getting married. My boyfriend was married before and still has strong feelings for his ex-wife. Is this ... (2:21)

I was recently on a trip with a group of women, 50 yrs. old and over. One person in the ... (2:01)

I have been a believer for many years and I have turned control of my life over to Christ, but ... (4:02)

I think my wife cut her hair very short to spite me and I hate it. Am I wrong to ... (3:04)

My boyfriend lies occasionally about small things and is clingy. Are the lying and insecurities something that he can change? ... (1:57)

If Jesus was never sexually abused as a child, how can He know my pain of being sexually abused as ... (4:41)

Our new daughter-in-law comes from a dysfunctional home and is beginning to contaminate our family. What would be the best ... (1:56)

My boss can be very critical and leads based on his feelings about others. I'm finding myself doing the same ... (3:16)

My 27 yr. old daughter is in rehab for alcoholism and drug use. She is in de-tox for 5 ... (1:34)

My friend's male friend came 3000 miles to visit her. Every time he walks by, he touches her in some ... (1:52)

What guidelines would you have for our elders in a counseling role in our church? (2:44)

How do we pass on a Godly heritage to our children? (2:30)

How do you potty train a nearly 3 year old boy who is completely disinterested? (2:57)

How do you get a 10 months old to sleep through the night? (2:04)

How do a wife and husband make a life plan that will consider both of their individual goals? (2:09)

I am a 37 yr. old never married male who grew up in the Church of Christ. Should I ... (2:22)

I've been dating a women for 18 months. How do I know if I'm in love with her in a ... (1:57)

I've shared personal details of my life with my Pastor and then he communicates details of what I've shared on ... (1:37)

My 4 1/2 year-old son hurt one of his fingers. The nail has re-grown but there is a permanent black ... (1:35)

I am in counseling dealing with the effects of sexual abuse at the hands of my grandfather and I feel ... (2:24)

I don't know why whenever my boyfriend wants to spend time with other people, I feel uncomfortable. I know I ... (2:46)

My husband died 3 years ago. I have two children who are 7 & 9 now. I would like to ... (1:52)

I was just at one of your singles retreat. You said we should date 20 people. I am 59 years ... (1:29)

My husband is the Pastor at the small church we planted four years ago. I have been the 'volunteer' secretary ... (2:03)

Our grown son experienced an unwanted divorce, then remarried quickly (against our advice) and had a baby daughter. He suddenly ... (2:16)

My husband admits that he gets admiration from talking to other women. Is this an "affair" on his part? What ... (3:08)

Scripture says to be angry and sin not. How is it possible to be angry and not sin? (1:48)

You hear the term "sex addict" a lot now. I think my husband may be one. Can you explain ... (2:59)

I am currently working nights and have been trying to advance to a day shift job. When I go into ... (1:56)

When I get together with a group of people, I have a desire to lead and end up trying to ... (2:09)

I cheated 20 yrs ago and had 2 one-night stands before I married my husband. We were not Christians and ... (2:08)

What is therapy supposed to be like? How do you know you're getting the right kind of help? (2:40)

Is hypnosis wrong for Christians? (1:30)

How does one identify a generational curse that has been passed down through my family line? How do you go ... (2:35)

I was sexually abused as a child by my father and my mother remained silent. I know that many ... (2:15)

What does the Bible mean when it says not to drive your children to wrath? (2:16)

I have been burned from too many secrets in my boyfriend relationships. From those experiences, I learned to be ... (1:28)

I'm a second year college student who lives on campus about an hour away from home. My parents pressure me ... (2:48)

Should I tell my co-worker what my other co-worker said about her? It has the potential to hurt my friend's ... (1:44)

Can a woman and man be best friends when both are married to others? (1:26)

What would you suggest when a partner has noisy eating habits that are annoying to the other? How can I ... (2:33)

Is it OK to not want to be friends with an ex-boyfriend? (1:51)

My daughter age 32, holds us, her mother and father accountable for everything we have done in our past. ... (2:44)

What is the best response to people who start to gossip to you? (1:55)

What should a person do regarding unrelenting doubts about one's salvation? (2:43)

What is a reasonable time frame in a dating relationship for the partners to decide jointly how weekends are spent? (1:04)

With all the new information about sexual addiction and classes offered to men like Everyman's Battle, some men in our ... (1:52)

Please address the scandal hitting the evangelical community with the hypocrisy of one of our leading pastors. (1:43)

God predestined some of us to go to heaven and some to go to hell. As believers we have a ... (1:44)

My husband and I are separated because he is a sex addict. I gave him a deadline to complete some ... (1:48)

My childhood was so abusive that as an adult I am terrified of conflict. What is the best way to ... (2:19)

I am on a church staff and don't know where to go for help. The Sr. Pastor is my boss ... (1:29)

My 13-year-old son has a tendency to lie. As a consequence I took away two months allowance and a 2-day ... (1:44)

I have a friend that sent out a letter to all family members who they felt had done hurtful things ... (2:52)

My 24-yr old daughter is in a multi-year dating relationship with someone who I believe is taking advantage of her ... (2:39)

My 18-year-old son got involved in skydiving. He fractured his neck in football and broke his pelvis snowboarding. I have ... (1:37)

What can you do when loved ones completely lack empathy for one another or have an unapologetic attitude? (2:40)

How do you talk to your 9 yr old son about masturbation? Is it a healthy part of life? ... (2:36)

My daughter married a man against our wishes. We don't like him because in the past he admitted to having ... (1:03)

I enjoy simply sitting with my feelings and thoughts, or having creative or quiet time to myself. Yet I ... (2:15)

I recently read your book "Boundaries" and went through the series with my church. My mother has been diagnosed ... (2:14)

Do the principles in your book Boundaries hold true when dealing with people with mental disorders? (1:27)

One of the members of my small group asked the question, If Jesus left us the Holy Spirit to guide ... (1:54)

I am frustrated at work. I was not given any training, yet my superiors are unhappy with my performance. What ... (3:25)

How can I help my stepchildren establish boundaries with their unstable father? (3:02)

Will God allow you to fall in love with someone who wasn't meant to be your spouse? (1:56)

My husband has always looked at other women. Is this a normal thing for a man to do? (3:02)

I am a 20-year-old male virgin. I can't seem to get over the fact that my current girlfriend didn't wait ... (1:54)

My pastor's wife is very controlling and feels like she needs to know all of my personal struggles. Is it ... (2:23)

We have just discovered our 15 yr old son was looking at internet pornography. Do you have any practical suggestions ... (3:20)

What does the Bible teach us about recovery in our life? Is it a life-long process or can you be ... (1:45)

My first marriage ended because of my addiction to porn. I am now in love again but still struggle with ... (1:54)

Will God be unhappy with me if I divorce my husband of 25 years? He is unfaithful and emotionally unavailable. (2:38)

My co-worker and I have very different personalities. Do you have any suggestions on how we can work together peacefully? (2:40)

I just learned my fiance is gay. Even though he was lying to himself, I feel like I should have ... (2:56)

I realize that I am too passive. How can I become more assertive? (2:14)

Can you direct me to a truly Christian perspective on Borderline Personality Disorder? (4:34)

I am still struggling from the pain of my miscarriage 14 years ago. How can I heal? (2:28)

My teenage son claims to be saved, but blames God for sin. How can we convince him otherwise? (3:14)

My parents are facing foreclosure of their house due to very poor financial decisions. My brother who is in jail, ... (2:02)

My girlfriend seems to get upset over the smallest things. She said she doesn't even know why she cries most ... (2:34)

I discovered my husband has been "talking" to another woman for the past 3 months. Initially he denied everything. ... (2:39)

I'd like to know where the sense of entitlement comes from and why some people have it and others don't? (2:46)

My boyfriend's mother is bipolar. Her overall attitude on life is negative and she is always blaming others. ... (2:29)

I struggled with an eating disorder for 10 years. I understand the "control issues" behind it. I'm in my 30s ... (2:18)

I seem to only focus on the negative aspects of my dating relationships. How can I notice the good in ... (2:22)

I'm a single, divorced mother of 4 children. My ex-husbands are not paying their court-ordered child support. Some months I ... (2:11)

I have dreams are about being in a war situation and after running, I always get caught by the enemy. ... (2:31)

While I have a positive outlook on life, I seem to come to tears easily if I talk about painful ... (2:18)

Is it bad to never allow a man to buy you anything unless you are married to each other or ... (2:45)

I received a late night phone call from my single parent group leader. I think he was hitting on me ... (1:34)

How would I know if a man in my single parent group is interested in me? What does it mean ... (2:37)

How do I protect my boundaries when my husband does not follow doctor's orders and continues a lifestyle of nightly ... (3:56)

I am in a long-distance relationship, but he does not call me. He will only send me a text message ... (1:46)

I am still in love with my childhood sweetheart. He says he loves me, but we are both studying ... (1:56)

How do you deal with a mother who is physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive? How do you deal with the ... (3:24)

What is a good definition of a perpetrator? (1:44)

My wife is very controlling and critical. She puts me down in public every time she has a chance. I'm ... (4:33)

Why is it that the "big picture" people you talk about want all the control but none of the responsibility? ... (1:53)

What should you do if your family is toxic and you have tried everything except not have anything to do ... (3:20)

How can you move on after a relationship has ended? (2:34)

Is it biblical to explore your body sexually at any age? What our your thoughts on masturbation prior to marriage, ... (3:00)

I was a foster parent for 18 years. Now this child has turned away from me and wants to live ... (2:31)

My husband relentlessly teases our children (grabbing, tickling, remarks). They ask him to stop and he ignores them. It ... (1:58)

I am afraid of my husband. He has been raging and verbally abusive throughout our 15 years of marriage. What ... (3:33)

I have a bipolar friend who is going to be evicted any day from her apartment. She is so overwhelmed ... (1:55)

My husband constantly tells me it is none of my business when I ask him about specific issues that affect ... (3:03)

I am a senior pastor at a church and do some short-term counseling. My question is: "What are some responsibility ... (2:25)

How do I decide what is helpful and what is enabling regarding addicts? (1:40)

A mother of a classmate of my daughter wants to arrange a play date for our daughters. I don't like ... (1:58)

My boyfriend is so busy with his job that he never has any time for me, or even himself. How ... (2:03)

When I was a child, my grandfather molested me. Although I have never discussed it with him, I suspect that ... (1:46)

I often argue with my husband in front of the children. I am trying to stop. How will this ... (2:04)

I feel so lonely. My husband never kisses me, hugs me, or holds my hand. What should I do? (1:56)

My mother passed away and my dad is an abusive alcoholic. I've never dealt with a single problem in my ... (2:10)

After being fired from my job when I was in debt, I entered a debt management program and my father ... (1:31)

I have such a hurtful need to be loved, that when I get into a relationship, I get so focused ... (2:24)

I was the unpaid caregiver for my grandkids. When I stopped over a year ago because I was hurting financially, ... (2:08)

Do you believe that alcoholism is an inherited disease and one will always be an alcoholic and can never learn ... (2:36)

Are there evil people or just really mixed up people? (1:46)

Why do relationships fail? (1:32)

How do you get a 2 year old to stay in time-out? I feel that if I sit with ... (1:22)

Is it normal for a usually quiet, laid back 2 year old to become destructive during a tantrum? Our ... (1:25)

How do I tell or stop my son (17) from dating a non-Christian? This is his first dating experience. (1:16)

We are a Christian family and my son sometimes uses bad language and is disrespectful. What should we do? (1:29)

My son is a freshmen in college three hours away from home. He is a good kid, and he comes ... (1:49)

My spouse and I are legally separated but are trying to work things out. Is it alright for us to ... (1:02)

Try as I may, I cannot believe God loves me. I am a woman with no goals in life ... (1:26)

I have been in love with a man for a couple of years whose situation is very bad. He ... (1:49)

With OCD, how does a person distinguish between valid concerns regarding one's relationship with God and obsessions? I particularly struggle ... (2:42)

I was wrongfully accused of sexual molestation about 6 years ago. The entire family was present and saw me accidentally ... (1:27)

My best friend stopped talking to me a couple months ago. I do not want to lose my friend but ... (1:40)

Our 6 yr old daughter started pulling out her eyebrows and eye lashes in August when she realized first grade ... (2:00)

In all my relationships (parents, friends, husband and in-laws) there is a pattern of treating me poorly. I get a ... (2:10)

I struggle with my spouse. He is very severe with me and is constantly trying to prove his superiority. Please ... (1:30)

My daughter is being harassed at school by a girl bully, who is jealous of her boyfriend. My daughter ... (1:38)

How do you release someone in Ministry? (1:09)

My 18 yr old son has consistently lied to me. How do we begin to gain trust again? (1:48)

I counsel a Christian couple that has been married more than 15 years. They have had an active sex life ... (1:43)

I'm 23 years old. I have doubts that my current career is right for me. I feel an urgency to ... (2:26)

I am not happy with my breast surgery. I can't go back now. What should I do? (2:08)

I have been mutually attracted to this guy in my church for two years. We kissed and it changed things. ... (1:33)

My husband is a sex addict and is undergoing therapy and accountability. He lied to me about being sober ... (1:36)

My marriage problems are causing me anxiety and panic attacks. I don't want to tell my family because I ... (2:24)

My husband is 34 yrs old and is involved in a relationship with a 50 yr old woman. I feel ... (2:22)

I have been married for 12 years to a great guy and we have beautiful children. I recently saw an ... (1:17)

Our 16 yr old daughter is very passive when it comes to relationships. Any suggestions? Is it appropriate at ... (2:48)

What role should feelings play in one's relationship with God and to what extent should they be relied upon (if ... (1:38)

My 16 yrs. old son was caught checking out web sites dealing with specific sexual information. The sites were ... (2:12)

My husband had an affair a year ago. I never told our children or family members. We are trying to ... (1:48)

In your presentation, you focused on what most clinicians identify as bio-chemical causes for depression. You mentioned counseling and anti-depressants ... (1:48)

I love someone, and she said she loved me too. Now she says she never loved me. I want only ... (1:56)

My husband refuses to talk to me and says that he doesn't want to commit to working on our relationship ... (2:50)

I have a 50 yr old woman in my church that recently told me in private that she travels between ... (2:03)

What are some really good resources for helping church leaders in dealing with interpersonal conflict among their team members? (1:31)

Would it be considered normal for a person to be asexual (and not married) or is that an indication that ... (2:08)

My wife & I are obtaining a second mortgage on our house to pay off bills. She has been taking ... (2:10)

How do I build up my personality? (2:41)

I am a woman over 30, unmarried, and not planning to have children. I have an opportunity to donate ... (0:42)

I work with someone who often will take credit for work I did during our staff meetings. What is the ... (2:05)

I caught my husband watching pornography when I was asleep next to him. He said that he would not do ... (2:28)

How can one forgive and forget about an unfaithful partner? Is it possible for true love to continue afterwards? (1:53)

Twelve years of unemployment after my graduate education have left me feeling totally rejected by people, even those I helped ... (2:08)

How do you get power over lust? (2:02)

Should Christians boycott businesses that financially support groups that run counter to God's laws? Why do people compromise so easily ... (1:01)

My wife suffers from some form of social anxiety disorder. Every time she walks into church or any other social ... (2:24)

My husband and I have been dealing with his addiction to pornography for about 12 years. He feels like it ... (2:26)

Can you suggest some steps for true reconciliation between senior parents and adult children? (2:23)

My husband is a new Christian and has asked me a question that I am having a hard time answering. ... (1:11)

My brother and I really don't get along. It feels more like pure hatred than just sibling rivalry. I feel ... (1:55)

While talking about homosexuality, my 17 yr old son was told by his boss that the boss is gay and ... (1:10)

Our church just recently went through a major time of turmoil where about 1/4th of our congregation pulled out. Very ... (2:14)

My son finds it hard to abide by our curfew boundaries. We are not able to reach him as his ... (1:48)

There is a woman who has confided to me that she cuts herself with some frequency. She has also hinted ... (2:05)

My son's girlfriend told me that her mother is gay and is in a long-term on-again off-again relationship with another ... (1:18)

It seems to me that single woman are looking for Jim Carrey and Tom Cruise all wrapped up in ... (1:18)

We are a bi-coastal couple. By that I mean I am from California and my husband is a New Englander. ... (4:27)

I don't like my boyfriend's friends. I trust him, but NOT them and I don't like it when he hangs ... (3:34)

How can I let someone know I'm interested in going out with him? I don't want to communicate that there's ... (3:27)

I have been dating a guy who says he loves me, but when I talk to his friends they seem ... (2:41)

I am dating someone who is so shy and quiet, I find myself carrying the conversations and disclosing way more ... (2:25)

I'm fifteen and I don't know who to ask about this. I don't know how to act at funerals or ... (3:02)

I'm anxious all the time - even when things are going well. Do I have to take medication? (5:35)

What are the warning signs that depression is becoming worse and needs to be addressed professionally? (6:47)

Life just doesn't seem to work for me anymore. I don't know what changed, I just know nothing feels right ... (4:09)

I can't take criticism at all! A semi stranger made a casual remark about me and it really threw me ... (5:26)

I'm overweight. After years of struggling and struggling with this I am finally resigned to it and I'm not going ... (3:43)

I am feeling a lot of stress and anxiety. What are the symptoms of anxiety attacks? Do I see a ... (3:19)

What is bipolar disorder? Can it be treated? (2:07)

I've heard that schizophrenia often shows up for the first time during the college-age years. Are there any warning ... (2:27)

Is there a way to know if I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome or if I'm depressed or just burned out. ... (1:05)

Is there benefit to going into therapy as part of a serious weight-loss plan? What would that be? (2:22)

I have a disability and get around pretty well with my wheelchair. I'd like to know if there's a way ... (1:17)

What does forgiveness look like? For example, can I forgive someone when I still feel angry about that they did? (2:20)

I was offered two jobs. One was secure but boring and the other one was risky. I loved the little ... (4:25)

My company was recently bought by another one and a new manager was brought in. At first we were excited ... (3:10)

My husband wants me to go back to work. We have grown children and we have enough money, so finances ... (3:20)

My husband of 62 years passed away last year. There is nothing left to look forward to, but people are ... (4:45)

My husband's mother is super-emotional and given to anger when she is crossed. My husband feels like he has it ... (4:46)

Why don't I want my ex-husband to get remarried? I certainly don't want to be married to him, but I've ... (3:59)

My husband left the family and caused tremendous pain to me, our grown children and friends. Now he wants to ... (3:01)

I'm in aviation and my whole job is about being away. My wife knew about the demands of my schedule ... (5:27)

My husband is eighteen years older than me and it's really starting to be a problem, now that he's in ... (2:06)

When we go out for dinner my wife asks me to make the decisions on where to go and what ... (3:25)

When my husband and I are in a disagreement how do we get to the crux of the real issues? ... (3:22)

I had an affair that led to the end of an abusive marriage. We ended up getting married and have ... (2:56)

My husband debates and debates and debates. Even if he agrees with what I say he'll take the opposite tack ... (1:27)

My husband was laid off and it's too late for him to start over. he's depressed. I'm depressed. How can ... (3:08)

I'm an optimist I can't help it. This irritates my wife to no end. I can empathize only ... (1:57)

I love my husband but I can't get any sleep he kicks the covers, thrashes around and snores ... (1:46)

My husband and I fight about money all the time. I've heard that fights about money are actually about other ... (4:38)

I serve in the military and have my MBA as well. My wife thinks we would have a lot more ... (5:27)

My husband accepted a job in another state. I am not happy about this because he thinks I am too ... (2:20)

I have a child that is a compulsive liar and I have no idea what to believe, or how to ... (2:06)

My nine year old son has cancer. I don't know how to handle this, or how to prepare him and ... (4:43)

I have a serious (but treatable) form of cancer. Everybody treats me differently now. I don't feel like myself anymore ... (2:40)

I have a new baby and while I'm in love with our little son I don't much like this mothering ... (2:13)

My son was very athletic. A few years ago he was paralyzed in a car accident. He thinks his life ... (3:49)

My parents have an unusually close relationship. They love each other and do everything together. Now that I'm an adult ... (1:37)

When my thirteen year old daughter died our family was decimated. We don't seem whole anymore and we don't know ... (2:47)

I just found out I have a serious and progressive disease. My two kids are adolescents. Should I tell them ... (1:57)

Our son is speech-delayed and getting early intervention services. From time to time somebody will ask me if he's slow ... (1:39)

Our eighteen year old daughter is starting to date. How can we help her know what a healthy dating prospect ... (2:59)

My son is reaching for the stars. He is sixteen and very creative and bright, and has ADD. He ... (4:19)

We had two sons. One of them died in a skiing accident two years ago. Our younger son really struggled ... (4:15)

I'm looking forward to the empty nest. My friends are all distressed at the thought of their children flying the ... (2:17)

My 9 year old daughter wants to ride her bike the 3 blocks to school each day. The route is ... (3:02)

Our three-year old simply will not sleep. She gets up in the middle of the night and fixes a snack ... (4:15)

How do I you teach my 6 1/2 year old to express his frustration/anger in a healthy way? He tends ... (4:38)

Recently my eight year old hit his head and was crying. When I tried to console him he stomped ... (3:06)

How do you handle a 6 year old only child who is VERY social and always wants a friend or ... (4:19)

My father can't accept love from anyone, not even his grown children. I just found out that he has broken ... (3:19)

I'm worried about my adult son. He talks a lot about longing to be with Jesus someday. Is this ever ... (1:53)

Is it better to be completely honest with your children about the mistakes you made when you were younger or ... (2:46)

Do kids ever grow out of sibling rivalry? Is there hope for my grown children? (3:01)

I can't stand it when my teenager apologizes by saying Well I'm SORRY in a way ... (3:45)

My son is in college and lives at home. His room is disgusting I mean really disgusting. My ... (3:50)

My seventeen year old son has started driving and I'm worried all the time. I can't relax, I listen for ... (2:51)

My ex-wife has been treated in the past for emotional and psychiatric issues. I don't know what her status is ... (2:44)

My daughter is so bossy with her little brother. I've noticed lately that he seems to depend on her ... (2:01)

My husband had a daughter out of wedlock eight years ago, before we met. She was raised by her mother ... (3:38)

My grown son suffers from acute anxiety and depression and probably always will. He seems drawn to girls that have ... (4:04)

How do I explain homosexuality to my children? I don't know if it's behavioral or biological. I have gay friends ... (3:03)

My son is a three-year old handful. We know he can get out of hand but we don't like it ... (2:25)

My 16 year old son is into heavy metal music and I cannot stand it. I asked him to please ... (2:25)

My step-father is irritable and controlling, but my mother tolerates his abusive ways. My children are freaked out by him. ... (1:38)

How can I help my 15 year old daughter have a more positive outlook on life? Everything is boring ... (2:30)

My 9 year old daughter suffers from OCD, depression, and anxiety. She is seeing a counselor, is on medication, and ... (2:17)

My daughter is about to go into her senior year of high school. She's had a rough time because we've ... (1:52)

My stepson is belligerent and lazy. He is eighteen and lives with us. I want to like him but ... (2:34)

It's time for our annual family vacation. My nineteen year old wants to stay home. I don't know which ... (2:17)

We have a 15-year old daughter who is a great kid. She's never given us any trouble and she's a ... (2:37)

Our daughter is sleeping with her boyfriend. One of us is upset by this and one of us thinks it's ... (2:45)

My parents are very elderly and I know that our time together is getting shorter. I can't even think ... (5:16)

My father is an extremely meticulous and material-minded businessman. I'm in the ministry and kind of a disappointment to him ... (8:15)

It's family reunion time. Everyone is staying at a nice hotel, where the reunion will be held, but my mother ... (5:57)

Could you talk a little about being unequally yoked? I am finding it isn't as simple a concept as Christian ... (5:03)

How can I know if I'm a rescuer and what can I do if I am one? (3:13)

This sounds unbelievable but our neighbor, a grown man, got tired of the neighborhood kids playing kickball in OUR yard ... (2:16)

There is a woman in my town that I avoid because she comes over all the time, won't leave once ... (2:01)

I know we all strive to balance work and family, but practically speaking, what kind of time-off guidelines do you ... (4:55)

I know of a number of old secrets in my family. I feel like I should get it out ... (4:21)

My friends have been married for decades but have no problem having drag-down-knock-out arguments in front of me. I find ... (2:31)

Why am I afraid of all confrontation and discord? How can I learn to be more comfortable with disagreeing and ... (3:14)

I work in a company where people are very supportive to each other. The problem is that they support and ... (3:32)

Our dad is a pastor and we all go to church together. I know that he is not respected by ... (2:18)

My friend is being treated for cancer and I can't deal with any of it. I hate myself for feeling ... (3:20)

I work really long hours and only have two weeks off each year. I try to spend it with my ... (1:59)

Would God ever approve of divorcing a parent? I can not deal with my father anymore. (3:51)

My family thinks I have a problem with depression but I don't agree. How do I tell them to mind ... (3:12)

My brother apparently felt, and at forty seven still feels, that I got more love, attention, etc than he did. ... (2:48)

My friend and I are supportive and affirming in a way neither of us gets from our families. My problem ... (2:48)

Can you talk about how ostensibly passive people can be controlling? My sister is always hurt or wounded ... (2:03)

How long should a person show a pattern of improved behavior before I can know they have really changed? (4:12)

I'm fifteen and I have a friend who is eighteen. She says she doesn't do drugs anymore but I ... (1:30)

I'm in high school and know a girl who says she's okay but I feel like something's wrong. I can't ... (1:47)

My friend is very sensitive about anyone thinking she's less than perfect. She views people who seek counseling as weak ... (1:57)

I'm a junior in high school. How can I tell people about how great it is to be 'straight-edge ... (1:26)

My roommate is driving me crazy. She doesn't have the same sense of boundaries, cleanliness, manners, taste etc. The worst ... (2:53)

My brother in law has no sense of humor. I mean NONE. When we get together, which is rare, it's ... (1:23)

How do I deal compassionately with a hypochondriac? My friend loves the drama of illness, but there's nothing really wrong ... (4:46)

Everyone in my family has tons of money except me. On the other hand, I have had an amazing career ... (5:02)

How can I forgive an unrepentant person without giving them access to my life? They aren't safe but it doesn't ... (3:00)

My mother is getting older and has let herself go. It's not just her weight, but she isn't ... (1:22)

My father was a workaholic all my life till HE retired. Now he wants a friend and companion (because he ... (4:01)

My best friend was married to a great woman, but their marriage failed and he has since remarried. I stayed ... (2:29)

My best friend never stops talking about her kids and how wonderful they are. When I bring up my kids ... (3:34)

My parents just retired to another state. I'm 32 and feel completely abandoned. Should I uproot and follow them? I ... (1:38)

I'm in my late forties and showing some signs of age like everyone else. My mother thinks I should have ... (2:48)

Can I be gay and a Christian? I love the Lord and gave my life to Him but I feel ... (4:46)

People throw the term co-dependent around all the time, can you define co-dependency and give an example of it? (2:32)

I am in a leadership position at work. My style is to acknowledge that everyone has flaws, starting with me; ... (2:38)

I work with someone who volunteers for extra work. She always claims to be overworked but will immediately move to ... (3:18)

I work in a very creative environment - the product we create is all about entertainment and creativity. I ... (4:14)

Is it common for someone to intentionally fail at something to get someone to step up and take over for ... (2:57)

My husband has a gambling addiction and has essentially bankrupted the family. Otherwise he is a kind and good man. ... (2:20)

How do you have balance with two parents and three children where one child is autistic? (2:02)

Can you talk about the idea of confessing our sins one to another? What does that look like in day ... (3:19)

Can I witness to people and show them God's love without talking religion? People know I'm a Christian, I am ... (5:39)

Can I date multiple people at one time? (1:32)

The Definition of Dating (2:06)

My fiance and I have almost graduated from college. I would like to join the armed services after we get ... (3:53)

I have been married to a man for 24 years who has been described as a narcissist and a loner ... (4:05)

I am a 51 year old, never married female. Is there a point in life when a I should stop ... (4:48)

How can a grandmother help her granddaughter not to be such a high achiever? She can't relax and spends her ... (3:56)

Related to boundaries -- what's the difference between a boundary and a defense mechanism? I hear about "armor" and ... (3:16)

My fella in our 24 year committed relationship has found someone new. He promises he is not in a ... (4:35)

I have a question. In the process of "tolerating and enduring our child's hatred of our boundaries... what ... (2:57)

I was in a committed relationship for 2 years. One year ago we got engaged. We are now ... (3:56)

How do I deal with elderly parents who are controlling? (4:16)

I recently broke up with someone because I think he has a gambling addiction. He tells me it's not ... (2:48)

Recently I went on a first date with someone after meeting them on a Christian dating web site. I ... (3:37)

I procrastinate on really important things and often don't even do them. Like filing my insurance and getting reimbursed, ... (5:18)

When I'm in social situations I find that I have to approach other people, they don't approach me. But when ... (3:28)

I'm 40yrs old, divorced for 5yrs, no kids. I have great relationships and lots of friends. I have ... (4:16)

I am afraid of having friends! What does this mean? Is there help for someone like me? (4:36)

I've been dating a gentleman who is currently going through a divorce. We are highly compatible and care for ... (4:20)

Is masturbation a sin? (4:04)

I have heard that grief is a process. If that is true, then what are the phases of the process ... (6:05)

My husband and I are getting a divorce after 30 yrs of marriage. After extensive marriage counseling, he still is ... (5:13)

My parents were detached and unavailable to me. I do not want to carry the feelings that created in me ... (2:56)

My mother so strongly preferred one of her children over another that now that he has passed away, she no ... (4:13)

We have a soon-to-be 18 yr old child that has refused to attend school or hold a job. He has ... (2:38)

Like a lot of our friends, our 20-something son moved back home while he "figures out what he wants to ... (2:30)

Help! My just turned 3 yr old son has zero interest in potty training. We've purchased all the ... (1:05)

I made a lot of mistakes raising my kids. I am a changed person now and have apologized to my ... (3:21)

I think my roommate has an eating disorder, I never see her eat, she works out for about 2 hours ... (2:28)

Recently I overheard a conversation between my roommate and a boy who I thought she was just "friends" with, they ... (1:26)

My fiance and I are currently planning a wedding. We met with the pastor and he had opinions about ... (2:18)

I currently live in a condo building, and I work at home. My neighbors have an 18 month old ... (2:07)

I'm pregnant and I would not like to know the sex of the baby, however, my husband would like to ... (3:23)

Why, when I awake during the night, am I unable to return to sleep -- I lay in bed and ... (4:12)

I caught my son in a compromising situation with his young girlfriend - he is 15 and so is she. ... (3:51)

My husband is extremely overweight and in poor health. He WON'T do anything to improve his health. Any ... (2:51)

When riding in the car with my husband, I seem to HAVE to tell him how to drive. This ... (2:30)

I have a friend who talks incessantly. This makes me so stressed. She is a good friend otherwise. ... (3:24)

Am I compulsive.. I HAVE TO and ALWAYS line my shoes up, I honk 4 times in a row ... (2:05)

When I want to get serious and commit myself to an exclusive relationship, I have panic attacks and need to ... (4:03)

I am a former Muslim and have been a Christian over 14 years. I feel deep passion for Christ and ... (4:17)

It is difficult to overcome the scars of molestation. If healing requires forgiveness, when there's been no justice, it feels ... (5:07)

How do I go about establishing a manageable family schedule? (4:21)

I am currently in a relationship with a person I would call commitment phobic. He is really good at starting ... (3:44)

When I give someone in my life a choice and let them know how I will respond based on their ... (4:04)

HELP! I am what you would call the controlling freak and criticizer! I see myself and hear myself and I ... (3:34)

I feel like my mother depends on me for her happiness. She doesn't have a life apart from me, but ... (4:14)

I have learned to never trust anyone because I will be hurt. My stepdad hurt me. My mom blamed me. ... (4:21)

I work with someone who is not a team player and always looking out for his own good and not ... (5:06)

I have heard you talk about core groups of friends. My question is: do the members of my ... (2:56)

What can I do when my spouse doesn't want anything to change? She isn't abusive, but she's not allowing me ... (2:05)

Two years after we moved to another state my husband asked for a divorce. We have two young children. Because ... (2:44)

What makes a person a critical person? Can they change? (2:55)

When I am with my son (age 30) I feel like I'm in the vicinity of a black hole. ... (3:22)

What is the best response to give my 13 year old son when he acts and speaks disrespectfully to me? (4:01)

Why can't I spend even a little money on myself without feeling guilt and anxiety? I only feel okay about ... (4:29)

Do you have any advice on how to find my true career or purpose? Are there steps or helps? (3:14)

How can I know if I'm taking a need to the wrong relationship, and how do I determine which relationship ... (3:25)

My husband's mother told him years ago that she had wanted to have an abortion when she found out she ... (2:10)

What are your thoughts about group-dating? Pros and cons? (2:40)

How does dating differ from courtship? (2:26)

I'm 52 and don't know how to look ahead. There doesn't seem to be anything to look forward ... (5:03)

At what age should teenagers get a job to earn their own spending money? (2:02)

My mother is about 70 and still caring for her own mother. She is really tired and sometimes not very ... (1:51)

We have never been close to my husband's parents because they smoke constantly and we don't enjoy being around it. ... (1:41)

My Dad just turned 80 -- he has never said "I love you" to me. I tell him "I love ... (2:11)

How can change be good and not frightening? (2:26)

My heart has healed and now I want to reconcile with my family after several months of my rude avoidance ... (2:44)

How do I treat a family member I no longer respect or love? I don't want to acknowledge this person ... (2:16)

To the shock of all who loved and thought we knew him, a co-worker has just been arrested for having ... (2:16)

I have a 15 year old daughter who is starting to chat with strangers online. It really bothers me; can ... (2:01)

I took my 15-year old daughter to the doctor and the doctor mentioned the new immunization for HPV. I feel ... (2:07)

One of my friends is about to buy a ring for his girlfriend but he's got doubts about their relationship. ... (2:16)

My husband and I have friends who are at about the same levels of life as us. However, I feel ... (1:36)

How do you know when it's the right time in a marriage to start having kids? (2:06)

We need some advice. We have a 7 year old daughter who is more than a typical challenge. She is ... (2:14)

Why doesn't God perform a miracle and prove Himself? (2:27)

My father is pressuring me to go to college. I do not know what I want to do with my ... (1:28)

My son is developing some behaviors that are concerning me. He is a germ freak and must have everyone wash ... (1:53)

How does dating differ from courtship? (2:56)

I'm 52 and don't know how to "look ahead." There doesn't seem to be anything to look forward to. How ... (2:08)

How picky should I be about first dates? I turn them down sometimes for a wide range of reasons - ... (1:17)

I'm not sure I want to marry, but I desire intimacy and a healthy relationship. Does that always involve marriage? (2:30)

After years of isolation as a single parent, how do I rediscover who I am and what I want from ... (2:01)

In a dating relationship, is there an appropriate point to reveal something from my life that could have a serious ... (2:01)

When I became a single mother with a three year old and a six year old my life was consumed ... (2:37)

I've met someone I would like to date. I don't think he's a Christian yet so when is too soon ... (:38)

How can I know for sure if someone is the right person for me? (3:57)

How do I communicate my boundaries to someone I'm dating? (1:55)

Is it wrong for a woman to ask a man for a date? (2:04)

What do you think about online dating services that promise to match you up with your "perfect soul mate?" Do ... (5:59)

Is it ok to marry for security and companionship if you are not in love? (4:46)

I am a widow with young children who would like to begin dating again, but my children don't want me ... (4:23)

I am a single guy with a lot of life goals. I feel like dating and marriage would make these ... (2:56)

Do you think for each person there is one person out there that they are supposed to marry? (4:24)

My girlfriend is very emotional. She doesn't just cry at sad movies - she falls completely apart. It's embarrassing and ... (:44)

How important do you believe physical attraction is in a dating relationship? (3:29)

What do you think about dating someone of a different faith or belief system? (1:46)

The person I'm in love with had a troubled past. I've noticed that most of my past relationships have been ... (1:48)

I am dating a man who has two children who are rude to me. Their father thinks I'm imagining it, ... (4:31)

What are some of the deal-breakers when choosing a spouse? (3:21)

If a woman breaks the engagement, should she give the ring back? What if the man breaks the engagement? (1:28)

How young is too young to get married? (2:04)

What are some of the red flags when deciding whether or not to move forward in a dating relationship? (3:20)

I am no longer married and would like to reenter the dating world. As a Christian I don't believe ... (2:44)

How do I compassionately tell a "toxic" person that I don't want a relationship with them anymore? (2:49)