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Our Family Shapes Our Thinking (4:04)

Experiences Affect Our Responses and Alter Our Choices (5:26)

Childhood Development Affects Adult Perspective (4:38)

Families Give Resources That Affect Your Personality (2:37)

Humans Need Human Contact (5:32)

How Do You Receive Comfort? (3:08)

We Have a Need for Freedom (4:05)

The Need for Appropriate Structure (2:51)

Families Need To Encourage Forward Development (2:33)

Welcome to website (4:03)

We Need Relationship Boundaries (6:15)

How to Visualize a Boundary (5:57)

Keeping Good In and Bad Out (2:58)

The Concept of Boundaries (4:11)

Verbal Boundaries (3:46)

What Do Boundaries Protect? (6:58)

Boundary Problems' Symptoms (4:18)

Sowing and Reaping with Boundaries (3:10)

Handle Irresponsibility in Relationships (3:32)

We Do Influence Others (3:48)

The Importance of Accountability (2:44)

Concede Control (6:42)

Respect Others' Boundaries (4:24)

The Difference Between Hurt and Harm (2:59)

Boundaries Require Action (3:16)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Assess your Life (6:37)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Seek Outside Help (6:42)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Receive Help (4:21)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Let the Bad Go (3:03)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Take Ownership (2:26)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Say No (6:13)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Fail First (3:28)

External Resistances to Boundaries (6:05)

Internal Resistances to Boundaries (2:28)

Two Ways of Falling in Love (6:54)

Good Reasons for Falling in Love (5:47)

Be Emotionally Present and Available (5:37)

Individuality is Healthy (4:24)

Mature Expectations about Perfection (4:22)

Maintain Total Commitment (2:11)

Don't Control Your Partner (2:58)

A Biblical Definition of Love (3:03)

Purposes of Love (6:56)

Love Prevents Self-Absorption (2:45)

Love Requires Need (2:35)

Love is a Developing Process (2:41)

Problems with Love (5:37)

How to be a Loving Person (6:38)

Why Values are Important (5:19)

Happiness is a Result, not a Value (5:10)

The Value of Loving God (6:15)

The Value of Loving Others (4:49)

The Value of Honesty (6:34)

The Value of Faithfulness (4:17)

The Values of Compassion and Forgiveness (4:40)

The Value of Holiness (2:43)

Why Our Past is Important (5:14)

Our Past can Still Hurt in the Present (3:07)

The Past is a Foundation for the Future (2:39)

How Our Past may Affect Relationships (4:04)

Dealing with Post Traumatic Stress (4:56)

Messages from the Past (6:30)

Predictors of Divorce (4:54)

Categories Where We Contain Potential (6:43)

Potential is Crucial in Relationships (6:43)

Sometimes Potential is Hidden (2:06)

Passivity Blocks Potential (4:19)

Unlocking Potential Needs Support (2:01)

Vision is the Foundation for Unlocking Potential (2:55)

Other People will Help You Unlock Potential (4:04)

Deal with Baggage (3:23)

Unlocking Potential is a Step by Step Process (2:25)

What is Blame (6:06)

Blame Takes Us Away from Ourselves (3:52)

Blame's a Consequence of Our Fallen Nature (2:49)

God's Design for Us (6:03)

Blame Obscures Ownership and Responsibility (6:26)

God Has Given Us Control Of Naming Our Problems (6:19)

Take Responsibility of Your Issues and Confess (4:13)

Control Yourself not Others (4:59)

Stop Blaming by Looking at Yourself (2:06)

The Importance of Empathy (3:03)

Empathy Connects People in Deep Ways (3:28)

Empathize because God Does (2:48)

Empathy is an Expression of Love (2:03)

Empathy is an Involved Activity (3:03)

Levels of Empathy (4:23)

Focus on Perception not Reality (2:37)

Obstacles to Empathy (5:31)

An Empathizer Knows What Empathy Feels Like (1:55)

An Empathizer Perceives Feelings Underneath the Facts (4:53)

The Usefulness of Non-Verbal Cues (2:28)

Empathy is Ultimately about Love and Grace (3:03)

Listening is Active (2:35)

Purposes of Listening (3:45)

Listening Takes Patience (3:22)

Your Point of View Might be a Problem (3:54)

Listening is not the Same as Agreeing (2:26)

Don't Under-Identify and Don't Over-Identify (3:17)

Be Misunderstood for the Relationship's Sake (2:00)

Politely Tell a Non-Stop Talker to Stop Talking (2:25)

Give Full Attention in Conversation (2:29)

Healthy Listening Requires Empathy (5:33)

The Power of Silence (1:59)

Learn to Ask Active Questions (6:20)

Dysfunction Defined (2:14)

Communication Breaks Down if We Fear for Our Safety (2:51)

Assess Your Communication Skills (2:48)

Misconstrued Feelings and Ideas (3:13)

Learn to Listen (2:24)

Examples of Poor Communication (7:16)

Focus on Affirmation Not the Facts (3:55)

Listening is About the Other Person (2:11)

Don't Manage Other People's Perceptions (7:18)

Balance Grace and Truth (2:38)

God Fights with us in a Healthy Way (2:10)

Fighting Serves Love and Solves Problems (2:38)

Fighting Increases Passion (2:22)

Types of Fighting (3:03)

Healthy Characteristics of Fighting (7:13)

Negative and Unhealthy Fighting (6:48)

Agree to Disagree (6:50)

Stay Focused on the Problem (2:46)

A Fight Needs at Least One Adult to Reason (3:02)

Celebrate the differences in people! Why it's important and what you'll get from it. (5:15)

Apologize first and see what happens next. (1:30)

To accept or not to accept? When to affirm, when to push, and when to do both. (5:52)

"Need-And-Love-and-Give-And-Take" Spotting the problems. (4:20)

Boundaries and consequences. How to bring about behavior change in others. (5:11)

You have more power than you think when dealing with that difficult person. Here are some tools you can use. (7:10)

Time doesn't heal all wounds, but YOU can start the process in your relationships. (2:20)

Watch for change in that difficult person in your life. Some things you'll see when change begins. (7:20)

The "Love Vocabulary." Learning what to say and what not to say. (6:25)

Timing Is Everything: When you say something is just as important as what you say. (6:38)

The two worst "compliments" you can give! (2:48)

The incredible power of words. Choose them wisely. (6:50)

Life with a "Button-Pusher." Sound familiar? (7:21)

Your "button pushers:" Who they are and what they do. (6:29)

Time-proven ways to fail in dealing with your "button pusher." (5:07)

People are not projects - resist the urge to work on them. (5:44)

Enabling. When it turns out YOU'RE the person who makes it all possible. (1:41)

Denial doesn't help. Learn to incorporate the good and the bad into your life. (4:28)

The waiting game: There's a difference between hoping and wishing. (2:34)